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The Craving Mind

Their soul burn with raging fire

so they are consumed in a vacuum.

Craving they cannot control

but accept enthusiastically, thinking it’s a release.

The desires of the galvanizing heart;

death knocks in pitch black;

power of darkness sway in fashion;

In elegance, it persuades for vitality;

Our body is channeled in a style that craving is unavoidable. When you do a soul-searching, you realize there is something you desire so bad… whatever it is; however, it affects your innermost being, depends on the manner you control your hunger for it.

Whether it’s for sex, gambling, food, drugs, liquor, dead iced water, money, material objects no matter what your craving is, don’t be too hard on yourself, the first, second to the most recent generation have been there.

Mine was for alcohol, I took years to break off; it wasn’t an easy journey; I wanted more; I was at that point of no return… I thought I could never check it much less quit, but YES I gave up on it.

However how tough to contain a craving, one most important thing you should know is that, stopping or controlling it won’t kill you. It’s a thing of the mind when you think you can’t stop. It’s harmful to your health depending on the addiction.

Second, remind yourself that God loves you; love yourself… all other solution will surface even without a psychological help.

How do you control your cravings? 

 

 

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Money And Sex

Sex is fun!

Enchanting, exciting!

Alluring, invigorating!

The act is heavenly!

Sex is everything that rules the world, it has unfortunately taken the place of love. What happened to love, kindness and you? Instead of that, we have Sex and Money.

Money is life-changing!

It’s friendly, sweet-evil, contagious!

Addictive, enchanting, magnetic!

The wad of cash keeps the struggle away!

Money gets things done, it makes the world go round, it’s the root of evil, yet it’s a necessity and therefore has taken over kindness and sincerity. In conclusion “something must be wrong” but you know what? Everything is wrong…

Power craves for money and sex, blinding every other purpose of life,

Creating ice cold bastards, blood-sucking demons, promoting struggle and fight.

Thinking we have the solution to poverty by hunting for more and more money? NO!

It makes us want more shit and creates this deep hole well in our heart that keeps getting wider and then we sink inside it and get burned up.

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It Was Supposed To Be Sex Only

We were supposed to be friends with benefits but what happened to that?

We weren’t supposed to fall in love, what happened to sex and fun only?

All I needed was someone to feel free around and be sensual with…

Falling in love wasn’t supposed to happen to us…staying out of love; definitely…

I’ve missed the point and she might hurt my feelings, she’s gonna walk out of my life…

I feel fear; I hear danger; It’s a mess; My anxiety level is high; God help me…

Sex and love aren’t for us, perhaps sex..sex…sex…sex was meant to be…

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Yes it’s better to play by the rules but falling in love with your friend along the way isn’t a bad thing, never assume and conclude on things you can’t control, don’t bother shutting love out of your heart, It creeps in when least expected. It’s a beautiful feeling but a much beautiful one when it’s felt on both sides.

If it happens, allow it to grow because if it’s meant to be then it becomes much more than sex.

Any opinions? Please share…

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Let’s Talk About Sex

Can you imagine a scenario where we all decide to stop talking about sex just because a few others shy away from that topic, perhaps we feel criticized? Prior to becoming an adult, probably that could have been a fair point but not anymore because I believe we are adults now.

Let me ask you a question…Why do you avoid sex talk?

Common feel free to talk about sex. You wanna know WHY? Because it’s healthy, mature, sincere, relaxing, moreover, it’s exciting, it creates a new sense of adventure that could help your sex life. It sensitizes you to your sexuality. I have lots to learn and we all have a lot to teach ourselves so we can, in turn, help others.

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Talking about sex on a platform of mature minds creates an awareness of the fact that we shall all end up having sex multiple times in our life until we die, so the more we talk about it, the more we feel comfortable with the act, hence it helps us identify the do’s and don’t that surrounds sex.

When you avoid rubbing minds with sex like minds or avoid talking about it, obviously you are running away from pleasure and rejecting what God has blessed humanity with, why would you reject such gifts? So long as you don’t abuse it, you are good to go.

So let’s talk more about SEX…..

Thanks for reading and feel free to share your thoughts!!!!

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How to Increase Your Sex Stamina

The most embarrassing thing that can happen to a man in a sexually active age is if he gets into bed with his spouse to have sex and just a couple of minutes after the whole excitement of having an adventure, it gets cut short by a premature ejaculation. Have you ever experienced this?

How to increase your sex stamina

Sex is very important to us and should be enjoyed as much as possible but how would we achieve this when aren’t mentally, physically, or emotionally active enough. Your sexual performance is crucial to your relationship, this has been overlooked severally by many and it’s time you decide to say NO to bad sex.

You can increase your sex stamina to some extent by preparing your body, mind and soul…HOW?

If you believe you have a low sex stamina, first thing is to accept that fact, then prepare your mind towards having a fun-filled sex life but be ready to make sacrifices.

How to increase your sex stamina

Next on your list is to start exercising, practice yoga, avoid sex stimulants, get to know your partner well enough, have it in mind that you want to have sex for the right reasons best known to you.

How to increase your sex stamina

Apart from the above mentioned practices which stimulates sex hormones, you need to apply discipline on your eating habits. Hope this works for both men and women.

Live healthy… sex happily.

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Why We Love Sexting

When I was a teenager I do believe there was nothing like sexting or maybe there was but I wasn’t aware, now I’m older and sexting is the main thing. I kind of love to go further into it but first, we need to understand what it is and accept it’s movement which comes with advantages depending on who is involved, also the disadvantages especially on teenagers.

According to Wikipedia, sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually explicit messages, photographs, or images, primarily between mobile phones.

I got so intense into knowing more then I did a research on why some people love sexting and here is what I discovered.

Why we love sexting

“Sexting is quite exciting because it’s almost the same as physical intimacy but at the same time you can allow yourself to do more than you can in real life. Sexting is a great way to start a relationship or develop them”

“We make new friends, strangers become so close, you can share anything about sex with them without even knowing who they are, you get to know each other’s sexual preferences, discuss, share and have fun”

“In marriage, it’s a continuation of an intimate relationship that stimulates bonding chemicals in your brain, and makes hotter sex when you have it.”

My own opinion of why we love sexting is that it arouses excitement between the male and female by creating an imaginary sexual act to quench the energized appetite for intimacy. If it has to be done, then it has to be carried out in caution because technology is like the devil itself, sexting should be enjoyed between couples, but not as a way to cheat on your partner or deprive your spouse of the real act.

Your opinion will be appreciated. Thanks for reading…

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How Many Men Did You Have Sex With?

How many men did you have sex with before you met your recent boyfriend or fiancé? Please tell me you won’t even consider answering this evil question.

WhenI was still naive I used to say to myself that I would tell the man I love or end up spending my life with everything but as I got older and more mature in love life and relationships I realised it wasn’t going to happen. It’s a question that requires no answer even if he buys you the world don’t make that mistake of confessing. The offensive fact is men love to ask this question. Women do too atimes but we don’t fret over it.

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I’ve had friends whom have lost their lovers in this process all in the name of building blocks of solid relationship and trust. It’s a different scenerio if you are still a virgin but I think you might have had sex with seven times a dozen men in your life time or less…ouch…hmm I’m just typing.

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How many men did you have sex with? If he asks you this question, it’s all on you, tell him the truth if you feel you really have to without loosing a thing but honestly I would imply you not to tell because there’s an eighty percent chance that he would see you less of who you are and you gradually fade into thin air before him, he wouldn’t admit it if you talk about it with him when it starts to happen….that’s just men.

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When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Is Sex A Priority Or An Option?

I would like to analyze this in two aspects ” sex as a priority or an option in a relationship” and sex as a priority or an option in a marriage”…

From my point of view which I believe is same with many of us- sex is a priority in marriage…isn’t it? So enjoy it to the fullest.

Is sex a priority or an option

Talking about it being a priority in a relationship, I would definitely say NO. I’m dead sure a lot of guys are not on same page with me here.

Having sex with my boyfriend is an option for me because it’s my body until he wraps that ring on my finger, then it becomes a priority. Better still if I chose to have sex with him, it’s still my option because I love to.

Is sex a priority or an option?

It’s high time men stop seeing sex as priority especially these damned stuffed up men on the dating site that seek for sex like they would die any moment they don’t get it.

 

 

Valentine’s Day Expectations

I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex😓😓 just as some are anticipating.

Valentine's Day Expectations

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

Valentine's Day Expectations

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

Valentine's Day Expectations

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

 

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

Today is my nephew’s birthday so I sure will share the love with him..

Happy Valentines Day to everyone out there💝💝💝😘😘😘💕💕💕💞💞💞🎈🎈