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How Many Men Did You Have Sex With?

How many men did you have sex with before you met your recent boyfriend or fiancé? Please tell me you won’t even consider answering this evil question.

WhenI was still naive I used to say to myself that I would tell the man I love or end up spending my life with everything but as I got older and more mature in love life and relationships I realised it wasn’t going to happen. It’s a question that requires no answer even if he buys you the world don’t make that mistake of confessing. The offensive fact is men love to ask this question. Women do too atimes but we don’t fret over it.

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I’ve had friends whom have lost their lovers in this process all in the name of building blocks of solid relationship and trust. It’s a different scenerio if you are still a virgin but I think you might have had sex with seven times a dozen men in your life time or less…ouch…hmm I’m just typing.

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How many men did you have sex with? If he asks you this question, it’s all on you, tell him the truth if you feel you really have to without loosing a thing but honestly I would imply you not to tell because there’s an eighty percent chance that he would see you less of who you are and you gradually fade into thin air before him, he wouldn’t admit it if you talk about it with him when it starts to happen….that’s just men.

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We Are Women To Be Cherished

We are women to be cherished.

We are beautiful

The heart beat of mankind

We are gorgeous and should be protected

Love us and be kind to us.

We are powerful.

 

We are women to be cherished

The nation needs us to eradicate adversities

Women are strong to face the wrought of evil

Women bring out the greatness hidden in men

We are givers of life

The man’s strenght comes from the women

We are women to be cherished, keep that smile beaming on our faces and see the whole lot we brought into the world to offer.

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Would You Show Love Or Say It

It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.

Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.

Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.

Which would you rather do?

•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?

•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?

•Do both but how often?

 

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Is Sex A Priority Or An Option?

I would like to analyze this in two aspects ” sex as a priority or an option in a relationship” and sex as a priority or an option in a marriage”…

From my point of view which I believe is same with many of us- sex is a priority in marriage…isn’t it? So enjoy it to the fullest.

Is sex a priority or an option

Talking about it being a priority in a relationship, I would definitely say NO. I’m dead sure a lot of guys are not on same page with me here.

Having sex with my boyfriend is an option for me because it’s my body until he wraps that ring on my finger, then it becomes a priority. Better still if I chose to have sex with him, it’s still my option because I love to.

Is sex a priority or an option?

It’s high time men stop seeing sex as priority especially these damned stuffed up men on the dating site that seek for sex like they would die any moment they don’t get it.

 

 

When Is The Right Time To Introduce My Boyfriend

It bugs me each time I meet a new guy in my life and then he says to me ‘I would like to know some of your friends or siblings’…Men are known for their hmmm😓 funny attitudes especially in the dating field.

It might also be the other way round…They want to meet him😓😓 and then he turns out to be a moron…

When do i introduce my boyfriend

What if I introduce him to my innermost world of friends or family today and he jilts me tomorrow😮 how would my loved ones feel? They are usually very sensitive about what goes on in our life. Is it timely?

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What do I say to them? And then the next guy comes along and then another and another..What the hell??

Kindly share your opinion on the right time to introduce my boyfriend…

 

My Female Director Is In Love with Me

I am Rob! The new guy on the block. An expatriate newly employed to set up new strategies of moving the business forward. Everyone sees me as a threat, they aren’t too sure what my mission is at the company, however I am here to set things straight. I don’t take no for an answer and I don’t  fail. Failure went away with the past.

I am at cross roads, stupidly in love with Hilda…The director of the company whom I had to transfer her toyboy since he was annoyingly troubling my thoughts and his unethical behaviour at the organisation was unprofitable. An empty brained good looking idiot.

Hilda deserves better…I love her and will show her the meaning of true love. I will let her know what a real man is..She needs to know what it feels like to be treated like a woman. That ice clouding her chest, freezing her heartbeat, turning her into an emotionless woman with the power to shake an organisation and make men act clueless around her needs to be amended.

My heart beat quickened when I finally saw her walking in to the office hall, through my office glass door..I saw the pain written all over her face, while I wondered how she manages to maintain her balance with those 6 inch heels and the sexual shape that drives men crazy.

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She stepped into my office and broke down into tears while I softly took her in my arms, laid her head on my hard chest and let her release the whole pain while the staff member watched in amazement. She raised her soft heads looked into my eyes and said to me softly..Rob I can’t hold it any longer, I have tried so hard to stay away from you for years, I have tried so hard to work hard to take you off my mind, there’s so much pain in my chest from loving you, after all this year’s I need to love freely even if you don’t love me back.

I was shocked, I felt like my shoes were stuck to the hard floor and I couldn’t raise them, when I opened my mouth to talk, my voice sounded like a frog croaking. I cleared it and finally said to her..”Hilda I have always admired you and have fallen in love with you. I love you from deep within me..You are the woman I have always prayed to spend my life with if you accept” and then I devoured her mouth with a long kiss right there in my office.

Rob built his own organization elsewhere while. He dated Hilda for a while and they got married. Harry was relieved of his duties while he was caught making out with one of the female cleaners in the office at his new location.

Here are the links to the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd part of the stories:

Harry- Oh my sexy female director

Harry –  What my sexy female director did

Harry- My Sexy Female Director Has Done It

Rob-loving Loving my sexy female director

Thanks for reading and hope you enjoyed the stories😍😍

Devastation- Never Been Asked Out By A Guy

A fully grown woman in all proportions is expected to be asked out by men whether handsome or ugly, tall, short or whatever. It’s rather devastating when a girl of eighteen and above, single, pretty and descent isn’t asked out by any guy but only admired once in a while with kind gestures.

Devastating- Never been asked out by a guy

What could be the problem here? I met with a friend of mine yesterday who introduced me to her younger cousin of twenty-four, pretty girl I must admit. Apparently she has never be asked out by a guy talkless of being kissed😮😮 isn’t that rather ridiculous… Literally she has been missing out on the sumptuous kisses and attention of cute guys.

Devastating- Never been asked out by a guy

Now how do I come in here? I’m supposed to help hook her up with a guy and then I asked her ‘Tell me about yourself’ she goes thus…. “I’m a very shy lady, I love reading, not really the social type, I’m a virgin” but of course she has to be….I mean she has never been asked out except… Honestly, I would prefer not to hook her up but try to help prepare her for the experience of getting herself hooked.

Devastating- never been asked out by a guy

The point here is that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with her nature except there must be something she isn’t saying. One thing I noticed about her was that she’s exceptionally shy; in this day and age I haven’t met a guy that wants the shy, innocent mummy’s girl, unfortunately…Technology has changed men and other things. No one wants to hang out with the boring type; also she doesn’t have those attractive smiles that makes a guy pee in his pants…

What should a girl that has never been asked out by a guy do to have them running after her?

 

Why Women Should Not Cling Unto Their Men

Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.

Why women should not cling to their men

Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.

Why women should not cling to men

Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.

Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…

 

Oceanlike Mind Of A Woman

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? hmm. Be informed that the mind of a woman is as broad as an ocean- Whereas for some it’s more than that, so guess what women voice out.

Sex positions, foreplay techniques, past sexual experiences, YES, this discussion is not for men alone, you are probably thinking decent women shouldn’t talk about such but be rest assured that women love excitement and are human too. Now let’s move on–Celebrity gossip, clothes & fashion, latest make-up kit in town, men, relationships…..It keeps going on and on…“men don’t even try to get into the minds of women or you get drowned”.

Women sometimes discuss among themselves the concerns of other people, which could be about family issues, intellectual topics, culture, religious matters, food, child bearing…it’s endless!

They talk about anything and everything. While it’s a fact that women like to discuss the topics above, men shouldn’t believe that is all women talk about because this will tag them as being having a shallow view of women-for men like this, connecting to women would be a problem for them, so be open minded while around women.

The female colony like to chat away their excitement, sorrow, joy, new discoveries, one important thing men should know is that WOMEN talk about this things amongst WOMEN. Thread carefully while trying to find your way into thinking that a woman wants to freely discuss this topics with you. When a woman wants to talk to a man, without question and beyond doubts, she wants to discuss about other matters that belong to men’s ears.

Men, women-topics of discussions,regardless of age, height, color…we all love to discuss about things that we feel like talking about, no one should be judged on what they talk about in excitement or what’s on their mind, plus their is freedom of speech.

A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to, matrimony in a moment- Jane Austen.