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Should We Have Values To Live By

Should we have values to live by?

Values are things we believe are important to us and will do a lot to maintain as part of our daily lives in respect to culture, family, work, religion, habits e.t.c

Do you have values; Good question isn’t it? A lot of us don’t know if we have values much less living by one. Some organisations have one and I bet most of their staff don’t understand it. I have looked around me for years and seen that a large percentage of humans all over the world have no values they live by, some are aware but just don’t give it any thought as to how it will reflect and improve their life so they forego it.

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Should we have values to live by

There are so many values to live by as mentioned above and much more, let’s start by picking one of them and see the results, call it a test and see if you pass.

Should we have values to live by? My answer is a big yes. Why? Growth, awareness, love, standard, measurement of success, corrective measures. Having one or two helps us have all these.

What are some of the values I live by? Family value is one thing I don’t take too easily, it’s very important to me, it contributes to growth and love in my life, I can’t live without family values. My cultural values is placed highly too, I can’t forget who I am and where I’m from, it keeps me focused and level headed.

Should we have values to live by?

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We Are Women To Be Cherished

We are women to be cherished.

We are beautiful

The heart beat of mankind

We are gorgeous and should be protected

Love us and be kind to us.

We are powerful.

 

We are women to be cherished

The nation needs us to eradicate adversities

Women are strong to face the wrought of evil

Women bring out the greatness hidden in men

We are givers of life

The man’s strenght comes from the women

We are women to be cherished, keep that smile beaming on our faces and see the whole lot we brought into the world to offer.

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Good Girl Turns Bad

The good girl only wants to be happy

She was created soft and to just be herself

With an open mind, she sees the world

As a place to love, share, care and live

To bring beauty into the space and spice it up

But of course she gets muddled up

Good girl turn baf

Back in the days when love and respect existed, there was happiness although very few heartbreaks here and there, probably due to family issues.

Good girls were everywhere for the taking to be baptised into marriage and marital life had a path, not so rosy sometimes but it existed.

But now see what we have; all girls have turned bad except a few of us…haha yes I’m one of them good girls…

Dating and marital life is now easily compared to hell in most cases.

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Why have they turned bad?

Heartbreak, denial, lies, deception, rejection, sexual harassment at work place, home, name it…

Turned the light into darkness

Dampening their souls

They cry hard when alone

Afraid to live again, to face the world

Hard to love again but to pretend and hurt more.

Do I blame them? NO!! But…

Let’s not allow bitterness creep into our soul..each time we fall, we must rise again to be stronger and wiser so that the generation of good girls that once existed can be back again to retain sunshine- eddaz

When Is The Right Time To Introduce My Boyfriend

It bugs me each time I meet a new guy in my life and then he says to me ‘I would like to know some of your friends or siblings’…Men are known for their hmmm😓 funny attitudes especially in the dating field.

It might also be the other way round…They want to meet him😓😓 and then he turns out to be a moron…

When do i introduce my boyfriend

What if I introduce him to my innermost world of friends or family today and he jilts me tomorrow😮 how would my loved ones feel? They are usually very sensitive about what goes on in our life. Is it timely?

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What do I say to them? And then the next guy comes along and then another and another..What the hell??

Kindly share your opinion on the right time to introduce my boyfriend…

 

Why I Heal From Unfortunate Incidents

Life is a process which comes along with goodies as well as it’s own bag of unfortunate incidents. These appears in different shades…such as in red, blue, green, yellow, white or black colour.

I’ve been hit hard

While attempting to walk through the wall

Trying to break down the wall

I fell down

But I was raised up

Helping hands ready to heal me

I opened my arms to embrace the recuperation

Cast away the shadow of death surrounding me

Bring me into the light of redemption.

Why I heal from unfortunate Incidents

When life brings us packages of delight we embrace it wholeheartedly….When life brings tragedy or what we never beseeched, we must definitely embrace it too…WHY??

The light will always overshadow darkness; accepting the tragic moments familiarizes us with the lesson it’s presenting to us which when we embrace will crack open and lead us to the light.

The healing process will position our great minds for the unique surprises we are about to encounter thereby allowing us enjoy the goodies that life will bring, which can come sooner or later.

I’ve been hit hard many times, some so hard that I feel I will never be able to move on but I have also learnt to accept this challenges, by crying out the darkness to let the light in so that I can learn to find the path that I should follow.

Life isn’t all about bed of roses, paradise, rainbow nor fairy tale stories…We just have to push harder which I tell my self daily. Sometimes the going gets too tough for me, then it gets better and then I feel the terrible bumps vigorously aiming at me which makes me wonder why I can’t be like the royal family of England or The Kardashians rocking the world or even Bill Gates…Remember they all over stories to tell, ones that you can’t even imagine, they have terrible skeletons in their cupboards they can’t reveal to the world.

I heal because I open the doors of my heart to healing to receive my gifts 💝💞

Lovingly Wrapped In Comfort

In the comfort of our own world, we flourish, get wrapped up lovingly so as to be free from the discomfort raging around. Eventually we come out of it and find ourselves back in the harsh realities of life. I have asked myself a couple of times why I have to bend to the heat waves that hit hard at me and inclusive of we humans.

Why can’t I just stand upright at all times when life gets very tough…Yes I do stand firm but I mean ” stand firm at all times like a robot” regardless of how tough the issues are.

I believe I’m not the only one in this situation, so many people are out there asking….Waiting… Wondering…Saying to themselves” I need to be stronger but how? God helps us but we also need to make way for the help to come through.

How do we stand lovingly firm at all times regardless of the tough situations that arises in life?

Is Life Now A Marathon?

Martin Luther King is a great man who I admire so much for his wisdom and braveness.  We honour and celebrate him today, his presence will always felt. This quote below makes me think if life is a marathon now…I really don’t want to admit the near truth or the plain honest truth, but on the contrary I see hatred amongst humanity, race, contest to be the best regardless of whatever it takes to win; it’s so strong that I start to wonder about the new generation…What will happen next?

This hour in history needs a dedicated circle of

Transformed nonconformists. Our planet teeters on

The brink of annihilation; dangerous passion of pride,

Hatred, and selfishness are enthroned in our

Lives; and men do reverence before false gods

Of nationalism and materialism.

 

The saving of our world from pending

Doom will come, not through the

Complacent adjustment of the

Conforming majority, but through

The creative maladjustment

Of a nonconforming minority.