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Why Do Men Stay Single

I wanted to write a post on “Reasons men stay single” but then I realized that there’s a high chance I might end up not listing all. These reasons have evolved and increased over the years just as technology has developed. You know a few reasons men give include, “I love my privacy,”  “I’m living my life,” “I need to make more money,” “I’m not sure I will be a good father,” “I’ve not found a loving woman,” and lots more…I’m not trying to lash out at men but this post is for good reason.

We all desire privacy and want to live our lives, we seek for the best; I know for a fact that single life is significant but I think it should only be for a time that leads to maturity. There are many more single women waiting to meet men ready to outgrow the single man status, yet the number grows every day. God created every man with a missing rib and until you find it, you will never be fulfilled in life.

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Men have thousands of reason to stay single thus indicating many more irrational motives and belief towards this action; with all sincerity, men don’t even have a genuine reason for wanting to stay single and I’ve realized over time that they will always have excuses for everything pertaining to staying single.

Why do men stay single? Kindly share your opinions.

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Let’s Talk About Sex

Can you imagine a scenario where we all decide to stop talking about sex just because a few others shy away from that topic, perhaps we feel criticized? Prior to becoming an adult, probably that could have been a fair point but not anymore because I believe we are adults now.

Let me ask you a question…Why do you avoid sex talk?

Common feel free to talk about sex. You wanna know WHY? Because it’s healthy, mature, sincere, relaxing, moreover, it’s exciting, it creates a new sense of adventure that could help your sex life. It sensitizes you to your sexuality. I have lots to learn and we all have a lot to teach ourselves so we can, in turn, help others.

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Talking about sex on a platform of mature minds creates an awareness of the fact that we shall all end up having sex multiple times in our life until we die, so the more we talk about it, the more we feel comfortable with the act, hence it helps us identify the do’s and don’t that surrounds sex.

When you avoid rubbing minds with sex like minds or avoid talking about it, obviously you are running away from pleasure and rejecting what God has blessed humanity with, why would you reject such gifts? So long as you don’t abuse it, you are good to go.

So let’s talk more about SEX…..

Thanks for reading and feel free to share your thoughts!!!!

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Things To Be Thankful For

There is always something to be thankful for even when you are in deep shit, never loose hope but be thankful for everything good and bad.

I thank God for everything in my life, where I’m coming from, where I am today and where I’m heading to, he knows what’s best for me and he’s at work.

I’m thankful for the strength he’s given me to keep moving and I’m never gonna give up.

Thank you dear God for the love I have for you that gives me peace of mind.

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My Favourite Colour

God created this world beautifully and endowed earth with various colours which ranges from yellow, green, blue, white purple, red, pink.

Colour can serve as a symbol of various culture and personality. The symbolic representation of colour pertaining to an individual is very interesting. My favourite colour is green which is the colour of life, nature, fertility, energy and environment.

Green is everywhere, it’s nature and I think it’s the most common colour in the world since we are surrounded by nature,”the plants” it’s the colour of balance that gives us ability to love unconditionally.

Do you know your favourite colour? Here are some colour representations according to my findings in Google:

Red: colour of fire and blood, it’s associated with war, danger, strength, passion, desire and love.

Yellow: colour of sunshine associated with joy, happiness, energy and cheerful things, children most especially love this colour.

Blue: colour of the sky and sea associated with depth and stability, and symbolises faith, truth, confidence and wisdom.

Purple: colour of royalty, symbolises nobility, luxury, power, creativity and magic….interesting colour.

Green: colour of nature as described already.

Pink: it’s a delicate colour that is associated with romance, nice, cute, sweet, little girls, flowers and universal love of oneself and of others.

White: associated with purity, peace, cleanliness, and light. White depicts faith and conqueror of darkness…that’s according to Eddaz…

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What Are Your Monday Expectations

I learned that the secret to happiness in life is low expectations, luckily for me, I realized this important thing at a young age, and this has stayed with me all through the years. I have faith in God, I believe in myself, but I never expect too much from a situation, people or objects which has led me to appreciate them more.

Nevertheless, I make plans, sometimes they work out as planned and other times, they turn out the other way. Monday has always been the same for me like other days except for Saturday and Sunday. Henceforth I need a plan for Mondays because I’ve realized I always have too much to deal with on that day. Set of rules for me only, goes thus:

-Wake up early with positivity

-Give thanks to God

-walk or run

-Set the target

-Set reminders

-Measure achievements at the end of the day.

This is actually a summarized form of Monday activity for myself.  Remember it’s Monday, stay motivated, talk to someone, believe in yourself!

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When The Senior Pastor Singles Me Out

When the senior pastor of my church singles me out of the whole congregation of a church to have a word or two with me, what does that mean?

Does that mean God has a mission for me?

Does it mean I’m not spiritual enough?

Do I look unique or bizarre?

Or I’m doing something wrong?

Maybe there is something I ought to be doing but I’m not.

Actually I’m still waiting for the call, I had to write out my mobile number to be called and I sincerely hope It’s for good because that really got me nervous and still in same mode. I hope I get called soon so that I can get over with the anxiety feeling that has covered me like tight clothing.

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What If the senior pastor tells me that I have a calling to be a minister or a worker in the church…hmm…that sounds scary even for me. Precisely has anyone done anything for God in any way to please him?

As for me, close to seven years ago I used to be a worker in my former church cleaning the toilets and church area for free, I did it because I had a burden to do so, definitely not for any other reason than that and I would love to do same thing any time my spirit tells me to.

Note that there are benefits of working for God, you might not see it soon enough but with time the blessings run after you when you least expect it.

Lets wait and see…

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Cure For Suicide

I have often wondered why people commit suicide but I think what we should be more worried about is the cure…

This can happen to anyone and it starts from depression. I don’t have the cure to suicide, we don’t have the cure to suicide but we can prevent it. HOW?

Anthony Bourdain was found dead in apparent suicide, it’s a very sad news because just a couple of days ago Kate Spade also committed suicide. These two individual are very talented people whom God created to make a statement in the world through the gifts he endowed them with.

May their souls rest in peace and may the good lord strengthen their family at this period of mourning.

I have thought about suicide once and I informed the world indirectly but guess what? My loved ones detected immediately and called me in seconds, they prayed for me and my brother left his family to stay with me, they kept close contact with me because they realised I had gone weak from being one of the strongest in the family….

I myself needed attention. Anyone can go crazy at anytime.

I’m stronger today. Let’s love, be loved and say no to depression and suicide.

It’s my Birthday May 30th

I’m so happy to share with the world that today is my birthday. It’s my greatest joy to be here, full of fun and happiness. Please celebrate with me my friends. I’m so happy today regardless of all the raging storms I’ve been through, I will always thank God for his love and protection over my life because I am blessed…..

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Happy birthday to me

Love won’t cease in my life

The things that bring joy to me

Blogging, loving, writing and more

Will not fade away.

You will all live, love and enjoy life…

Happy birthday to me🎂🍹🎈😘😘

 

 

Blossoming In His Peace

It flows through my body

The peace of Him

That sets me in the path of joy

Every morning I place him first

Seeing before me the revelation of his

The wonderful God of me

I see him not but hear him

I touch him not but feel his presence

Loving him more and more everyday

I lay him before my very needs

I love you!

I Carry the Light In Me

Oh! Come down

 Thy power in me

Flowing freely in tears of joy

Feeling spiritual up to the heights

Explanation knows no boundary

Revitalization that I know

Light of God that I carry

On my destiny, shine brighter.

Never a dull moment with me

Writing out my heart

Bright flying horses with wings

Beauty I cannot behold

Warriors carrying the crown

Angels set free to guide

Travelling from heaven down to earth

Run darkness Run.. you can’t stand.

Oh! That which I saw

To fight the battle

Shaking the shackles off of me

Free me the clouds which I float

Stars that I see; shine forever my glory

Moon glow upon the fortune

Light of the sun; mighty power

Glows to blind the monitors

I kneel! I cry! I love my father!

I carry the light of God within me.

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