Over the years, there has been a saying that ” If you want a woman to comply to your requests, try using flattery to persuade her.” Really I wonder if every or any man can get away with this with all women. It may have worked a couple of times, in fact it has worked 98 percent of the time used. Flattery plays well with women. YES! But it doesn’t sit still. She will always refer back to it.
Hank Ketcham- Flattery is like chewing gum. Enjoy it, but don’t swallow it.
Perhaps women have been complying with this over the years.
Flattery is the worst and fastest way of showing our esteem – Jonathan Swift
Flattery is a form of positive energy which men use to compliment or entice women when they need an instant result from them; it’s usually used instead of enforcing them to bend to their will.
Forms of Flattery used on women by men:
- Men flatter women with words, lies, compliments and gestures.
- Listening attentively to a woman talk for hours, even when she sounds very boring.
- Pretending to have turned a new leaf by acting like a saint or being over sincere.
- Showing interests in her accomplishments even if they make no sense to him.
A woman care about actions more than words, empty juicy flattery with nothing to back it up will only get her to pay attention initially, but will not go too far with her.
I do like flattery. I wouldn’t bank on it’s worth, depending on who it came from, but it’s still nice. Kind of like candy. Not very nutritious, but tasty in small quantities.
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😀 True Rob. Just to enjoy the taste of it but not to be swallowed. Have a great day!
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I agree. Actions are worth more than juicy empty words. Nice piece, Eddaz 👍
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Thanks Joseyphina for your comment💞
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That’s it in a nutshell, Eddaz. Have a great day, too! ❤
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My pleasure 😊
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Thanks dear💕
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💝
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Good points, well made eddaz 🙂
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Love your comments😘
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likewise!
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Once in a while, at the right moment, flattery can be a boon to salve wounds, but over all, not worth much. Real honest actions speak louder than words. Just sayin’.
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I get your point. Actions truly speak louder.
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For me personally, anyway. I think it’s also an “age” thing. the more life you experience the easier it is to tell the difference between real and fake, honest and deceptive.
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I’ve always liked the saying, “You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do.” I like the Hank Ketcham quote a lot, too. Great post!
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Flattery is overrated. Without action, it means nothing. Great post!
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I really do hope I have personally gotten to that stage😃, anyways like you wrote it here, one become wiser with experience. Thanks for the words full of wisdom.
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Thanks Robyn. I appreciate your comments.
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Thanks for reading dear 💝.
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I kind of got off point, but I agree – actions do speak louder than words
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You’re welcome 😊
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Nice Post! Flattery will get you no where. Don’t need it and don’t usually trust it. I have 3 sisters and our Daddy taught us all about flattery vs. compliments. xP
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😀😃
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Oh that’s so great. It’s one thing I also wish to do when the time comes 😃. Appreciate your comment.
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I think flattery is lovely. I give it and receive it. I give it with no agenda. I receive it humbly. If a lady is wearing a nice perfume I’ll tell her. If a man has cool shoes on I’ll tell him. I think flattery is a very positive and uplifting thing.
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Yes flattery is good when there are no lies or deceitful intentions involved. ☺
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True. Thanks for reading💞
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Flattery is a dangerous thing. Using it too profusely can lead you down an alleyway from which there is no escape. Yet it’s something men do all the time and let’s not kid ourselves of the reason why most of the time…
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What do women want really?
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Yes they do. Both of them.
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Hmm! Who really knows!
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Not every lady enjoys flattery.. and not every man flatters..AND they are the ones who are made for each other..😂
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😀😀
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Flattery is lovely. Any woman will agree on that. I saw my wife over FaceTime a few days ago and I told her: “Man, you hair is so long and I almost forgot how Beautiful and Stunning you are”. She did not say anything back to me. I guess what I’m trying to say is: It depends on the situation and the woman. Flattery can let you get away with many things, but also if you don’t do it enough it will also get you in trouble.
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The thing with flattery from most men is ladden with hidden agenda. For example a man compliments a woman so that he can get something in return.
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Men and hidden agendas 😀..
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