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Perplexed-Admiring a Girl and Lusting After Another

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The situation where a man meets a lady, builds an attraction where he is on the verge of seriously deciding if he should go ahead and date her, and then something happens that might change the whole scenario.

Here is how the story goes: I met a lady through a good friend of mine while I travelled back to my country. she seemed so nice, and beautiful. We chatted for a while, even though I was in the country for a very short period, we still kept in touch after I journeyed back to my base.

Then one day I was automatically invited to a group chat on Whatsapp, where I saw a lady’s picture among st the long list, she looked very attractive that there was no way anyone could miss it, I got drawn to the physique, that I had to place a call to the number on the Whatsapp contact. We got talking, and became friends. Subsequently, I found out that the Whatsapp group invite was from my intended girlfriend back in my country which she said was a mistake on her part while trying to add friends on her contact list. I became perplexed when she informed me that her friend (Whatsapp Contact) called her after getting a call from me.

I got disorientated from hearing that, so I explained to her how I got the invite and decided to call her…

The lady’s I mage I saw and put a call across too was her close friend, who asked my intended girlfriend (IG) a couple of questions about me, not knowing I had plans of dating my IG. Now I’m confused because my IG is acting withdrawn from me, and what confuses me more is that she also didn’t tell her friend about us, but decided to keep it away from her. I like her but she doesn’t seem to be giving me all the attention I think I deserve and the other lady gives me a lot of this attention I need but I don’t like her as much. Sincerely she is actually the only lady I have met so far and really adore. But does she feel same way about me??

I have tried to explain to her that the reason I placed the call is because she never gives me enough attention, so I felt she didn’t like me enough, and moreover that I didn’t know the other lady was her friend but she’s just acting weird.

My opinion is that he should stay away from the two of them for a while and let his heart decide or have a serious chat with the IG to know if she really wants to spend her life with him or not.

Your kind comments and suggestions are welcome.

 

home, poetry

Radicals for evolution

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Building a revolutionary of radicals

That cannot be tamed

All in the name of evolution

Is like setting a bush on fire without control

E-book, home

My First Ebook

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Over the years I’ve had a yearning to write and publish, so I went ahead and started out by writing poems which got to the lime light on greeting cards, and birthday cards. I went further with my fierce yearning to write more, then I wrote two books, one completed and the other yet to be completed, and not published. Why stop? I felt I needed to start a blog…

I got distracted, I opened a website that wasted a lot of my time and stopped me from writing but got me running after adverts😯. Truth is that’s not my aim with my blog, if it comes, that’s fine but not threading on the block of distraction no more. That mistake though shed light on so many things I hadn’t seen before. It actually took me on a journey I never knew existed.

I decided to start afresh since I wasn’t breathing properly any longer.. I needed to write my heart out. First by shutting down the website👌 best decision I ever made in my life…no regrets at all😎, then I started blogging, and it’s been my joy, now I have a balanced life.

My debut Ebook which will be out soon is different from my other unpublished books, I will write more about it as time goes by. A lot of my friends wondered why the self help book first and not romance or something else, and I said this is what I want to get out there now because I have a longing for it, I need to get it out there for people that need it, it will touch lives, it will open sights, not the physical ones…you know what I mean I believe!

You all have a great day.

Xoxoxo

 

 

 

home, poetry

That Sultry Zingy Thing

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Zing!  Zing! Zing

I felt it it buzz in my head

Flip! Flap! Flip

Thinking it was on my skin

No!  I couldn’t place a finger on it

Degeneration of generational thongs

Mainstream of activities in the bewildered

Ouch! it prickled my sensitivity

Awful pins and needles

Ejaculating my sensations back to life

Tinging me for the callipygian ideal

Asking me to move in the rythm

Vibrating me to be sultry

Comfy?

Care-less, as long as it is as it is

It zings out the  bumpy thing behind me.

 

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Cracking the Nut On Monday

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Monday starts a new  working day, much of the weekend fun, ravishing and excitement is back in the knap sack. You’ve been up as early as 4 A.M, plans for the day starts, thoughts about meeting clients, Monday meetings, challenges of having to facing “hard to crack clients” gives one headache.

You are at work right now, and guess you don’t even know where to start. Someone out there is probably having a headache, thinking about how to meet the target, or if a query is coming any time soon. It could as well be that you are thinking of quitting your job. You are almost feeling sick in your guts and wishing you had stayed back in bed. You are probably still on your way to the office having this fear at the pit of your stomach that you might loose your job today!!! Blah, blah, blah.

We all have horrible thoughts on Monday, if not all, then a great percentage of us. The good news is that, this is what Monday actually is:

M- Magnanimous

Today is an opportunity to stand out as a great person, be large at heart, be tolerant to people around you, remember they also wish they are still in bed. Whatever you perceive from people today is just a perception of what is in their own head, don’t take it personal.

O- Optimistic

Say to yourself – I am not a PESSIMIST. Get up, go out there and conquer, today proceeds the journey … be hopeful that you will win the trophy, be affirmative, have that “I can do it spirit,” don’t feel weighed down.

N- Neat

Look exceptionally neat today, it signifies you mean business and want to make progress this week. It profoundly portrays the image of a serious minded person. It speaks VOLUME; Neatness makes us feel that we have to be at the best behavior.

D- Determination

Walk into the office, smile, do not get upset with people or situations today, both are powerless without your reaction. If you are your own boss, set targets for yourself, be up to the task, take your kids to school with the mind set that today is surely certain.

A- Astounding

You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today-Abraham Lincoln.

Dazzle, be impressive, be strong at heart-DISTINCT sets you apart.

Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to LOVE what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking and don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, YOU WILL KNOW WHEN YOU FIND IT- Steve Jobs.

Y- Yippee

Friday is TGIF, just as Monday is “TGIM” Be so happy that when others look at you they become happy too.

I hope this makes you have a positive attitude towards Monday, IF not, at least it will prepare you for the journey.