Healthy relationships create an atmosphere for friendship and courtship. It comprises trust, honesty, respect, and loyalty so you have hope for an ideal relationship based on this foundation. It’s not always as easy as it sounds because there’s bound to be conflicts, disagreements, miscommunications and this happens because we are human and no one is perfect.
Therefore, before going into any relationship, remember your partner isn’t perfect, neither are you so don’t expect a relationship without flaws.
Ideas on building the Ideal Relationship.
- Acknowledge each other’s feelings
- Respect for each other.
- Never condemn your partner
- Accept each other’s flaws.
- Accept you made mistakes and adjust.
- Always communicate through talking, emailing, texting or written letters.
- Don’t pretend to be perfect nor act saintly.
- Help each other.
- Build trust.
If the following doesn’t work, then you may need to take a break and figure out what you both want from each other.
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We were supposed to be friends with benefits but what happened to that?
We weren’t supposed to fall in love, what happened to sex and fun only?
All I needed was someone to feel free around and be sensual with…
Falling in love wasn’t supposed to happen to us…staying out of love; definitely…
I’ve missed the point and she might hurt my feelings, she’s gonna walk out of my life…
I feel fear; I hear danger; It’s a mess; My anxiety level is high; God help me…
Sex and love aren’t for us, perhaps sex..sex…sex…sex was meant to be…
Yes it’s better to play by the rules but falling in love with your friend along the way isn’t a bad thing, never assume and conclude on things you can’t control, don’t bother shutting love out of your heart, It creeps in when least expected. It’s a beautiful feeling but a much beautiful one when it’s felt on both sides.
If it happens, allow it to grow because if it’s meant to be then it becomes much more than sex.
Any opinions? Please share…
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Loving you is all I can think of.
Caring for you is all I’ve ever known.
Writing you poems is my way of expressing
My feelings for you.
Accepting you into my life
Is the best move I’ve ever made.
I love you sweetheart….
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Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.
Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.
Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.
Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…