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We Will Cross The Bridge

Love, life, relationships, career can be tough sometimes but consistency with faith and hard work will get us through, like is always been said, “we shall cross the bridge when we get there.”

I have crossed a lot of it and still have lots of bridges to travel across in achieving greatness. This week has been tough I must say. The best experience I encountered was that I crossed that narrow thing successfully and I can smile all the way.

My first Ebook will be out in November (Unveil The Eagle)😍. It hasn’t been so easy writing it, getting it ready to be published coupled with demands from my daily career, family, and other responsibilities. However I love writing, it’s been great, fulfilling and the best thing in my life. I will start working on the second book as soon as this is finally out.

We shall all cross the bridge when it’s time, regardless of life’s struggle for survival💞💝

The Artificial Life

Live naturally

Love naturally

Eat naturally

Embrace nature.

I love the natural things of life; it gives one this sense of belonging, peace and adaptability. Nowadays we have lots of artificial things around us such as artificial hair, flowers, make up kits, food condiments, even artificial love.

All these are as a result of technology advancements. Are these innovations beneficial to the human lives? What are the positive and negative effects? The benefits are good; the lists amounts to being successful as determined by the scientists. The detriments are disastrous with no remedy or very little one and reduced life.

Let’s encourage the natural form of living, don’t get me wrong. Not that we should stop technology but let’s take into cognisance it’s effects on the human life, relationships, plants and animal existence.

7 Things Men Do Before They Say I Do

It’s very conflicting for men before they land on the path of ‘I DO’, or rather very adventurous. Men generally like to live ‘the life’. Gone are those days when a lady meets a guy for the first time and the man tells her he wants to settle down and really keeps to his words.

So what are the things men do before they say ‘I do’

1. Nowadays  a man will tell a lady on the first or second date that he wants to marry her just with the sole purpose of getting into her pants. aha. Men tell ladies the truth and stop the deceiving game. Most men don’t plan to get married, they plan to f*ck, right from the very day they set eyes on a lady…. If not all , then most of them.‘ladies beware.’

2. Men are scared of commitment, it’s a very long journey for them to get to ‘I Do’ land. Men want to party hard, drink, play like there’s no tomorrow, taste threesome. They want to be imaginative and constructive. Their minds need to feed on something appealing.

7 things men do before they say I do

3. Men want to find the perfect woman, one that can cook all types of continental meal, local dish, snacks, name it… They want one that is very good in bed by testing all, until they find the perfect match, the luscious woman with good looks and eye stopping figure. A woman who can work all day and work all night…


Women are not aliens. They are human. 


4. Every bachelor plans his finances for a better future, but I don’t understand situations where some men spend half of the money saved up for their marriage on the wedding ceremony, who is to be blamed for this, the women or men themselves? Either way, It’s still part of the journey to the I do land.

5. Every man wants to lose his virginity before the day. Have you ever met a virgin man at that point in life? Guess not! Even though we still have some female virgins…. men running around searching for female virgins when they have lost theirs long ago before the age of ten years. How is it possible to find the virgins of opposite sex when they have all been tested by the likes of you.

6. Really when a man starts to keep malice with his yet to be father in law is quite amusing, yet to think only women hated the idea of yet-to-be mother in law’s interference in relationships and marriages. Men on that journey always ensure they create a little distance before they say I do.

7. They tell lies to every (Lucy, Rihanna, Kimberley). Why? Simply put it this way–‘A man will always be a man.’

I really hope I’m not stepping on toes here, yikes! aah.. It’s just the simple I do truth, marriage should be enjoyed and not endured or bastardized. Catch all the fun, do whatever you want to do– hope women will be wise enough to detect all this….but men do all this with caution or don’t do it at all to stay safe! You never can tell what could be hunting you down from your past adventures.