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Navigating Love in a Changing World

Romantic relationships have undergone evolution over the centuries, reflecting the shifting dynamics of society, culture, technology, and individual desires. From arranged marriages to modern-day love stories, the journey of romantic relationships has been fascinating.

  1. The Traditional Arrangement: Marriage for Survival

In ancient times, romantic relationships usually focused on practicality and survival. Love was secondary to the economic, social, or political alliances they fostered. They arranged marriages, and individuals had little say in choosing their life partners. Romantic love was a relatively minor consideration.

  1. The Emergence of Romantic Love

The concept of romantic love began to gain prominence during the Middle Ages in Europe, where troubadours and poets celebrated love in their art and literature. The idea of marrying for love gradually took root, emphasizing personal happiness and emotional connection.

  1. The Victorian Era: Love and Social Constraints

During the Victorian era, romantic relationships were distinct because of the strict code of conduct and social norms. Courtship rituals were elaborate, and strict etiquette governed the interactions between individuals. Love was idealized but often constrained by societal expectations.

  1. The 20th Century: Freedom and Independence

The 20th century has witnessed significant changes in romantic relationships. The Women’s Liberation Movement in the 1960s and 1970s challenged traditional gender roles and paved the way for greater gender equality in relationships. The rise of divorce rates and changing family structures reflected a shift toward individual autonomy and personal fulfillment.

  1. The Digital Age: Love in the Digital World

The 21st century has brought about a digital revolution in romantic relationships. Online dating platforms have made it easier for people to connect, breaking down geographical barriers and allowing individuals to find compatible partners based on shared interests and values. Social media has also reshaped how we communicate and express love, often blurring the lines between the virtual and real worlds.

  1. Modern Complexity: Navigating Love Today

Today’s romantic relationships are complex and diverse. The non-traditional ones, such as open relationships and polyamory, have gained acceptance in some circles. Society is becoming more inclusive and accepting of diverse gender identities and sexual orientations.

The evolution of romantic relationships reflects our ever-changing understanding of love, individualism, and societal values. While the path of love has shifted dramatically, the enduring human desire for companionship, connection, and love remains.

The Undying Red Rose

The undying red rose

Written words of my love for you

In the manuscript of ancient love

Long undying love I have for you

Before I met you

 A letter to my lover

Kept in a sealed bottle to be washed away

Never to be seen or head of again

The undying red rose

Came ashore the edge of the sea

Brought back into my life

The red roses never died

Before I met you

My love for you never died

Could not be forgotten

True love never dies

Real love never give up

Love is patient

I waited…for you…now here…till death do us apart…

 

Dedicated to my Husband…

Image Credit: Pixabay

Love, Sex & Marriage In The Ancient Time

When we look back to history, we find out that love, sex and marriage is quite different from what we have now. Ancient times dating back to centuries ago; polygamy was practiced more, even by the Hebrews. According to the Bible, King Solomon had 700 wives with hundreds of children but now in the 20th century till date, polygamy has reduced except still being practiced amongst the Muslims according to their religion and by some upper class people mostly in the African region.

Marriage used to be based on contracts to seal nations. The elite married their daughters off to acquire wealth, properties and lands. Women had no say in whom they can marry or what their heart desired. Marriages were mostly arranged and finalised at their young age. Marriages used to last longer, ‘until death do us apart’ was for real. Nowadays people marry for love, and then divorce creeped in like a thief in the night unfortunately it doesn’t creep in anymore, it comes out boldly to announce itself without any care in the world.

In ancient times people bear children as if it was a competition, nowadays it is suppressed by family planning to reduce over population, moreover some nations are getting poorer, their is very little means of feeding families. Majority of couples actually avoid having children and can basically decide if they want kids or not and how many they want.

In ancient times marriage was legalised between men and women but now we have legalised same sex marriages.

Sex was meant for virgins and practiced after marriage back in the centuries, it was done more cautiously; now people have sex at their leisure times for fun. I’ve heard some crazy facts about sex back then, I’m not sure which is crazier. Is sex more enjoyable and decent now or nastier in the ancient times? Please find out here.