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Tuesday Thoughts

The greatest lie told by anyone is “I will stay by your side forever”

Umbrellas protect us from rain not from getting pregnant.

Enchanting moments should be kept to always remember.

Sail away from the shores of my heart, let it be free of the likes of you- Eddaz

Dally not with other folks spouses or money – Ben Franklin

Aim for a partner that respects your vision.

Yes, I love to blog generally about passion and poetry because I adore passion.

This is a list of my Tuesday thoughts and saying. Enjoy the week… it’s a new month and obviously, we are almost at the end of the year once more. I pray we achieve our hearts desires and stay happy in everything you do or wherever you find yourself in life. Have fun blogging and live life to the fullest. Xoxoxo.

 

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How Not To Stay Single

I published a post on my blog two weeks ago on “Why Men Stay Single,” hence based on one of my dear readers who asked me to write on this topic, “How not to stay single,” here we go. But note, I’m not a relationship expert, everything I write on my blog based on relationships, love, and marriage is of my opinion, research, and true life experiences.

It’s a state of mind when you panic about being single, it should be considered as a learning period; Once you accept the position in your life, it will surprise you how other things will fall into place, things you never expected nor planned. Getting married or entering a long-term relationship is not the end to your struggles… believe me; It’s an eye-opener and another learning ground. But the good news is that if you meet the right person who is willing to travel on the same path – you will be able to rock the boat together regardless of the storms…

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If you don’t want to stay single, consider the following…

-Accept that you are single.

-Search your heart since no one is listening to your thoughts and ask yourself if you are ready for a relationship.

-If you feel insecure or have biased feelings about dating but unwilling to stay single, you might need to make some visits to your therapy.

-Stay happy and take time to discover yourself.

-You will make mistakes but never be hard on yourself.

-Acknowledge that no one is perfect.

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-Don’t be selective of men or women to date.

-Build your confidence, work on your charisma, be real.

-Always put yourself together.

-Don’t rush into any relationship because you don’t want to stay single.

-Don’t dwell on the past but look forward to the future with joy on the horizon.

-Don’t make a list of what the ideal partner should be but open your heart.

-Prepare yourself for agreements, disagreements, love, long-term commitment and whatever you might encounter when you start dating.

-Be ready to let go, there will be times you must sacrifice your desires to make your partner happy.

When your ‘OWN’ partner comes, nothing can stop you from being together… NOTHING

If the relationship doesn’t work out, move on and stay happy, never lose confidence in yourself because it means that you and the person aren’t meant to be together.

Feel free to share your opinions on how not to stay single.

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Who am I?

Hello lovely people.

This is my very first blog post on WordPress which I posted on the 13th of April 2016, I had no idea what to expect but I kept blogging because my spirit kept haunting me for words to come out.

Kindly read!!

This is a question we all ask ourselves frequently. Recognizing who we are, signifies that we are ready to move on to the next level, quite a number of people ask themselves this question at almost every stage of their life. This brings home to us that people who ask this question are generally struggling with their personality and are searching for a core sense of themselves.

When I was in high school, I constantly used to ask myself the same question until a friend in the choir group noticed my dismay which led her into counselling me to stop RUNNING away from my SHADOW, I actually didn’t know what she was talking about until ten years later, I finally had to make a bold stop to face my shadow…the darker part of myself….fear of  failure.

Now I know who I am, I have learnt to welcome and embrace the darker part of myself, my flaws, bad habits, negative emotions, FEAR OF FAILURE…Once you have discovered the light, there is a new sense of self-waiting to be born, this is the time you get to realize there is more to who you are with a whole lot of potentials you have that needs to be exploited….

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Yellow Sunshine of Love

Hello lovely people, here is another one of my favorite blog posts written last year January. Have fun while reading, it’s all about love and it’s Friday a good day to immerse yourself in the atmosphere of love…

Enjoy!!!

Have you experienced times when you look at someone close to your heart and smile for no reason? What do you think that signifies? I think it’s joy… Contentment… Fulfillment…

Yellow Sunshine of love

I was nothing

Broken to a fault

Darkness overshadowed my heart

I sleep with worry close to me

I wake up surrounded by fear

It’s not like that anymore

Since you walked into my life

Took away the blanket of darkness

Spread over my life with sunshine

The yellow light showing joyfully

Smiling at me

Reminding me that it’s just the break of a new dawn

The sunset of a new love.

Missing My Heart

Weaving golden baskets tirelessly

Life interlacing ribbons of crop

Body craving for release

My heart groaning to go back home

Pinnacles of thoughts tiptoeing

Searching for settlement

Love tickling in my heart.

I didn’t get much sleep last night, I was on the phone almost all night with my husband gossiping about everything and making plans for our forthcoming trips. I’m away from home at the moment on a working trip, nevertheless, I’m glad I have the opportunity of writing, although my posting time on WordPress blog has been a little bit disrupted due to work schedule.

My work trip is for about two months, which means I have three weeks left, I miss my husband deeply even though I get to go home some weekends and back to work. It hasn’t been easy working far away from home…..

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Distractions From Writing On My Blog

Intriguing

Perfection

Captivating

Thought sharing

When I write, I usually have this intriguing smile on my face I usually don’t know why that happens but I seem to enjoy it. I love to pour my heart out most times, but I find it difficult editing my own blog posts, hence, I’ve realized once in a while I just need to do so because I like Perfection, even though I’m not there yet. There are some certain distractions so captivating that I just find it difficult to write down my thoughts.

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The biggest distractions are…..

Movies….work stress….reading…Swagbucks…Social media

YES….they are my issues yet some of them are useful in helping me with thought sharing. Take for instance movies; it’s my favorite hobby, it inspires, relaxes, as a result, distracts me from timely writing.

I need to make money outside my blog, I got bills to pay, so work stress interferes a lot and gives me hard time visiting WordPress but I’m doing all I can to keep it checked.

Reading takes time and after I’m done reading books or other blog posts, I would be dead tired to write which I find distracting sometimes but nevertheless, I get to learn from other blogger’s posts consequently making friends through WordPress.

Yayyyy Swagbucks…I’m a survey freak and through Swagbucks, I’ve been able to earn lots of gift cards and bought so many things for myself just by doing surveys, trust me it takes a lot of time so you know what I mean.

Finally, social media….twitter, facebook, Pinterest, Instagram; time killers and distracting, on the other hand, this tools are the perfect combination for my blog.

However, amidst all my distractions I’m glad that I still find time to write.

So what are your distractions from writing blog posts?

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Do You Have A Story To Tell

My life is like a book of mysteries you cant even comprehend, this compelled me to write some of it on my blog besides the words buzzing in my head crying out to be written called ‘being creative.’

Creativity comes in many forms such as through divine intervention, In addition to that, it could be attributed to the collection of images and ideas transformed into whatever you want it to be and in my own world it is construed into words, you could also consider it an abstract reasoning.

Do you have a story you desire to tell but you don’t know how to get it out there, or you need people to read about your life experiences and share their opinions?

Feel free to email me here- eddazoneddaz@gmail.com. 

I have a story,

Is it fun to tell, or just a prisoner crying out to be set free?

I want to be heard, I want it out there for people to know,

Not to tease me but to be conscious of who I am.

When I started my course with ease and discomfort,

The times I fell, mounted up to walk again,

Should I feel like I’m wasting my time

Because nobody wants to know?

I have the opportunity to walk in freedom,

But I want to tell,

Tell the story that needs to be told.

 

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Read Just As You Write

We are more of learners regardless of how vast our knowledge is. The more we learn, the more human data base we acquire. After a while we will be able to translate the information learnt from both trash and accuracy to numbers in their numeric forms for our usage.

Read, read, read. Read everything- Trash, classics, good and bad, and see how they do it. Just like a carpenter who works as an apprentice and studies the master. Read! You’ll absorb it – William Faulkner

It’s mentally stimulating for me reading books, blog posts and listening to the news; I find it exhilarating coupled with the fact that I stay updated with findings and opinions. A certain area of my life I’m experiencing right now has been made easy for me because of the knowledge I acquired from a blogger that shared his own experience.

Read a lot, read anything you can get your hands on – J.K Rowling

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Keep reading and writing. Xoxo

A Surprising Experience On Wordpress

I believe you guys might have noticed I was away for almost a year without blogging on WordPress, I actually went away and eloped, therefore I couldn’t get anything down and since getting back I noticed it’s a whole new surprising experience for me, time changes everything.

Of all my experiences I noticed one thing in particular which got me biased…people are reading less and apparently writing less. Or maybe WordPress is missing something. We all blog for several reasons on the various platforms of the internet as long as we find joy in whatever we do, I am in no position to tell anyone what to blog about or how to go about doing it and of course no one is other than yourself  but I’m just perplexed.

I’ve had my blog for over two years and it’s my joy, it has led me on a discovery path I never knew existed. I want to use this opportunity to thank my followers, my lovelies reading, liking and commenting on my posts, I also thank those following me only because they want me to follow them back.

Happy Blogging. Xoxo

 

 

 

My New Face

I changed the theme of my blog last night, I really wasn’t planning to do so but I did because I get bored easily and since coming back to my blog, I’ve had this wierd feeling that it looks plain.

I hope this looks different and you all like it. I also decided to try out monetising through Amazon and let’s hope I make some money from that without getting bored soon.

My ebook is also available for sale on the side bar, kindly encourage me by buying and I’ve decided to write another book but  different from the first one.

Watch out…soon my ebook (Unveil The Eagle) will be out for free download for a couple of days.

Love you all…