I know how it feels to be rejected. It’s like a sudden stab, sharp and intense, making you want to close your eyes and shut the world out. I’ve been turned down countless times in life—relationships, education, friendships… You name it. It wasn’t that people hated me, but life has a way of shaping us, pushing us through trials to become stronger, independent, and the people we are meant to be.

Rejection is something we all face, no matter how much we try to avoid it. It often leaves us asking, “Why me?” We feel it when we underestimate ourselves, set unrealistic expectations for others, or fear criticism. These feelings are normal—but when rejection becomes a constant cycle, it can be harmful. Nobody is perfect, but we all have the opportunity to accept guidance and grow.

Overcoming rejection is one of the hardest lessons, yet I’ve conquered it. And there’s no turning back. In its place, I’ve found freedom of expression, confidence in love, a magnetic charisma that attracts genuine people, and success that feels deeply earned. Rejection no longer defines me—it refines me.

To overcome rejection, define who you truly are and refuse to be shaken by it.

Caring about what people think of you is useless.

Most people don’t even know what they think of themselves.

– Sonya Teclai

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