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Let’s Talk About Sex

Can you imagine a scenario where we all decide to stop talking about sex just because a few others shy away from that topic, perhaps we feel criticized? Prior to becoming an adult, probably that could have been a fair point but not anymore because I believe we are adults now.

Let me ask you a question…Why do you avoid sex talk?

Common feel free to talk about sex. You wanna know WHY? Because it’s healthy, mature, sincere, relaxing, moreover, it’s exciting, it creates a new sense of adventure that could help your sex life. It sensitizes you to your sexuality. I have lots to learn and we all have a lot to teach ourselves so we can, in turn, help others.

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Talking about sex on a platform of mature minds creates an awareness of the fact that we shall all end up having sex multiple times in our life until we die, so the more we talk about it, the more we feel comfortable with the act, hence it helps us identify the do’s and don’t that surrounds sex.

When you avoid rubbing minds with sex like minds or avoid talking about it, obviously you are running away from pleasure and rejecting what God has blessed humanity with, why would you reject such gifts? So long as you don’t abuse it, you are good to go.

So let’s talk more about SEX…..

Thanks for reading and feel free to share your thoughts!!!!

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How to Increase Your Sex Stamina

The most embarrassing thing that can happen to a man in a sexually active age is if he gets into bed with his spouse to have sex and just a couple of minutes after the whole excitement of having an adventure, it gets cut short by a premature ejaculation. Have you ever experienced this?

How to increase your sex stamina

Sex is very important to us and should be enjoyed as much as possible but how would we achieve this when aren’t mentally, physically, or emotionally active enough. Your sexual performance is crucial to your relationship, this has been overlooked severally by many and it’s time you decide to say NO to bad sex.

You can increase your sex stamina to some extent by preparing your body, mind and soul…HOW?

If you believe you have a low sex stamina, first thing is to accept that fact, then prepare your mind towards having a fun-filled sex life but be ready to make sacrifices.

How to increase your sex stamina

Next on your list is to start exercising, practice yoga, avoid sex stimulants, get to know your partner well enough, have it in mind that you want to have sex for the right reasons best known to you.

How to increase your sex stamina

Apart from the above mentioned practices which stimulates sex hormones, you need to apply discipline on your eating habits. Hope this works for both men and women.

Live healthy… sex happily.

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Why We Love Sexting

When I was a teenager I do believe there was nothing like sexting or maybe there was but I wasn’t aware, now I’m older and sexting is the main thing. I kind of love to go further into it but first, we need to understand what it is and accept it’s movement which comes with advantages depending on who is involved, also the disadvantages especially on teenagers.

According to Wikipedia, sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually explicit messages, photographs, or images, primarily between mobile phones.

I got so intense into knowing more then I did a research on why some people love sexting and here is what I discovered.

Why we love sexting

“Sexting is quite exciting because itโ€™s almost the same as physical intimacy but at the same time you can allow yourself to do more than you can in real life. Sexting is a great way to start a relationship or develop them”

“We make new friends, strangers become so close, you can share anything about sex with them without even knowing who they are, you get to know each other’s sexual preferences, discuss, share and have fun”

“In marriage, it’s a continuation of an intimate relationship that stimulates bonding chemicals in your brain, and makes hotter sex when you have it.”

My own opinion of why we love sexting is that it arouses excitement between the male and female by creating an imaginary sexual act to quench the energized appetite for intimacy. If it has to be done, then it has to be carried out in caution because technology is like the devil itself, sexting should be enjoyed between couples, but not as a way to cheat on your partner or deprive your spouse of the real act.

Your opinion will be appreciated. Thanks for reading…

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How Many Men Did You Have Sex With?

How many men did you have sex with before you met your recent boyfriend or fiancรฉ? Please tell me you won’t even consider answering this evil question.

WhenI was still naive I used to say to myself that I would tell the man I love or end up spending my life with everything but as I got older and more mature in love life and relationships I realised it wasn’t going to happen. It’s a question that requires no answer even if he buys you the world don’t make that mistake of confessing. The offensive fact is men love to ask this question. Women do too atimes but we don’t fret over it.

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I’ve had friends whom have lost their lovers in this process all in the name of building blocks of solid relationship and trust. It’s a different scenerio if you are still a virgin but I think you might have had sex with seven times a dozen men in your life time or less…ouch…hmm I’m just typing.

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How many men did you have sex with? If he asks you this question, it’s all on you, tell him the truth if you feel you really have to without loosing a thing but honestly I would imply you not to tell because there’s an eighty percent chance that he would see you less of who you are and you gradually fade into thin air before him, he wouldn’t admit it if you talk about it with him when it starts to happen….that’s just men.

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When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Is Sex A Priority Or An Option?

I would like to analyze this in two aspects ” sex as a priority or an option in a relationship” and sex as a priority or an option in a marriage”…

From my point of view which I believe is same with many of us- sex is a priority in marriage…isn’t it? So enjoy it to the fullest.

Is sex a priority or an option

Talking about it being a priority in a relationship, I would definitely say NO. I’m dead sure a lot of guys are not on same page with me here.

Having sex with my boyfriend is an option for me because it’s my body until he wraps that ring on my finger, then it becomes a priority. Better still if I chose to have sex with him, it’s still my option because I love to.

Is sex a priority or an option?

It’s high time men stop seeing sex as priority especially these damned stuffed up men on the dating site that seek for sex like they would die any moment they don’t get it.

 

 

Valentine’s Day Expectations

I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex๐Ÿ˜“๐Ÿ˜“ just as some are anticipating.

Valentine's Day Expectations

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

Valentine's Day Expectations

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

Valentine's Day Expectations

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

 

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

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Why Women Should Not Cling Unto Their Men

Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.

Why women should not cling to their men

Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.

Why women should not cling to men

Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.

Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…

 

Oceanlike Mind Of A Woman

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? hmm. Be informed that the mind of a woman is as broad as an ocean- Whereas for some it’s more than that, so guess what women voice out.

Sex positions, foreplay techniques, past sexual experiences, YES, this discussion is not for men alone, you are probably thinking decent women shouldn’t talk about such but be rest assured that women love excitement and are human too. Now let’s move on–Celebrity gossip, clothes & fashion, latest make-up kit in town, men, relationships…..It keeps going on and on…“men don’t even try to get into the minds of women or you get drowned”.

Women sometimes discuss among themselves the concerns of other people, which could be about family issues, intellectual topics, culture, religious matters, food, child bearing…it’s endless!

They talk about anything and everything. While it’s a fact that women like to discuss the topics above, men shouldn’t believe that is all women talk about because this will tag them as being having a shallow view of women-for men like this, connecting to women would be a problem for them, so be open minded while around women.

The female colony like to chat away their excitement, sorrow, joy, new discoveries, one important thing men should know is that WOMEN talk about this things amongst WOMEN. Thread carefully while trying to find your way into thinking that a woman wants to freely discuss this topics with you. When a woman wants to talk to a man, without question and beyond doubts, she wants to discuss about other matters that belong to men’s ears.

Men, women-topics of discussions,regardless of age, height, color…we all love to discuss about things that we feel like talking about, no one should be judged on what they talk about in excitement or what’s on their mind, plus their is freedom of speech.

A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to, matrimony in a moment- Jane Austen.

 

 

 

 

Filthy Sexy Thing

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Strictly for adults.

There are a number of filthy things I would love to so to my partner…in as much as I would love them to sound more filthy, trust me, I wonder if I have the nerve to say it all out here…I believe we are all adults here๐Ÿ˜€

“Baby I ย would love you to lick me up and down”

“Touch me here, yes here, deeper…yees! you are my honey boy…”

“I want you, all of you, to fill me completely”

“I want to be your nasty bi–ch all night long”

“Fuck me fucker, turn me inside out, round and round”

There are nastier things I would love to say to him, I’m sorry I can’t share them here, else ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

I would love him to say this to me – sex me baby…ride my brains out, I want to explode in you…