Healthy relationships create an atmosphere for friendship and courtship. It comprises trust, honesty, respect, and loyalty so you have hope for an ideal relationship based on this foundation. It’s not always as easy as it sounds because there’s bound to be conflicts, disagreements, miscommunications and this happens because we are human and no one is perfect.
Therefore, before going into any relationship, remember your partner isn’t perfect, neither are you so don’t expect a relationship without flaws.
Ideas on building the Ideal Relationship.
- Acknowledge each other’s feelings
- Respect for each other.
- Never condemn your partner
- Accept each other’s flaws.
- Accept you made mistakes and adjust.
- Always communicate through talking, emailing, texting or written letters.
- Don’t pretend to be perfect nor act saintly.
- Help each other.
- Build trust.
If the following doesn’t work, then you may need to take a break and figure out what you both want from each other.
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He smiles when it rains love
Glows when the moon sets
Roars like the king of the jungle when I’m hurt
Keeps me in the comfort of his arms….
I see a man sitting in the dead of the night, staring hard…
Do I really know the man behind the curtain?
Have you ever really sat down to think about your partner, who he really is, what goes on in that tiny mind of his. What does he do when you aren’t looking? Is he really generally stable?
Several of us have said I trust my partner, we communicate very well…that is very good, trust is one of the building blocks of a good relationship and communication is essential be it courtship or marriage, but have an open mind, we are all human; in the process of doing both and giving space know that the devil exist in us to act just as their is goodness in us. Sometimes we are weak but pretend to be strong…
Do you really know the man behind the curtain?
Whoever is behind the curtain of your love life. Be attentive- eddaz.
Every relationship has issues
But when you confront it
By giving it everything you’ve got
Such as Communication, trust, patience
Then you have tightened a bond
That can never be broken.
The building blocks of relationships that makes it stand strong and firm as tested and trusted by the older generations are being stamped on by the younger generations.
We are so impatient, lack trust for whatever reason, we see communication as a disturbance or unnecessary move, we want it right here! Now! Immediately or we will crumble.
Communication, trust and patience are the steps to wisdom we need to thrive to embrace, feed upon and apply to our daily lives, relationships and marriages. It has worked before, will work again and will always work!!!
This is the second day of the challenge in which I was nominated by Southern By Design. My first quote is on trust. This is built over time. In this generation, trust has being a real big time issue. No one trusts nobody, family members don’t trust each other anymore, business partners, and even some of us don’t trust ourselves. If you want to be trusted, it starts with you.
Rules for the quote challenge
- Thank the blogger who nominated you.
- Post 1-3 quotes a day for 3 consecutive days.
- Nominate 3 bloggers each day.
1st Quote by Zig Ziglar
If people like you, they’ll listen to you, But if they trust you, they’ll do business with you.
2nd Quote by Ernest Hemingway
The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.
Give but don’t allow yourself to be used. Love but don’t allow your heart to be abused. Trust but don’t be naive.
Today I will nominate: