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When Human Becomes Nature

Nature stands tall

and blossom naturally

without care for worldly things

If only humans could

care less about beauty

or vanity

so we could experience freedom and happiness

 

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Couples Who Don’t fight

I have often wondered If there are real couples who don’t get into clashes with each other; I have also realized that a relationship or marriage without arguments gets boring. Even while you are having the best of times, you argue about everything under the sun.

From my observation and research, I have been able to come up with a list of couples who don’t fight.

  1. Those who are pretentious, full of resentment and liars.
  2. The ones who leave apart or rarely see each other.
  3. Those who mean nothing to each other.

You might have seen couples that look like they don’t engage in conflicts but, the secret is that they do and are superb at it… They have worked on it over time and have developed strategies and armors on how to fight effectively and efficiently without washing their dirty laundry in public.

A strong marriage requires two people who choose to love each other even on those days when they struggle to like each other- DaveWillis.Org

It’s not a fairy tale when you decide to share your time and space with another human, in fact, it could get annoying seeing the same person doing the same thing repeatedly but because of the affection and devotion you have for the other individual, you are willing to make things work out between yourselves.

There will always be arguments from time to time and after you reconcile, the bond gets tighter. What matters most is to ensure you argue constructively by communicating your feelings, thoughts, and opinions in a respectful and mature manner.

Fighting is part of a healthy relationship, but sincere and open communication beats conflict; who says anyone can be happy all the time? Disagreements help you learn something new about each other.

Behind every couple lies two people who have fought hard to overcome all obstacles and interference to be that way. Why? Because it’s what they wanted- Kim George

 

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Success Starts With You

Success is liking yourself,

liking what you do,

and liking how you do it- Maya Angelou

Everyone wants to become outstanding in life. It’s interesting how we focus our minds on the products of achievement but not on how to find our paths to the spot. How do you think someone worth multimillion dollars nailed this status; appear on social media platforms, and places where successful people are known?

Part of what makes us human is that we wake up every day and have one motive in mind- TO FEED. Maslow’s hierarchy focuses on the various levels of human need, once the basic and physiological demands are met (food, water, safety, affection, and esteem), a man works hard to climb to the next stage but the fundamental is getting to the level of self-actualization where success is the ultimate.

How do we become successful?

  1. Believe in you (Self Love).
  2. Aim Higher.
  3. Get out of your comfort zone.
  4. Grab a bag with a mission.
  5. Stand out from the crowd.
  6. Focus.

Actualizing this factors doesn’t confirm the certainty of you becoming wealthy overnight; it’s a gradual process where you take a step at a time alongside patience. Whatever definition of success you have in mind depends on what your goals are but in anything you do, remember to stay happy and not sacrifice your soul for success.

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Love Quotes And Poetry

I sealed love in the bottle

So that When I die

My love will still exist

And there will be no more questions to ask.

-Eddaz

 

Love is friendship that has caught fire

It is quite understanding, mutual

confidence, sharing and forgiving. it is

loyalty through good and bad times. It

settles for less than perfection and

makes allowances for human

weaknesses.

-Ann Landers

 

The emotions that I feel

reverberating through my body

that I cannot explain

joy or sadness

pure love or fondness

-Eddaz

 

Love is a force more formidable than any other, it is invisible

-it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to

transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any

material possession could.

Barbara De Angelis

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Does True Love Really Exist?

It’s difficult to love and for some people, it’s as easy as taking a sip of wine. I have often wondered what it would be like if every passion lasts forever…. the only true love I know existing in this universe is that of the Almighty.

The unquestionable affection

Without limit

No doubts, no confusion

No skepticism, no holding back

The treasure of God is incomparable

It’s hard to express this feeling nowadays because it’s prone to get broken, this makes loving another human tricky. But has a genuine devotion ever existed in humanity because if so why are we so divided, why do couples wake up one day and kill each other, children killing siblings and parents?

Why would a partner seek for divorce after years of being together just because they are no longer loyal to each other or due to whatever reason; I thought true love doesn’t give up… we aren’t God, but he lives in us. What do we call what we have now?

Love differs

The existence is pure

But they refined it

To fit into their daily worlds

Be filled with purity

So that true love can survive

In us

 

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The Ideal Relationship

Healthy relationships create an atmosphere for friendship and courtship. It comprises trust, honesty, respect, and loyalty so you have hope for an ideal relationship based on this foundation. It’s not always as easy as it sounds because there’s bound to be conflicts, disagreements, miscommunications and this happens because we are human and no one is perfect.

Therefore, before going into any relationship, remember your partner isn’t perfect, neither are you so don’t expect a relationship without flaws.

Ideas on building the Ideal Relationship.

  • Acknowledge each other’s feelings
  • Respect for each other.
  • Never condemn your partner
  • Accept each other’s flaws.
  • Accept you made mistakes and adjust.
  • Always communicate through talking, emailing, texting or written letters.
  • Forgive.
  • Don’t pretend to be perfect nor act saintly.
  • Help each other.
  • Build trust.

If the following doesn’t work, then you may need to take a break and figure out what you both want from each other.

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One Fact About Human

A conundrum of life I have learnt is that getting to know someone completely is very difficult, If not almost impossible. I actually compare it with a painter painting a picture on a frame…

When you see an artist begin his or her work of art imagining what the final work will be all about…yet you’re still wondering what the outcome will be as the artist continues brushing away…by the middle of the painters work you know you are getting a pretty good idea what the final work will look like, but yet you’re still not one hundred percent sure…and the painter is about to finish his or her work…now you almost know exactly how the concluding work will look like…but in reality you’re still not hundred percent sure until the artist strokes his or her final brush…

Hardly ever in life do we see that special someone’s final picture. That final stroke of a brush that would show us exactly what the person is really about….and so enjoy his or her work of art, but never completely picture it in your mind, and in your heart, until you see that final stroke of the brush…

This is one fact about human we are currently to contend with.

A post written by my friend Carlos Soler

Why Judge Me By The Colour Of My Skin?

Created in the superiority of the extremes

Lying in the shadow of the hollow

Vipers gushing out at my colour

Did I create myself?

Did I ask for a particular colour?

If I had the opportunity to choose, would I choose?

I am white! I am black! I am mixed coloured!

Whirlwind of hatred blowing around

Poisonous flames tearing friends apart.

A world where people are judged over those beautiful colours; minds of great men have been released to the devil to dominate.

The demonic one is out there rejoicing over the works of his hands; while people are walking around in oblivion. We know not what we are doing…

Let me tell you the naked truth…

He is on his dark throne

Laughing

Rejoicing

Celebrating

Nominating

Stealing souls

Why?

He is tearing nations apart

Destroying civilization

Making friends kill each other

Feeding on destruction

All on the skin colour

We are the flesh, not to fight the flesh but to fight the demon by refusing to judge, kill and rule over those gorgeous skin colours, because he has decided to create a reason for nations to destroy each other over the colour of the skin and add more dark souls to his kingdom.

Tears of sadness over our ignorance

Why do we judge each other over the colour of our skins?

Do we even know why we fight over it?

Have you ever sat to think about it?

Have you ever asked yourself what will be benefitted?

Have you ever seeked for peace?

Can we even try to live in peace with each other without lamenting over the colour of the skin. Let’s accept the truth; we know not what we are doing… gullibility should no longer be an excuse…

We are all great, wonderfully created by God who loves us with all sincerity, he never condemns us, he created us under himself, he hates the fight over skin colour, he wants love to flourish over nations, he wants people to live and love in peace.  Let’s all try to put evil to shame, challenge ourselves to shake the hands of people regardless of the colour of the skin.

 

 

 

 

With the first Spark the Journey begins…

Inspiring post by Minal Dalal. Read and enjoy😊

Minal Dalal

awareness

What happens when we are struck with the first spark of awareness? The first spark of who we are. In awareness The journey begins…

With that very first spark our life changes. For sure. Even the dimmest ray of Sun and entire world changes. Now we can never turn back. We may get tired, we give up, we rise again, we sometimes limp or walk, sometimes we run or eve fly. We may step down as well but can never ever return to the state of complete darkness, we were in before. Now only forward marching. Knowingly, unknowingly, intentionally, unintentionally, willingly, unwillingly, spontaneously or struggling. The only way is forward marching. Towards Light, towards Truth, towards Purity. Towards our highest potential of our Self Supreme Being.

All situation the life has been providing us continuously, whether in stark darkness or little brightness or full beaming brightness, are meant for us…

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