Tag Archives: research

What is your Love Language?

Understanding the love Language between you and your partner can help improve your relationship. According to research, there are five love languages – words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch. Find out which love language suits you the most and that of your partner.

  • Words of affirmation – Expressing appreciation and affection verbally.
  • Acts of service – Doing things for your partner to show your love.
  • Receiving gifts – Expressing your love through giving and receiving gifts.
  • Quality time – Spending quality and meaningful time with your partner.
  • Physical touch – Showing your love through physical affection.

I would love to emphasize words of affirmation because they work very well for me and my spouse. So, what I do is express my appreciation and affection verbally. It helps convey my feelings and shows that he is loved, respected, and valued, and he does the same.

The love language of one person is not necessarily the love language of another – Gary Chapman

Image Credit: Pexels

The Smell of a Baby

Have you noticed the feeling that sparks up when you embrace a new born baby to your bosom, phew..It’s a sensational one that tickles the brain and makes you want to gobble up the baby. I have cuddled babies in my arms several times, and I began to ponder on it why they smell so sweet even without application of any baby powder, baby oil or ointment. This is a natural phenomenon which I realised that scientists have been carrying out researches on for years.

smell-of-a-baby1

You might have noticed the unresistant sniff you take when you lift a baby in your hands, the scent is one that makes you want to hold the baby tight in your arms and never let go, constant sniff of a baby by the mother or someone very close to the baby, brings out this unusual youthfulness and joy to the person.

The smell is so attractive that if it were possible to bottle up the smell and manufacture it into a cream or perfume, lots of people would have done so, unfortunately I don’t think anyone has done this, probably they’ve tried…get it right that it’s just the gift from God that comes along with the baby itself.

babys-smell

In Frontiers of Psychology, scientists carried out a research where two groups of 15 women were presented, one group had women that had given birth within six weeks and the other who had never had babies with the smell taken from the baby pajamas while scanning their brains.

Result showed that those that had never had babies responded positively to the smell-with odor familiarity, pleasantness and more, even though the babies weren’t theirs’, same with the mothers… their brains responded to the trigger of smell from the pajamas, but their was a distinct response from the mothers to the smell of their babies than to the smell of those that weren’t.

The researches concluded that the smell from babies can act as a catalyst for mechanism of bonding between the mother to infant and infant to mother.

The smell of babies is the best I have ever known, except if there’s one I’m not aware of yet😘😘

💟💟