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We Only Need Men To Have Children

I absolutely don’t support this statement nor this action which is becoming rampant in today’s society. Some women have decided to demote themselves by saying all they need men for is to have children. This mind set leading to frivolous actions comes with lots of complications we never envisage. I felt very uncomfortable when a close friend said this to me and had to set her straight.

I’m a woman with needs which doesn’t include stooping low in search of men just to bring innocent children into the world and then zoom off like nothing happened, what would be my explanation to them when they are older.

We need men…point blank…just as men need us but for the right reasons procreation is one of them but not the major reason. Both sexes want to be loved, deserve respect for each other and need someone to lean on through communication.

If dating each other doesn’t work out or the marriage collapsed when least expected, if it’s unrepearable, then try searching for someone else. Despite all actions taken to win a man’s heart in a relationship or gain respect from one’s husband, peradventure it doesn’t work out or isn’t going as we hoped it would, we need to accept where life has taken us to, learn and modify our actions.

Don’t give up on your heart’s desire but do things the right way!!!

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Why We Are Dating Less In The Real World

Dating is becoming more stressful, tell me otherwise…Heartbreak here and there, disappointment, lies, lack of trust, catfishing…yeah right…catfishing but unfortunately people are dating less in the real world of meeting for the first time instead people are starting to meet online which has led to the risk of catfishing but what are we left with?

Knowing about a person online before showing interest seems emotionally comfortable for lots of people. Post your profile, pictures, hobbies, etcetera etcetera…if you don’t like your match move on quickly before developing unessecessary ties. If you are lucky to meet a good match, do a deep research before taking the next stage. It’s tough doing this in the real world cause emotional ties would have been developed already and gets sickening when you can’t break off without feeling weak.

-I personally tried online dating which was way safer for me, call it what you like but I was never catfished, maybe because I was smart about it or call it ‘lucky me.’

-It’s easier to dig around online before finally meeting the person and cutting off the friendship as soon as possible.

-We are dating less in the real world because from various researches, online dating has paid off for many, and me inclusive, although some have been unlucky; apparently is expected.

– its easier not to develop emotional ties which happens too often in the real world.

-From my own perspective dating less in the real world has more advantages than meeting people face to face. Although I might be wrong, I believe if you are smart about it, it would definitely be worth the effort.

Kindly contribute your opinion, it would be appreciated. Thanks.

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How to Increase Your Sex Stamina

The most embarrassing thing that can happen to a man in a sexually active age is if he gets into bed with his spouse to have sex and just a couple of minutes after the whole excitement of having an adventure, it gets cut short by a premature ejaculation. Have you ever experienced this?

How to increase your sex stamina

Sex is very important to us and should be enjoyed as much as possible but how would we achieve this when aren’t mentally, physically, or emotionally active enough. Your sexual performance is crucial to your relationship, this has been overlooked severally by many and it’s time you decide to say NO to bad sex.

You can increase your sex stamina to some extent by preparing your body, mind and soul…HOW?

If you believe you have a low sex stamina, first thing is to accept that fact, then prepare your mind towards having a fun-filled sex life but be ready to make sacrifices.

How to increase your sex stamina

Next on your list is to start exercising, practice yoga, avoid sex stimulants, get to know your partner well enough, have it in mind that you want to have sex for the right reasons best known to you.

How to increase your sex stamina

Apart from the above mentioned practices which stimulates sex hormones, you need to apply discipline on your eating habits. Hope this works for both men and women.

Live healthy… sex happily.

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Why We Love Sexting

When I was a teenager I do believe there was nothing like sexting or maybe there was but I wasn’t aware, now I’m older and sexting is the main thing. I kind of love to go further into it but first, we need to understand what it is and accept it’s movement which comes with advantages depending on who is involved, also the disadvantages especially on teenagers.

According to Wikipedia, sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually explicit messages, photographs, or images, primarily between mobile phones.

I got so intense into knowing more then I did a research on why some people love sexting and here is what I discovered.

Why we love sexting

“Sexting is quite exciting because it’s almost the same as physical intimacy but at the same time you can allow yourself to do more than you can in real life. Sexting is a great way to start a relationship or develop them”

“We make new friends, strangers become so close, you can share anything about sex with them without even knowing who they are, you get to know each other’s sexual preferences, discuss, share and have fun”

“In marriage, it’s a continuation of an intimate relationship that stimulates bonding chemicals in your brain, and makes hotter sex when you have it.”

My own opinion of why we love sexting is that it arouses excitement between the male and female by creating an imaginary sexual act to quench the energized appetite for intimacy. If it has to be done, then it has to be carried out in caution because technology is like the devil itself, sexting should be enjoyed between couples, but not as a way to cheat on your partner or deprive your spouse of the real act.

Your opinion will be appreciated. Thanks for reading…

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Things To Be Thankful For

There is always something to be thankful for even when you are in deep shit, never loose hope but be thankful for everything good and bad.

I thank God for everything in my life, where I’m coming from, where I am today and where I’m heading to, he knows what’s best for me and he’s at work.

I’m thankful for the strength he’s given me to keep moving and I’m never gonna give up.

Thank you dear God for the love I have for you that gives me peace of mind.

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It’s The Season Of Love

It’s the season of love, men proposing, couples falling in love and moving on. Endeavor to express love to someone now, could be your parents, neighbors, friends both forgotten and present, siblings, anyone that deserves to be loved which apparently I believe is everyone, moreover, there are homeless people out there that need comfort and help, so let’s offer them what we can.

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Unknown Person

When you’ve been dating someone you think you know very well and along the line realise you don’t even know who they really are.

I would call that dating the devil. Hmm, you don’t know the devil other than he’s evil and inflicts pain.

That unknown person in your life should be erased completely, it’s time for you to block that space they occupy.

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Planning Your Outfit For A first Date

It’s perfectly natural when we try our very best to look good on our first date, appearing desperate is something we never want to experience. As hard as it may seem all you need to achieve is to look sexy, beautiful, pleasant, alluring, not only that, confidence is the chief factor of a successful first date. On the other hand, men simply want to look handsome, confident and just be the man that proves a point.

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I find it quite interesting when the guy calls the lady to set up the first date, she gets all excited to the extent that her line of reasoning starts getting awkward, not only that, the preparation stage turns cumbersome, in the sense that, it takes forever for a woman to decide what she wants to wear to impress the man. Women just crave attention that sometimes makes them end up looking overdressed, thereby turning into something I don’t even want to describe. I must say that I’ve found myself in that situation too.

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Men on the other hand usually take lesser time to dress and the outcome is usually impressive. When we are planning our outfit for the first date there are some certain facts to consider, Whatever we chose to wear on our first date must be something we feel comfortable in, should be clean, not too colorful, most importantly have to generate confidence, In addition to that, we don’t want our first date to be the last.

Good luck on your first date.

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The Undying Red Rose

The undying red rose

Written words of my love for you

In the manuscript of ancient love

Long undying love I have for you

Before I met you

 A letter to my lover

Kept in a sealed bottle to be washed away

Never to be seen or head of again

The undying red rose

Came ashore the edge of the sea

Brought back into my life

The red roses never died

Before I met you

My love for you never died

Could not be forgotten

True love never dies

Real love never give up

Love is patient

I waited…for you…now here…till death do us apart…

 

Dedicated to my Husband…

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Spice Up

Spice up your love life the way you would spice up your food.

In the morning with a sweet tender kiss on your spouse’s lips

Invite romance into your love life in the evening with zest

Adding the right amount with accurate measurements

Be prepared for the right moment to turn around your home

 

Spice up yourself, let the scent of your love fill up every room

The aroma lingers everywhere all day, no one else’s

The moment you realise your spice’s uniqueness

Then you know you’re unique and for your spouse only.

 

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