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This is Life

When I went to school, they

asked me what I wanted to be

when I grew up. I wrote down

“happy.”  They told me I didn’t

understand the assignment

and I told them they didn’t

understand life.

John Lennon

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We Only Need Men To Have Children

I absolutely don’t support this statement nor this action which is becoming rampant in today’s society. Some women have decided to demote themselves by saying all they need men for is to have children. This mind set leading to frivolous actions comes with lots of complications we never envisage. I felt very uncomfortable when a close friend said this to me and had to set her straight.

I’m a woman with needs which doesn’t include stooping low in search of men just to bring innocent children into the world and then zoom off like nothing happened, what would be my explanation to them when they are older.

We need men…point blank…just as men need us but for the right reasons procreation is one of them but not the major reason. Both sexes want to be loved, deserve respect for each other and need someone to lean on through communication.

If dating each other doesn’t work out or the marriage collapsed when least expected, if it’s unrepearable, then try searching for someone else. Despite all actions taken to win a man’s heart in a relationship or gain respect from one’s husband, peradventure it doesn’t work out or isn’t going as we hoped it would, we need to accept where life has taken us to, learn and modify our actions.

Don’t give up on your heart’s desire but do things the right way!!!

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Stranger In Countryside

He set out, without being aware of the circumstances

Ascertaining the dimensions of the dungeon

Wondering amidst the hidden vultures lurking around

Four paces to the teasing wall

Two steps away from the vault

Stranger in the countryside

On a journey seemingly set to change doom

Damp atmosphere convulsing limbs

Menace of fearful images ravening above

Antique clocks tickling away without concern

He hurriedly descended on mission of enormous rats

Spirited stranger of achievements

Gone back home with trophy of the brave

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Why We Are Dating Less In The Real World

Dating is becoming more stressful, tell me otherwise…Heartbreak here and there, disappointment, lies, lack of trust, catfishing…yeah right…catfishing but unfortunately people are dating less in the real world of meeting for the first time instead people are starting to meet online which has led to the risk of catfishing but what are we left with?

Knowing about a person online before showing interest seems emotionally comfortable for lots of people. Post your profile, pictures, hobbies, etcetera etcetera…if you don’t like your match move on quickly before developing unessecessary ties. If you are lucky to meet a good match, do a deep research before taking the next stage. It’s tough doing this in the real world cause emotional ties would have been developed already and gets sickening when you can’t break off without feeling weak.

-I personally tried online dating which was way safer for me, call it what you like but I was never catfished, maybe because I was smart about it or call it ‘lucky me.’

-It’s easier to dig around online before finally meeting the person and cutting off the friendship as soon as possible.

-We are dating less in the real world because from various researches, online dating has paid off for many, and me inclusive, although some have been unlucky; apparently is expected.

– its easier not to develop emotional ties which happens too often in the real world.

-From my own perspective dating less in the real world has more advantages than meeting people face to face. Although I might be wrong, I believe if you are smart about it, it would definitely be worth the effort.

Kindly contribute your opinion, it would be appreciated. Thanks.

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How to Increase Your Sex Stamina

The most embarrassing thing that can happen to a man in a sexually active age is if he gets into bed with his spouse to have sex and just a couple of minutes after the whole excitement of having an adventure, it gets cut short by a premature ejaculation. Have you ever experienced this?

How to increase your sex stamina

Sex is very important to us and should be enjoyed as much as possible but how would we achieve this when aren’t mentally, physically, or emotionally active enough. Your sexual performance is crucial to your relationship, this has been overlooked severally by many and it’s time you decide to say NO to bad sex.

You can increase your sex stamina to some extent by preparing your body, mind and soul…HOW?

If you believe you have a low sex stamina, first thing is to accept that fact, then prepare your mind towards having a fun-filled sex life but be ready to make sacrifices.

How to increase your sex stamina

Next on your list is to start exercising, practice yoga, avoid sex stimulants, get to know your partner well enough, have it in mind that you want to have sex for the right reasons best known to you.

How to increase your sex stamina

Apart from the above mentioned practices which stimulates sex hormones, you need to apply discipline on your eating habits. Hope this works for both men and women.

Live healthy… sex happily.

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Dear Patient

Dear patient

I’m your doctor

I do my best in treating my patients

I heal when they are ill

I help them realise how important their health is

But how do I cope when you open all for me to see

YES I’m a professional

know the difference between appropriate and inappropriate

Dear Patient treat me fairly

I’m not mentally ill

I have no excuses but I’m also human.

I love you but I don’t love you

Your health is important to me.

 

Why We Love Sexting

When I was a teenager I do believe there was nothing like sexting or maybe there was but I wasn’t aware, now I’m older and sexting is the main thing. I kind of love to go further into it but first, we need to understand what it is and accept it’s movement which comes with advantages depending on who is involved, also the disadvantages especially on teenagers.

According to Wikipedia, sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually explicit messages, photographs, or images, primarily between mobile phones.

I got so intense into knowing more then I did a research on why some people love sexting and here is what I discovered.

Why we love sexting

“Sexting is quite exciting because it’s almost the same as physical intimacy but at the same time you can allow yourself to do more than you can in real life. Sexting is a great way to start a relationship or develop them”

“We make new friends, strangers become so close, you can share anything about sex with them without even knowing who they are, you get to know each other’s sexual preferences, discuss, share and have fun”

“In marriage, it’s a continuation of an intimate relationship that stimulates bonding chemicals in your brain, and makes hotter sex when you have it.”

My own opinion of why we love sexting is that it arouses excitement between the male and female by creating an imaginary sexual act to quench the energized appetite for intimacy. If it has to be done, then it has to be carried out in caution because technology is like the devil itself, sexting should be enjoyed between couples, but not as a way to cheat on your partner or deprive your spouse of the real act.

Your opinion will be appreciated. Thanks for reading…

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Good Things Happen To Good People

No matter how hard it might be

Perhaps the baggage is too heavy to carry

Disappointments here and there

People expecting so much you can’t give

Eventually there will come a time

The light will shine on you

Good things happen to good people.

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Renewal Of Your Mind

The mind is like an orbit revolving in space. The power it evokes is enough to determine where you are positioned in your life, however, if the mind isn’t powerful enough to move boundaries then it needs to be developed. How is this done?

It’s done through the renewal of your mind, you need to become fully aware of your thoughts, sensations, the conscious, subconscious and unconscious parts of your senses. The sleeping cells in your brain will awaken from slumber when it is challenged.

You have to explore your mind, delve into the space left untouched for so long out of ignorance, try to become sensitive to your environment, think outside the box, learn meditation, learn self-awareness.

These techniques will highlight parts of your mind which will help in the way of your life, career, relationships, the whole lot of things that you ought to have experienced but never too late to achieve, hence it inspires you to strive higher toward the shining pinnacle of perfection.

The mind needs information else you will be restricted only to the facts it has been able to gather, when you feed your mind with more information you will be able to gather more knowledge that you can access at any time, you can transform this knowledge through brainstorming into something beyond your own imagination, you also can extend this knowledge far and wide which can find its way back to further advance you.

Over time I have endeavored on renewing my mind which helps me keep up with events revolving around me, updates me on how much I have achieved, and yet to accomplish. It’s vital to note that “seeking” will always help you to find everything that is yours.

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