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Dancing In The Rain

Childhood is the age span I believe we all experienced but did we actually enjoy those days? I enjoyed my childhood days tremendously and there were many times I used to dance in the rain.

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If you didn’t experience it, then you missed out but never too late to try it out and beware of the after effect of the cold rain so mind the length of time you spend out there, although as children, my friends and I were never aware of the side effects of dancing in the rain, actually we didn’t care regardless of the fact that my mum would scream at the top of her voice  for us to get out of it.

Dancing in the rain and licking the drizzling cold water with my tongue was one of the greatest fun for me.

Sky so dark opened up thunderous greyhound eyes

In the age of abandonment not a care in the world

With sheer pleasure she danced in the rain

Blooming in joy all covered up with gift of nature

Sing out hallelujah for it’s my time of pleasure

Memories of life time that lasts forever.

 

Image Credit: Pixabay & Google Image

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Loving My Inner Spirit

We all have the inner spirit within us but lots of us have decided to neglect and do things on our own. Your inner spirit is love in itself that wants good things for you. The inner spirit is that very soft voice from the chore that speaks to you but we can’t hear it unless we do the following:

Be silent

I need to talk, listen to me, be quiet please…

Pay close attention

I’m here to guide you, not to confuse you…

Be good friends

I’m your friend, I love you, I care…

Communicate

Do what I say, I’m the good one, not the bad one…

Feel

Embrace me, lean, focus on the light…

Be cleansed

Clear your mind, be positive, be enlightened, be strong.

I’ve always had a strong spirit from childhood but ignored too frequently, growing up over the years I realised it had stayed with me waiting for me to open the doors of my heart which I have done but sometimes the harshness of life beating hard at me makes me loose touch but then I still go back to lean on it in my quiet time which is the best times I’ve had.

The inner spirit is one whom if we chose to develop close relationship with will lead us through our daily lives even when we are lost and can’t see our paths; the inner spirit is not our mind, we don’t tell it what to tell us.

 

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Which Lady Would You Choose

First lady

She’s nice, very caring, sexy, pays attention to your feelings, always there to answer your calls, picks and returns your calls without hesitation, she’s a good girl and can’t hide her feelings towards you, you were off the phone for 1 week and you got enough messages and missed calls from her and she always says she cares about you.

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Second lady

Also nice, doesn’t really pay attention to your feelings, very attractive, sexy, loves to hang out more with her friends, independent, flirtatious lady, you were off the phone for 1 week and she never attempted calling but she always says she cares about you.

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Which lady would you choose to keep dating and consider spending your life with.

When Is The Right Time To Introduce My Boyfriend

It bugs me each time I meet a new guy in my life and then he says to me ‘I would like to know some of your friends or siblings’…Men are known for their hmmm😓 funny attitudes especially in the dating field.

It might also be the other way round…They want to meet him😓😓 and then he turns out to be a moron…

When do i introduce my boyfriend

What if I introduce him to my innermost world of friends or family today and he jilts me tomorrow😮 how would my loved ones feel? They are usually very sensitive about what goes on in our life. Is it timely?

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What do I say to them? And then the next guy comes along and then another and another..What the hell??

Kindly share your opinion on the right time to introduce my boyfriend…

 

Valentine’s Day Expectations

I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex😓😓 just as some are anticipating.

Valentine's Day Expectations

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

Valentine's Day Expectations

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

Valentine's Day Expectations

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

 

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

Today is my nephew’s birthday so I sure will share the love with him..

Happy Valentines Day to everyone out there💝💝💝😘😘😘💕💕💕💞💞💞🎈🎈

FRIDAY On My Mind



Friday sweet Friday,

Here you are,

The perfect gift of the week,

Been looking forward to your rebirth,

Generous in assistance to the stressed,

Relief day! We will joyride down the street,

And sing Hallelujah

Thank God it’s Friday.


You are probably thinking, “THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY,” you aren’t the only one in that line of thoughts, I feel same way too; Knowing it’s going to be a full evening of fun all the way. Are you going to watch a football match? clubbing  with friends? Going for an all night church service? Or is it going to be a lovely night alone with your spouse??

Whatever it’s going to be for you, JUST GET YOUR GROOVE ON – It’s gonna be  #fridayflexnight. Don’t take life too seriously, pressure can really weigh one down, which is most likely what you have passed through during the week. Have fun, it’s going to be a cock-a-hoop weekend ….

 

Ebook Cover Reveal

Hi everyone! I’ve had my ebook cover on my side bar for some days now contemplating whether to write publicly about it and launch. To be honest with you, I’ve been nervous about that decision. Today is Sunday, one of my favourite days so feeling overly relaxed this morning, I decided to do just that😀😀.

It’s my first and sure do have more coming shortly but will not come in the self help style. Unveil The Eagle is a self help book which I never planned to publish first since I have other books I am working on but instincts made me  stop working on those ones and start writing this.

I dedicated this book to those who have fallen and rising to become the flying eagles they are meant to be. This is the cover and a short chapter of my ebook. The date of release will be set before long. I really do hope you like it.

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Self-knowledge does not come on a platter of gold but only
through the purifying fire of perseverance, persistence and
determination. Anytime you fail, dust yourself and get up, then
proceed with vehemence once again. People will try to stop
you but the choice is yours to make. Will you allow small minds to keep you separated from your dreams? When eagles
associate with ducks, that is the concomitant effect. If you are an
eagle but associate with bats, fowls, ducks, ostriches, you will
become like them. Bats can’t fly high and only fly at night,
chickens can’t fly high, and they do so only in short distances in a
very meaningless way. Ostriches can’t even fly at all yet they are
classified as birds. Choose your friends carefully and soar high like the eagle.

 

 

 

Why Judge Me By The Colour Of My Skin?

Created in the superiority of the extremes

Lying in the shadow of the hollow

Vipers gushing out at my colour

Did I create myself?

Did I ask for a particular colour?

If I had the opportunity to choose, would I choose?

I am white! I am black! I am mixed coloured!

Whirlwind of hatred blowing around

Poisonous flames tearing friends apart.

A world where people are judged over those beautiful colours; minds of great men have been released to the devil to dominate.

The demonic one is out there rejoicing over the works of his hands; while people are walking around in oblivion. We know not what we are doing…

Let me tell you the naked truth…

He is on his dark throne

Laughing

Rejoicing

Celebrating

Nominating

Stealing souls

Why?

He is tearing nations apart

Destroying civilization

Making friends kill each other

Feeding on destruction

All on the skin colour

We are the flesh, not to fight the flesh but to fight the demon by refusing to judge, kill and rule over those gorgeous skin colours, because he has decided to create a reason for nations to destroy each other over the colour of the skin and add more dark souls to his kingdom.

Tears of sadness over our ignorance

Why do we judge each other over the colour of our skins?

Do we even know why we fight over it?

Have you ever sat to think about it?

Have you ever asked yourself what will be benefitted?

Have you ever seeked for peace?

Can we even try to live in peace with each other without lamenting over the colour of the skin. Let’s accept the truth; we know not what we are doing… gullibility should no longer be an excuse…

We are all great, wonderfully created by God who loves us with all sincerity, he never condemns us, he created us under himself, he hates the fight over skin colour, he wants love to flourish over nations, he wants people to live and love in peace.  Let’s all try to put evil to shame, challenge ourselves to shake the hands of people regardless of the colour of the skin.

 

 

 

 

Sleep with My Best Friend’s Husband?

We are all faced with tough decisions in life, some that will take us to the next top level and others might lead to our downfall. This scenario is the case of Benedict; she has asked a question that will determine the next phase of her life.

Benedict’s Story goes thus: I am a single lady and foreigner in another country. I have been in there for close to a year. I have suddenly gotten to cross roads where due to certain reasons I overstayed, and cannot go back to my country but live and survive in this foreign land. Now my best friend’s husband has taken it upon himself to assist me, but of course on one condition, that I must warm his bed anytime he requests, else he will not help me any longer, even so, he will  report my status to the authorities.

I owe my friend a lot as we are childhood friends, I don’t want to betray her trust,but apparently not sleeping with her husband might cost me a lot, he also warned me not to expose his conversation with me to his wife. I am currently at a pressure point that weighs me down each time I think about it and time is not friendly at the moment.

Angry womanI sometimes wish I could tear him apart with my bear hands and move on with my life elsewhere, but I patently cannot do that. I don’t want to harm my bestie’s marriage either, but I truly wish I could end up doing that just to set her free from this maniac of a man she is tied to.

In what manner do I handle this situation as it requires just one decision to set me free from this entanglement?

My opinion: If I were a baddest girl, as in ‘sassy’, then I would sleep with her husband and get what I want….Oops–did i just write that?? I would suggest she stays far way from that family and look for help elsewhere to put an end to all this dilemma…. I know life is not a bed of roses. Notwithstanding, I think men like this ought to be taught one or two lessons to put them back on track.

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Your kind comments and suggestions are welcome.