First lady
She’s nice, very caring, sexy, pays attention to your feelings, always there to answer your calls, picks and returns your calls without hesitation, she’s a good girl and can’t hide her feelings towards you, you were off the phone for 1 week and you got enough messages and missed calls from her and she always says she cares about you.
Second lady
Also nice, doesn’t really pay attention to your feelings, very attractive, sexy, loves to hang out more with her friends, independent, flirtatious lady, you were off the phone for 1 week and she never attempted calling but she always says she cares about you.
Which lady would you choose to keep dating and consider spending your life with.
I’ll choose Lady 1 because action speaks louder than voice.
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Is this a trick question? Me? I’d pick number 1, if I felt the same way about her.
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Hmmmm, there are traits in both that are appealing. I’m all for a woman who shows how she feels, but doesn’t feel compelled to remind me of it all of the time. I also like someone who has their own life and doesn’t live vicariously through me. It applies great pressure when someone essentially makes me their hobby. That’s when love becomes possession/obsession…
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Peter Thanks for reading and choosing.
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Lol. Sonofabeach it’s not a trick question, it’s just as it is in the society now and men sometimes are biased. Thanks for reading and choosing💞
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You’re gladly welcome!
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Well, society as a whole seems to be in the can lately. I feel for anybody who’s out there and dating right now. Doesn’t sound fun. 😏
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There’s no 1.5 lady?
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Paul thanks for reading and commenting but I don’t really understand what you mean when you say”it applies great pressure when someone essentially makes me their hobby”.
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Really it’s so bad out there in the dating thing, it’s like a war zone instead of something to be enjoyed 😀
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Haha Rob😀 common..maybe next time there will be 1.5 lady. But tell me which is closely related to your choice.
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I’m closer to 1, but not in absolute terms. How’s that for dodging a question? 😀
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Lol. Rob literarily 1.5 lady is the all pretentious one that shows her real self when she has what she wants, I will probably include her next time 😁 thanks for pointing her out..
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I’ve been with people… well, a person, who basically wasn’t really interested in anything and essentially made looking after me her hobby. Everything she did was essentially with me in mind and I found it really disturbing. Even after she got a job she would still make me the subject of everything she did. It felt like she was just obsessed rather than any actual love. I get some women like to take care of their man, but there’s a difference between taking care and coming across a bit… I don’t know… psycho, I suppose.
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Wow that’s actually to the extreme. I totally agree with you. It’s not healthy for a woman to be that way nor for the man in that position, can be indeed scary😁. Thanks for explaining.
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That’s what I’ve gathered from people here on WP and friends I have who are dating. Sounds terrible. Hope I’m never out there again. 😃
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You’re welcome 🙂 I’m sure it can work the other way around too. I know blokes are guilty of getting obsessed. I’ve done it once or twice. Though, admittedly, I’ve never made a girlfriend my hobby. Haha.
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“…words bear little meaning, whenever behavior doesn’t align with their message”
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Hopefully not. I pray for you not to be out there my anymore my friend.
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Hahaha! You and me both! And I wish you the best of luck to anyone out there. 😊
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Okay if I was a guy, and I’m not, I would pick #1 because she is most like me 🙂
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Lol. Yea I know what you mean Paul and it’s terrible when men get obsessed. I once dated a guy that got terribly obsessed with me and I had to run for my life..it was alike danger screaming at me😀
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Hmm. That’s true. But if the behaviour aligns with the words what would you do?
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Thanks dear😀
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Geminilvr reading some of your posts truly says that you are like her and it shows that you are a great woman 💞
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Thank you eddaz 😘
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You are welcome Geminilvr 😘
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You’re welcome. And, never ever settle! Ever. 😊
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Great advice 😘
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You give them the benefit of the doubt…give trust until broken?
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I will choose any kind of lady
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Neither cause I don’t swing that way, lol!
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I would choose the woman that I had more fun being with. It would not matter to me if she called or not because most likely I would not have my phone on anyway.
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