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When You Find Yourself Hopelessly In Love

Love comes, it goes, comes again; like a fairy-tale we find ourselves engulfed in it, wrapped up in it like a coven. Wondering how we ended up in that situation…This is how we feel when we are hopelessly in love.

When you find yourself hopelessly in love

Have you felt that way? I mean seriously…Felt like you are the definition of love. And then miraculously when we get disentangled from it, especially from the wrong kinda love.. we feel free and delivered, only to find it hiding in another corner, about to jump right at us like it’s Spider-Man…

Hopelessly in love

Honestly sometimes I hate love but when it jumps and glues to my heart I feel so safe in it until it turns sour.

I don’t want to be hopelessly in love with the wrong partner…I want to be hopelessly but wisely in love with the right one…This is what we need to do to get our games right. That’s if we can control it though!

I once had a friend that said he was hopelessly in love with his girlfriend and unfortunately for him, she didn’t give a damn…Yet this guy kept on loving her until one day the love detached from his heart somehow and when the girl realised that her boyfriend had regained his freedom. She started to have panic attack which somehow got love glued to her and then she became hopelessly in love with him…Luckily for her, she had a man with a beautiful soul who never took advantage of her nor break her heart.

When you find yourself hopelessly in love

What do you do when you are hopelessly in love?




Perplexed-Admiring a Girl and Lusting After Another

The situation where a man meets a lady, builds an attraction where he is on the verge of seriously deciding if he should go ahead and date her, and then something happens that might change the whole scenario.

Here is how the story goes: I met a lady through a good friend of mine while I travelled back to my country. she seemed so nice, and beautiful. We chatted for a while, even though I was in the country for a very short period, we still kept in touch after I journeyed back to my base.

Then one day I was automatically invited to a group chat on Whatsapp, where I saw a lady’s picture among st the long list, she looked very attractive that there was no way anyone could miss it, I got drawn to the physique, that I had to place a call to the number on the Whatsapp contact. We got talking, and became friends. Subsequently, I found out that the Whatsapp group invite was from my intended girlfriend back in my country which she said was a mistake on her part while trying to add friends on her contact list. I became perplexed when she informed me that her friend (Whatsapp Contact) called her after getting a call from me.

I got disorientated from hearing that, so I explained to her how I got the invite and decided to call her…

The lady’s I mage I saw and put a call across too was her close friend, who asked my intended girlfriend (IG) a couple of questions about me, not knowing I had plans of dating my IG. Now I’m confused because my IG is acting withdrawn from me, and what confuses me more is that she also didn’t tell her friend about us, but decided to keep it away from her. I like her but she doesn’t seem to be giving me all the attention I think I deserve and the other lady gives me a lot of this attention I need but I don’t like her as much. Sincerely¬†she is actually the only lady I have met so far and really adore. But does she feel same way about me??

I have tried to explain to her that the reason I placed the call is because she never gives me enough attention, so I felt she didn’t like me enough, and moreover that I didn’t know the other lady was her friend but she’s just acting weird.

My opinion is that he should stay away from the two of them for a while and let his heart decide or have a serious chat with the IG to know if she really wants to spend her life with him or not.

Your kind comments and suggestions are welcome.