How many men did you have sex with before you met your recent boyfriend or fiancé? Please tell me you won’t even consider answering this evil question.
WhenI was still naive I used to say to myself that I would tell the man I love or end up spending my life with everything but as I got older and more mature in love life and relationships I realised it wasn’t going to happen. It’s a question that requires no answer even if he buys you the world don’t make that mistake of confessing. The offensive fact is men love to ask this question. Women do too atimes but we don’t fret over it.
I’ve had friends whom have lost their lovers in this process all in the name of building blocks of solid relationship and trust. It’s a different scenerio if you are still a virgin but I think you might have had sex with seven times a dozen men in your life time or less…ouch…hmm I’m just typing.
How many men did you have sex with? If he asks you this question, it’s all on you, tell him the truth if you feel you really have to without loosing a thing but honestly I would imply you not to tell because there’s an eighty percent chance that he would see you less of who you are and you gradually fade into thin air before him, he wouldn’t admit it if you talk about it with him when it starts to happen….that’s just men.
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We are women to be cherished.
We are beautiful
The heart beat of mankind
We are gorgeous and should be protected
Love us and be kind to us.
We are powerful.
We are women to be cherished
The nation needs us to eradicate adversities
Women are strong to face the wrought of evil
Women bring out the greatness hidden in men
We are givers of life
The man’s strenght comes from the women
We are women to be cherished, keep that smile beaming on our faces and see the whole lot we brought into the world to offer.
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It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.
Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.
Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.
Which would you rather do?
•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?
•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?
•Do both but how often?
I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.
He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.
My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?
He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.
My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.
What’s your opinion about this two guys?
Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.
Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.
Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.
Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…