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Couples Who Don’t fight

I have often wondered If there are real couples who don’t get into clashes with each other; I have also realized that a relationship or marriage without arguments gets boring. Even while you are having the best of times, you argue about everything under the sun.

From my observation and research, I have been able to come up with a list of couples who don’t fight.

  1. Those who are pretentious, full of resentment and liars.
  2. The ones who leave apart or rarely see each other.
  3. Those who mean nothing to each other.

You might have seen couples that look like they don’t engage in conflicts but, the secret is that they do and are superb at it… They have worked on it over time and have developed strategies and armors on how to fight effectively and efficiently without washing their dirty laundry in public.

A strong marriage requires two people who choose to love each other even on those days when they struggle to like each other- DaveWillis.Org

It’s not a fairy tale when you decide to share your time and space with another human, in fact, it could get annoying seeing the same person doing the same thing repeatedly but because of the affection and devotion you have for the other individual, you are willing to make things work out between yourselves.

There will always be arguments from time to time and after you reconcile, the bond gets tighter. What matters most is to ensure you argue constructively by communicating your feelings, thoughts, and opinions in a respectful and mature manner.

Fighting is part of a healthy relationship, but sincere and open communication beats conflict; who says anyone can be happy all the time? Disagreements help you learn something new about each other.

Behind every couple lies two people who have fought hard to overcome all obstacles and interference to be that way. Why? Because it’s what they wanted- Kim George

 

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Success Starts With You

Success is liking yourself,

liking what you do,

and liking how you do it- Maya Angelou

Everyone wants to become outstanding in life. It’s interesting how we focus our minds on the products of achievement but not on how to find our paths to the spot. How do you think someone worth multimillion dollars nailed this status; appear on social media platforms, and places where successful people are known?

Part of what makes us human is that we wake up every day and have one motive in mind- TO FEED. Maslow’s hierarchy focuses on the various levels of human need, once the basic and physiological demands are met (food, water, safety, affection, and esteem), a man works hard to climb to the next stage but the fundamental is getting to the level of self-actualization where success is the ultimate.

How do we become successful?

  1. Believe in you (Self Love).
  2. Aim Higher.
  3. Get out of your comfort zone.
  4. Grab a bag with a mission.
  5. Stand out from the crowd.
  6. Focus.

Actualizing this factors doesn’t confirm the certainty of you becoming wealthy overnight; it’s a gradual process where you take a step at a time alongside patience. Whatever definition of success you have in mind depends on what your goals are but in anything you do, remember to stay happy and not sacrifice your soul for success.

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Love Quotes And Poetry

I sealed love in the bottle

So that When I die

My love will still exist

And there will be no more questions to ask.

-Eddaz

 

Love is friendship that has caught fire

It is quite understanding, mutual

confidence, sharing and forgiving. it is

loyalty through good and bad times. It

settles for less than perfection and

makes allowances for human

weaknesses.

-Ann Landers

 

The emotions that I feel

reverberating through my body

that I cannot explain

joy or sadness

pure love or fondness

-Eddaz

 

Love is a force more formidable than any other, it is invisible

-it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to

transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any

material possession could.

Barbara De Angelis

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Does True Love Really Exist?

It’s difficult to love and for some people, it’s as easy as taking a sip of wine. I have often wondered what it would be like if every passion lasts forever…. the only true love I know existing in this universe is that of the Almighty.

The unquestionable affection

Without limit

No doubts, no confusion

No skepticism, no holding back

The treasure of God is incomparable

It’s hard to express this feeling nowadays because it’s prone to get broken, this makes loving another human tricky. But has a genuine devotion ever existed in humanity because if so why are we so divided, why do couples wake up one day and kill each other, children killing siblings and parents?

Why would a partner seek for divorce after years of being together just because they are no longer loyal to each other or due to whatever reason; I thought true love doesn’t give up… we aren’t God, but he lives in us. What do we call what we have now?

Love differs

The existence is pure

But they refined it

To fit into their daily worlds

Be filled with purity

So that true love can survive

In us

 

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