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Fun Things to Do On Friday Night

It’s Friday once again and I’m ready to swing…

Here is a list of entertaining things you can do tonight to relax, unwind and bring on the weekend mood. For those of us working at night or tomorrow, It shouldn’t impede having fun.

  • Hang out with friends but pleease don’t get drunk and run into trouble.
  • Cuddle up and check out movies with your partner or explore.
  • Eat out at a nice restaurant and meet new people.
  • Go to the theater and see a movie.
  • If you are in the worship mood, it’s month-end so run and boogie in church.
  • Attend a music concert you find passionate.
  • Game night with friends or siblings is cheap but fun.
  • Settling at home isn’t a bad idea, relax or groove alone.
  • Cook for your family (It’s dinner time).
  • Have a pool or beach party with buddies.
  • Visit your parents if you still have one, have a chit-chat and make them laugh.
  • Bowling is amusing, and my favorite.

Life is too short to worry, let’s keep it real and cool by having decent fun and staying happy. Regardless of who you are, what you do or where you live, there are lots of activities to do and places to go that won’t cost much.

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Monday Highlights

What makes me happy on Monday even though it’s always a busy one – is that idea of jotting out my list and highlighting the most important goals I need to achieve. Over the weekend I lounged around the house and immerse myself in happy thoughts watched movies, hung out with my hubby and friends. I needed these moments because it was a challenging week. It’s so amazing how one’s spirits get jolted by spending time with loved ones. Therefore, my Monday highlights include:

Stay Focused.

Build Confidence.

Be extraordinary.

Centered meditation.

Adjusting my creative process to an optimal point.

Cool, collected and calm in every situation.

These are just a few of the highlights, they aren’t my goals, however, are the tools for achieving my goals today and the rest of the week. We are living in a world where everything is evolving at a quick hype and we need to be innovative. I admire people that do this and multi-task.

My advice to everyone this week is to be a game changer and remember when you get to the peak of your career or you become who you ought to be, people will expect you to conform and when you don’t, you will be characterised as being proud; Be yourself, it’s better than being anyone’s doormat.

Have a lovely week people.

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It Was Supposed To Be Sex Only

We were supposed to be friends with benefits but what happened to that?

We weren’t supposed to fall in love, what happened to sex and fun only?

All I needed was someone to feel free around and be sensual with…

Falling in love wasn’t supposed to happen to us…staying out of love; definitely…

I’ve missed the point and she might hurt my feelings, she’s gonna walk out of my life…

I feel fear; I hear danger; It’s a mess; My anxiety level is high; God help me…

Sex and love aren’t for us, perhaps sex..sex…sex…sex was meant to be…

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Yes it’s better to play by the rules but falling in love with your friend along the way isn’t a bad thing, never assume and conclude on things you can’t control, don’t bother shutting love out of your heart, It creeps in when least expected. It’s a beautiful feeling but a much beautiful one when it’s felt on both sides.

If it happens, allow it to grow because if it’s meant to be then it becomes much more than sex.

Any opinions? Please share…

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I’m Going Crazy

My friends told me I’m going crazy, however, I told them that I’m crazily in love.

Neighbors say that I’m going crazy but I informed them that I’m crazy about friendship.

Colleagues disclosed that I’m going crazy, yet I notified them that I’m crazy about success.

Coursemates gossiped that I’m going crazy, I announced that I’m crazy for good grades.

The world told me that I’m going crazy, I advised them to face their own craziness.

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Dancing In The Rain

Childhood is the age span I believe we all experienced but did we actually enjoy those days? I enjoyed my childhood days tremendously and there were many times I used to dance in the rain.

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If you didn’t experience it, then you missed out but never too late to try it out and beware of the after effect of the cold rain so mind the length of time you spend out there, although as children, my friends and I were never aware of the side effects of dancing in the rain, actually we didn’t care regardless of the fact that my mum would scream at the top of her voice  for us to get out of it.

Dancing in the rain and licking the drizzling cold water with my tongue was one of the greatest fun for me.

Sky so dark opened up thunderous greyhound eyes

In the age of abandonment not a care in the world

With sheer pleasure she danced in the rain

Blooming in joy all covered up with gift of nature

Sing out hallelujah for it’s my time of pleasure

Memories of life time that lasts forever.

 

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Loving My Inner Spirit

We all have the inner spirit within us but lots of us have decided to neglect and do things on our own. Your inner spirit is love in itself that wants good things for you. The inner spirit is that very soft voice from the chore that speaks to you but we can’t hear it unless we do the following:

Be silent

I need to talk, listen to me, be quiet please…

Pay close attention

I’m here to guide you, not to confuse you…

Be good friends

I’m your friend, I love you, I care…

Communicate

Do what I say, I’m the good one, not the bad one…

Feel

Embrace me, lean, focus on the light…

Be cleansed

Clear your mind, be positive, be enlightened, be strong.

I’ve always had a strong spirit from childhood but ignored too frequently, growing up over the years I realised it had stayed with me waiting for me to open the doors of my heart which I have done but sometimes the harshness of life beating hard at me makes me loose touch but then I still go back to lean on it in my quiet time which is the best times I’ve had.

The inner spirit is one whom if we chose to develop close relationship with will lead us through our daily lives even when we are lost and can’t see our paths; the inner spirit is not our mind, we don’t tell it what to tell us.

 

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Which Lady Would You Choose

First lady

She’s nice, very caring, sexy, pays attention to your feelings, always there to answer your calls, picks and returns your calls without hesitation, she’s a good girl and can’t hide her feelings towards you, you were off the phone for 1 week and you got enough messages and missed calls from her and she always says she cares about you.

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Second lady

Also nice, doesn’t really pay attention to your feelings, very attractive, sexy, loves to hang out more with her friends, independent, flirtatious lady, you were off the phone for 1 week and she never attempted calling but she always says she cares about you.

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Which lady would you choose to keep dating and consider spending your life with.

When Is The Right Time To Introduce My Boyfriend

It bugs me each time I meet a new guy in my life and then he says to me ‘I would like to know some of your friends or siblings’…Men are known for their hmmm😓 funny attitudes especially in the dating field.

It might also be the other way round…They want to meet him😓😓 and then he turns out to be a moron…

When do i introduce my boyfriend

What if I introduce him to my innermost world of friends or family today and he jilts me tomorrow😮 how would my loved ones feel? They are usually very sensitive about what goes on in our life. Is it timely?

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What do I say to them? And then the next guy comes along and then another and another..What the hell??

Kindly share your opinion on the right time to introduce my boyfriend…

 

Valentine’s Day Expectations

I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex😓😓 just as some are anticipating.

Valentine's Day Expectations

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

Valentine's Day Expectations

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

Valentine's Day Expectations

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

 

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

Today is my nephew’s birthday so I sure will share the love with him..

Happy Valentines Day to everyone out there💝💝💝😘😘😘💕💕💕💞💞💞🎈🎈