Stylish Men Get All The Beautiful Ladies

Guys try to dress stylishly for a number of reasons…One of which is to impress women.Some guys said they dress to impress their colleagues, some care less about what they wear, a few of them appeared to look stylish to maintain their company brand name, while a greater number of them said they dress well to impress as well as attract beautiful women!

Yes it’s true…. Every woman has a taste in what she likes seeing guys wear. They want men that understand what looking good means, one that takes care of himself. Definitely a man that knows good quality body spray….It’s important for all men especially for those that leave home without having a shower.

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Clothes, Fashion, Style- Is usually touted as something that women care about, style for men make up a lot of unspoken cues when they meet people.

I rallied up 6 of my girlfriends, single and married, I asked them what their thoughts were about ‘what men wear,’ and I was able to get this from them.

Lola (Writer): I love seeing men in T-shirts on not too baggy blue jeans. Specifically, it could also be a long sleeve shirt but must be designed by Hawes and Curtis.

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Samantha (Lawyer): I want men that dress like men because it makes a statement, a man in well tailored suit, classy tie to go with it, a killer pair of Chelsea shoes and nice body cologne is on point for me.

Kimberly (Business Merchant): “I don’t like my husband’s taste of wears; I’m considering doing him a complete makeover. I love men that dress like movie stars”.

Tiffany (Financial Adviser):  I date only men with good style…smelly, dirty guys are top of my list of ‘turn off’. I would love what a man wears provided that it’s clean, smells nice and has got style written all over like a brand name.

Belinda (Model): I love dudes in slim fitted jeans and T-shirts, there’s just something sexy and classy about it that turns me on…all topped up with Jean Paul Gaultier Cologne.”

For me, it’s purely a medium of self expression. It’s a way to subtly signal where they fit in.

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The Storm Is Over Now

Storm raged my inner being

almost wrenched out my heart

with fierce agony, I walked down the streets

dogs barking at me

flies created settlement in my filthy hair

I staggered around dragging my feet

nowhere to go

while contemplating suicide

the lord appeared

he wiped away my tears

held me in his arms

fed me

clothed me

he  shamed the demons

and set me free

here I am today, the storm is over

I can see the light now as heaven has smiled down on me.

 

I have always loved this song written and produced by R. Kelly, it was released back then in year 2000. Please enjoy it as much as I do. It’s a music that will take you back memory lane, ginger your spirit, revive your inner mind, set you on the motion path of inspiration to determination, to survive and succeed regardless of all obstacles.

Storms will always wither away, just if only we are patient and believe we will make it. We all go through storms, no one on this earth is an exception, the strong one will stand the test of time.

Everyone including me has a story to tell, the good, bad, ugly and stimulating ones. We shall have good stories to tell as we remain firm, strong and faithful for others to learn from it and also have hope to move on.

This post is in response to the one word prompt. Storm.

 

The Journey

I set out on a journey with high expectations.

I met tribulations, trials, rage, stampede,

I cried from pain,

I feared for my life,

I stumbled in shame,

I fell from being tired.

I said to myself,

I never knew the journey would be this tough.

 

Along my way, they appeared to me,

Knowledge,Wisdom, Understanding,

Each one of them showed me the light,

They said to me successful people are not gifted;

They just work hard,

Then succeed on purpose,

Never give up.

 

I rose up unsure of what awaited me,

I moved on with determination,

But cried out in confusion,

Can a journey be this far?

Can a journey be this tough?

Can I survive this journey?

Can I stand the test of time?

Why so much thunderstorms?

Why is the road so rough and narrow?

 

I dried my tears never giving up.

I  continued with the journey,

I walked with bold steps.

I brought out the sword with the words,

Which I had long forgotten,

And it said to me;

Trust in the Lord on your long journey.

Blessed is the man that trusteth in the Lord,

And whose hope the Lord is-Jeremiah 17:7

 

There was a rough tousle of wind,

And I heard,

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,

And do not rely on your own understanding.

Acknowledge him in all your ways,

And he will make your paths straight- Proverbs 3:5-6.

 

I have journeyed far,

The journey has turned me into a success story.

A journey everyday that has unfolded passionate discoveries.

 

This post is in response to the one word prompt. Journey.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Leslie-Why I have Sex with My Husband Everyday

It is absolutely normal for women to feel distant, depressed and agitated after giving birth.  Scientifically, the basic element in a marriage is SEX. If you want your husband to act like a man, you need to treat him like a man. Leslie says it all  as written down in this article to share with everyone.

I have sex with my husband everyday, not that I go around telling people but I would love to share my experience with others. My man is the “keep to myself type”, he loves to drink,  playful and once in a while doesn’t miss hanging out with friends.

I had my first child three years after we got married then became distant for a while, complications set in……boredom, depression, name it. The thing is my husband looks fragile but he’s a lion in bed; I discovered after 2 weeks of not touching each other that something was amiss.

I had just finished having my shower, my husband was in the room starring at his laptop as usual, I came out naked which I had not done in a while; I felt wilted, looked like an overripe pawpaw after my childbirth. I was feeling more confident now as I had lost a lot of the fat.

He looked up, gazed at me like a Tiger that wanted to feed on it’s prey, I got into bed with him, we were both silent for about ten minutes  I closed my eyes and started to wonder what was going on in his mind….I could here the clock ticking in my head….. before I could say Jack Robinson, I was in his arms and it was that way everyday like I would never allow a single strand of “hair on my head to be cut off”..

There is something restorative about kissing the boy you love. There are times in his arms when I remember who I am…… Yes, I am a fat mother, cleaner, housekeeper, whatever, but I am also something more, something delightful and completely apart from my roles. I am a woman! Oh sexy lady…..

SEX is so magical, it acts as a cure for so many illness, it helps fight off colds and the flu,  You’d be basically immortal is what I’m trying to say when you do it everyday my friends!

Men are who they are. They need to be stripped off hunger, they need to be acknowledged, and they need to go on that sweet journey everyday. Every night after the kids go to bed is a chance for you to be with that boy that used to make your knees buckle, feel shy….. that boy that you used to find it so hard to wait for his phone calls. Remember resisting his touch back then was like resisting the sweet savor taste of CHOCOLATE.

Theoretically, having sex every single day would make you feel younger, fertile, never get sick, relieves you of stress, basically sex makes you a superhero; make that man feel special, let him know he’s still the boy you have always loved and wanted to spend your life with.

 

 

Guest- My Love Forever

Remember

That day you walked into my life,

You knocked at my door,

Stood there at my door post,

Like an angel sent to relinquish me,

From my world of loneliness.

I let down my guard,

Couldn’t resist your look of innocence,

My world was wide open for you,

You asked me to let you in.

 

Remember

The first day at dinner table,

You sat down across me,

The candle light flickered across your face.

Oh, those beautiful eyes,

That drew me into your soul.

You had a taste of my meal,

Like I could have a taste of you,

You asked for more.

 

 

Remember

The first day my tongue curled around yours,

Sweet tongue lashing kiss,

Dived into your ocean of electrifying suspense,

My heart raced timelessly,

Thought it would pop out.

I felt no guilt holding you,

In my hands, In my home, as my guest,

It was not against your will,

You asked for more.

 

Remember

The first time I felt your body,

Against mine; The chemistry

Yes the chemistry,

It flowed through my veins,

Tickling me to life of untold savor,

You consumed my hungry body,

Satisfied my quench for desire,

I basked in sexual gratification,

I didn’t wait for you to ask for more,

I gave you all of me.

 

Remember

I knew you not,

From nowhere, whence you came from,

You were my guest,

You standing at my porch was all my life needed,

Be it an Alien, a thief of the night, an angel,

I cared less,

I knew deep in my soul,

You were the one,

And now we are bound together,

Forever we shall be together.

 

This post is in response to the one word prompt. Guest.

Shattered Glass

My heart,

Transparent like a glass,

See through my innocent soul.

Trying to pave through my heart?

Tender as it is?

Do you not see?

that mounting on my heart,

shatters me,

to bits and pieces too tiny,

cannot be put back into shape.

Can be shaped back together?

How?

Will it be the same again?

Same way it was before?

Or stronger?

Like starting all over again?

Why then treat heart that way?

When all you have to do,

is to tread with care,

not break heart into pieces,

care for heart as you care for your life.

This post is in response to one word prompt. Glass.

No I’m Not Ready For Sex

There is this notion that when a woman says NO, she actually means YES. It is absolutely impractical when that assumption is believed  and being in existence for too long; When a woman says NO to sex, she sure means NO. Men need to stop this irrational thinking that a woman means yes when she says no. In the actual fact women are known to be the weaker gender, women don’t like being put under too much pressure by men, this makes them give in when a man makes a request.

It’s a connotation of what the man and situation of sphere at that moment that made her voice it out-Why men think women are confused?  NO WAY, you just need to give some space, let go…. allow women be who God has created them to be, then the universe will fall into place. You need to start accepting a woman’s no to whatever the case might be so that things won’t eventually get out of hand at the finish line.

Ask yourself what your objectives are, what are you willing to benefit, why do you want to go that far, what will it profit you, how far will it take you, how long is it going to last for, how does it make you feel, how does she feel about it. Does it determine who you are or stand for….THIS IS FOR THE MEN.

Women it’s time you stop getting scared of saying no and stand your ground. You have to learn to say no without feeling any remorse. Learn to be dignified, take responsibilities, don’t fear for your life, the future will take it’s course by the decisions you make today.

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Here is a scenario where a man tries to seduce woman, then she moves away carefully, he tells the woman ” I would really love to have sex with you.”

Woman tells man, ” No I’m sorry I can’t, I’m not ready.”

Man starts to put pressure on woman thinking her “no” actually means “yes.”

Man- ” You know I love you and want us to be closer.”

Woman- “Really I need some more time to get to know you better.”

Man- “That’s exactly what I’m trying to say, this is the best and quickest way of getting to no ourselves better.”

Woman starts to give in to the pressure. She smiles softly, feeling the IMAGINARY fear in her heart that she might loose him if she insists on saying NO.

Woman- “Alright just this once, I hope you won’t ever cheat on me.”

Man- ” We are both adults, lets have fun, moreover you are my babe and I can’t hurt you.”

Woman finally gives in. Man eventually continues going around feeling convinced women mean yes when they actually mean no.

Things eventually didn’t work out between them, the woman starts to hurt and blames the guy for using her and putting pressure on her. Things turn out bad. If only the man had respected her decision without coaxing her into giving in.

This is just one of the large number of occurrences between women and men that leads to unfortunate scenes, erupting from YES OR NO.

A gentle man will always respect a woman’s boundaries. Learn to say no and mean it without having to give explanations.

Saying yes just to please someone else is not a true yes, it’s not good for them, and it’s not good for you-Kate Northrup

 

 

 

 

 

In the Midst of Darkness

Catastrophic events, trials, tribulations,

Flows in the part of life,

A necessity it is,

Encapsulating darkness to give rise to destruction.

Fought at the war front to break it into fragments,

Rebuffed, declined, refused,

Light is unleashed when the capsule cracks open.

 

Skin filled with filth of darkness,

Tossed away with spiritual cleansing,

Like the waves washed the shore.

A bright new skin is given birth to,

And Light comes forth.

 

in the midst of darknessThe heart corrupt with evil,

Calling forth darkness to overtake,

Will break open and through the eyehole shall light find it’s way in,

And shall call out the darkness,

To love, kindness, peace, togetherness, humility.

 

Nations engulfed with war,

Killings, Kidnappings, Abuses,

Why fill your domain with darkness?

Nothing good comes out of it,

Why seek for the power of the dark side?

Rebuke it, let it be banished,

Receive light for it will take you to the higher side.

 

Darkness and light have no place together

I hug light tightly to my bosom,

For darkness not to prevail.

Because I belong to the light,

I will not be overshadowed,

World overwhelmed by darkness is for a while,

Light will show forth, it cannot be consumed,

It can never be consumed.

We call out to light in one accord and embrace it like a child.

 

This post is in response to the one word prompt. Darkness.

 

 

Almost 50-Live a life Everyday

I was at the shopping mall and decided to indulge myself with lunch after the whole shopping spree. There I sat down at a small round table far away from where I could be disturbed. I looked up and there I saw a nice-looking mature man take a few steps towards me and he said to me across the tiny table, ” young lady, can I join you please,” I answered politely ” yes please.”

A few minutes later he said to me, ” you know… today is my fiftieth birthday,” I opened my mouth in amazement because I really don’t quite know how to put, he looked much older than his age, I told him politely with a smirk across my face, ” wow that’s nice- Happy Birthday,” 

While we had lunch quietly he stopped and said to me, ” I wish I had more fun when I was a lot younger,” and he went on chatting, “It looks to me now like time passed by while I was put on hold. I’ve decided regardless of all the pressures I’m under,  I will henceforth make this year one of celebration and certainty for myself”.

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I actually didn’t know how to respond to that, then I told him you don’t have to regret anything because it’s not too late for you to have the fun of your life. I gave him a few TIPS on what to do, he thanked me for the piece I gave him with a grin all over his face, I simply got up and took my leave.

Let me know if you think I’m crazy, if you want to do any of this things with me or if you’ve already done them and have some tips. I’m determined to make each day of my life pretty awesome and making these goals public I believe is a good first step for me to get on the right path.

This brings us to the point where we need to acknowledge that those of us not yet fifty years of age should “live every day as if it were the last” even those that are fifty and above.

Things I would love to do:

  • I would love to turn off the internet for a week. I want to know how that would feel like. No twitter, no Facebook, no Instagram, no whats app. I think that sounds nice.

 

  • I would love to travel to Canada, Australia and ancient towns in China.

 

  • I don’t know how my guy would feel if he reads this, the truth is I so much wish I would have a set of triplets.

 

  • I wouldn’t want to be a salary earner for the rest of my workable life.

 

  • Having a date with VIN DIESEL would be a delight for me. I would cherish that forever!

 

  • I have two stories I’ve written, I don’t really know what’s stopping me from publishing them, I would be glad to start by pushing them out there.

 

  • I would love to buy my dad a BRAND NEW JEEP.

These are a statistics of my goals in life, my thoughts and my passions. I’ve put it all out now. Let’s see what happens…

 

 

 

Dealing with Heartbreak

My life is over,“I can’t move on without you”, desperate, confused; You ask yourself, “what have I done wrong?” These are the expression of pains you feel and questions asked when you are heartbroken.

You are not the only one in this TRAUMATIZING situation, it’s part of life experiences, it only strengthens us to face the bigger challenges coming our way, it is non negotiable.

“You can’t keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.”
- Dan Castellaneta.

The good news is that there’s someone else out there perfectly made for you, to accept you….fat, short, poor, beautiful, attractive, slim-whichever one describes you.

Giving up doesn’t mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go, the right person might just be lurking around the corner, waiting for you- eddaz

If you know it makes you feel better to speak to everyone you know about it, then do it but don’t forget to let go of that feeling and move on…..you might fear that things will never be okay I promise you from the bottom of my heart that they will be okay again. Concentrate your attention on love within you and not on your break up. There is a better life out there with someone else or it might just be a test of faith.

“Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.” – Jean Giraudoux.

This goes out to my Facebook friend and other folks out there feeling sad and very empty right now, we have all been through one form of break up or the other and the good news is that it has brought out a better personality from the experience we had and some of us have been the initiator of the heartbreak which has definitely put the victim on the right path, it’s all part of life…

Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together-Unknown.

I really hope it makes you feel better, stay happy, you will be fine!!!

Never run from your shadow

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