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Success Starts With You

Success is liking yourself,

liking what you do,

and liking how you do it- Maya Angelou

Everyone wants to become outstanding in life. It’s interesting how we focus our minds on the products of achievement but not on how to find our paths to the spot. How do you think someone worth multimillion dollars nailed this status; appear on social media platforms, and places where successful people are known?

Part of what makes us human is that we wake up every day and have one motive in mind- TO FEED. Maslow’s hierarchy focuses on the various levels of human need, once the basic and physiological demands are met (food, water, safety, affection, and esteem), a man works hard to climb to the next stage but the fundamental is getting to the level of self-actualization where success is the ultimate.

How do we become successful?

  1. Believe in you (Self Love).
  2. Aim Higher.
  3. Get out of your comfort zone.
  4. Grab a bag with a mission.
  5. Stand out from the crowd.
  6. Focus.

Actualizing this factors doesn’t confirm the certainty of you becoming wealthy overnight; it’s a gradual process where you take a step at a time alongside patience. Whatever definition of success you have in mind depends on what your goals are but in anything you do, remember to stay happy and not sacrifice your soul for success.

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How Do I Overcome Pain Of Rejection

I know how it feels to be rejected because it’s like being stabbed. The pain is so intense; you feel the urge to close your eyes and end it right there. I’ve been turned down many times in my life, in all areas such as in relationships, educational affairs, friendship…. name it. Not that they hated me but life has a way of pushing us around to mold us together to become stronger, independent, upright and be who we should be.

The pain of rejection is something we have all felt on many occasions, no matter how much we try to avoid it, trust me it’s inevitable and then we ask ‘why me’??

We feel rejected when we underestimate ourselves,

Have high expectations from people,

Have low esteem and fear criticism…

All this is normal but when it keeps going on in a vicious circle, then I would say “that’s bad for your health.” No one is built in perfection but everyone has the space to accept good, sensible correction to be a better person.

To overcome the pain of rejection is one of the most difficult things to do but I conquered it and there’s been no turning back. I’ve discovered the freedom of expression it brings, confidence in love affairs, the charisma that attracts genuine people and success.

How do I overcome pain of rejection

In a short sentence, to overcome the pain of rejection and flee from it – DEFINE WHO YOU ARE…

Caring about what people think of you is useless.

Most people don’t even know what they think of themselves.

– Sonya Teclai

 

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It’s Friday Fun Dance

Getting my groove on Friday.

Free my heart from all hustle.

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Thank God it’s Friday

Giving it all I got to rejoice

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Success all the way

No regrets but to accept

And be optimistic

It’s Friday Fun Dance

 

And believe the sky 

is just the beginning.

 

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Monday Insight

“The most extraordinary people

in the world today don’t have a

career. They have a mission.”
– Vishen Lakhiani
No matter what position we are in life, we’ll always require a deep intuitive understanding of the core of our being, this will elevate us a step higher on the ladder of success. Monday is the day to set goals and aim to achieve them.
My insights are firsthand for me often because I take one stride forward than the earlier week, keeps me focused on what is at hand when I know I need the encouragement that will keep me going the whole week.
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Wednesday Thoughts

Willingness to learn is the starting point of achievements.

Enchant your partner with spice he can’t find anywhere else.

Desire the words of wisdom so you may walk in the path of victory.

Neglecting to motivate yourself is setting yourself up for a downfall.

Everything you know about being naughty must be explored in the marital bed.

Success doesn’t come easy but through hard work and determination.

Daydream as much as you like; one day you will face reality.

Almighty, fill me with your grace to stay joyful every day.

You are extraordinary, don’t let darkness into your heart.

 

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I’m Going Crazy

My friends told me I’m going crazy, however, I told them that I’m crazily in love.

Neighbors say that I’m going crazy but I informed them that I’m crazy about friendship.

Colleagues disclosed that I’m going crazy, yet I notified them that I’m crazy about success.

Coursemates gossiped that I’m going crazy, I announced that I’m crazy for good grades.

The world told me that I’m going crazy, I advised them to face their own craziness.

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I Cry Hard

Damn…I cry hard

My heart is bleeding

Subjected to torture

Crying out!! Seeking severely!!

When? How?

Waiting agonizingly​ for dawn to come

Everyday…Every moment…Every striking key

Damn….I cry hard

Stretching my arms out in tears of pain

Dreaming…Meditating…Searching

Confused…Anxious… Impatient

Concurrent spasm of hope jolts my heart

Be patient! It will come!

This are words from my heart to those of us waiting anxiously for the moment we have been waiting; seeking; believing we will achieve that which we know is ours; the success and joy we crave for; It will come, we will get there.

Love you…

Making your Office Romance a Success?

Intimacy between the two opposite sex in an organisation is usually as a result of close working relationship. It’s usually common in a work environment where workers spend  lots of quality time with each other, working, sitting, and sometimes chatting together. All this brings about closeness, and sometimes strong attractions which is perfectly normal.

Making your office romance a success?

Office romance takes a lot of determination; some have been a successful love story to narrate, while others have been a total disaster. But of course you need to be cautious if you have to engage in it, especially in situations where the organisation discourages it…

Looking at a scenario where you know the consequences of starting an office romance, yet you can’t resist the chemistry radiating from this sweet, gorgeous, intellectual lady who probably also has an interest in you…

You step into the office in the morning with the mind set of resisting the temptation- The first object that draws your attention is the beautiful lady, and you say to yourself “no I won’t do it”, apparently you know quite well that you are lying to yourself.

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One thing leads to the other, you guys end up dating with both of you hoping it will work- Having it in mind that the human resources must not get to know about it, considering the fact that you are both at a risk of loosing your job, loosing focus at work, reduced productivity, anyone of this can come up as a result of office romance whether successful or not, be rest assured that all isn’t that bad, there are ways to curb this.

COMMUNICATE with each other the basis before commitment sets in so that neither of you gets hurt or misunderstood.

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You both can’t resist the attraction? Go ahead…but be PRIVATE about it, trust me making your relationship in the office public will make you project interesting topics for others. The sweet and savor taste of your courtship will be gone like the whirl wind.

MATURITY will go along way, disagreements of whatever type shouldn’t be brought to the office, it should be dealt with elsewhere. Both of you should learn to agree on important details such as meeting points… Dare not date someone else in the office or your affair will be heading for the rocks. Never ever get carried away with your personal emotions in the office. Do not to stay alone in the same office… converse together as co-workers with other colleagues so that no one will suspect a thing but let it be based strictly on general topics.

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Keep it PROFESSIONAL at all times, never indulge in intimacy inside the office, you can be careless about it and get caught, this won’t be good for your image.

The Thin Line Between Courage-Cowardice

Courage does not always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying “I will try again tomorrow.”

Cheating is the act of been a coward.Cowardice is lacking courage. Your decision to stand up today, to take a step at a time, gets you a step towards your success.

Cheating is the act of been a coward.

What will it profit you to cheat just to score a goal? You say life isn’t fair, that doesn’t warrant your having to steer up a clever-sounding scheme to get what you want in life-eddaz

Sit tight; buckle your sit belt; be ready for that bumpy ride that will open doors of decisions to make.

Are you ready?

Thin line between courage- cowardice

Accept courage! Decline cowardice!