Your candle light that radiates through my soul
The beam of light that lights up my world
That light that gives me the aura of vitality
The rays that reflect the brightness of your tender heart
Wishing that it would never have to go off
Than to live an everlasting trail in my life..
What exactly does it mean when that word LIFE is mentioned? It’s all about everything that surrounds us, that goes on in our environment, people, character, it encompasses everything that makes us human, both known and unknown. According to the Wikipedia, it says life is partially a process not a substance. Life is not a nightmare.
There are various things that matter in life which cannot be compromised, but I would like to lay emphasis on the little things that matter in life.
However take note that some of this little things are very important to some of us in our daily lives and cannot be underestimated. Little things that matter to you might be the greatest need in life for others or better-still for you-eddaz.
I met a guy once who told me that women matter a lot in his life, I asked why and his reply was that, women made him who he is, women love him for no particular reason and would go at any length to make him have every one of his needs. For me, it sounds kinda funny but it’s actually an essential little thing which turned significant in his life.
We need to take cognizance of this little things in out life, what are there values, how far have they journeyed with us. Writing matters to me but it’s of no relevance to some people, most important thing is it matters to me and I would love to explore it more.
“It has been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important”-The memoirs of Sherlock Holmes
For some of us little things that matter to us could vary from family, career, education, health, for some of us, it’s clothes, makeup kits, gadgets, flowers, sharing gifts, having get together functions, sporting events, watching movies, singing, name it….However how little it seems, the most important thing is it matters to you, so keep enjoying it, you might look back down memory lane and realise it was a life saver for you or something bigger. If the things that matter in your life are totally wrong, then give up on it. We have to stop gaining pleasure from things that hurt people so bad.
For me little things that matter are gestures like opening doors for the elderly people, helping someone in need, a little smile goes a long way for me. ..Try to encourage little things in life such as sharing with the less privileged, a little assistance for the needy, kind words to people around you, keeping the environment clean, a little tip once in a while as sign of appreciation.
Challenge yourself today that henceforth each day or trice a week you will buy a plate of meal for someone in need, give out some of your old things, you never know who might be in great need of this things. Take note of your environment and do the needful.Go on a short trip, have fun…
When I look at you is an awesome post written by Keri. L. Read! Enjoy!
Promises mean a lot
Not to be taken lightly
It’s a seal of wager
Mostly made in the heat of the moment
Consequences of failure not considered
Make a thoughtful promise
Keep to your words.
Over the years, there has been a saying that ” If you want a woman to comply to your requests, try using flattery to persuade her.” Really I wonder if every or any man can get away with this with all women. It may have worked a couple of times, in fact it has worked 98 percent of the time used. Flattery plays well with women. YES! But it doesn’t sit still. She will always refer back to it.
Hank Ketcham- Flattery is like chewing gum. Enjoy it, but don’t swallow it.
Perhaps women have been complying with this over the years.
Flattery is the worst and fastest way of showing our esteem – Jonathan Swift
Flattery is a form of positive energy which men use to compliment or entice women when they need an instant result from them; it’s usually used instead of enforcing them to bend to their will.
Forms of Flattery used on women by men:
A woman care about actions more than words, empty juicy flattery with nothing to back it up will only get her to pay attention initially, but will not go too far with her.
EDDAZ 