I wanted to write a post on “Reasons men stay single” but then I realized that there’s a high chance I might end up not listing all. These reasons have evolved and increased over the years just as technology has developed. You know a few reasons men give include, “I love my privacy,” “I’m living my life,” “I need to make more money,” “I’m not sure I will be a good father,” “I’ve not found a loving woman,” and lots more…I’m not trying to lash out at men but this post is for good reason.
We all desire privacy and want to live our lives, we seek for the best; I know for a fact that single life is significant but I think it should only be for a time that leads to maturity. There are many more single women waiting to meet men ready to outgrow the single man status, yet the number grows every day. God created every man with a missing rib and until you find it, you will never be fulfilled in life.
Men have thousands of reason to stay single thus indicating many more irrational motives and belief towards this action; with all sincerity, men don’t even have a genuine reason for wanting to stay single and I’ve realized over time that they will always have excuses for everything pertaining to staying single.
Why do men stay single? Kindly share your opinions.
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Loving you is all I can think of.
Caring for you is all I’ve ever known.
Writing you poems is my way of expressing
My feelings for you.
Accepting you into my life
Is the best move I’ve ever made.
I love you sweetheart….
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Have you found yourself being the center of attention where every step you take is counted, the move you make is measured, all ears flip open at the sound of any speech you are about to give, every eye gape open when you sneeze?
It’s a burden on me when certain people expect the best from me, did I announce to them that I’m all and mighty? I believe lots of people have been there or are there right now. How do you feel? Certainly, it’s ridiculous when you find yourself in this position.
I have found myself in this position at one time in my life, trust me I wasn’t loving it even though some thought I was.
I just want to be myself
Feel comfortable with who I am
I want to look into the sky
scream without anyone judging me
I want to trip and fall
rise up again and move on
I want to be superior in my own way
I don’t care for acknowledgments…
Have you found yourself in this situation, how did you handle it? Kindly give your advice.
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We all have the inner spirit within us but lots of us have decided to neglect and do things on our own. Your inner spirit is love in itself that wants good things for you. The inner spirit is that very soft voice from the chore that speaks to you but we can’t hear it unless we do the following:
I need to talk, listen to me, be quiet please…
Pay close attention
I’m here to guide you, not to confuse you…
Be good friends
I’m your friend, I love you, I care…
Do what I say, I’m the good one, not the bad one…
Embrace me, lean, focus on the light…
Clear your mind, be positive, be enlightened, be strong.
I’ve always had a strong spirit from childhood but ignored too frequently, growing up over the years I realised it had stayed with me waiting for me to open the doors of my heart which I have done but sometimes the harshness of life beating hard at me makes me loose touch but then I still go back to lean on it in my quiet time which is the best times I’ve had.
The inner spirit is one whom if we chose to develop close relationship with will lead us through our daily lives even when we are lost and can’t see our paths; the inner spirit is not our mind, we don’t tell it what to tell us.
You saw her
Then you should keep loving her…
Just don’t ever stop chasing her….
Are you in a relationship that brings tears, sorrow, doubts, low self esteem into your life?
You used to be a very happy person, fun to be with, ambitious but all of a sudden you don’t even know who you are anymore, you find yourself feeling agitated a lot, your smiles fading day by day.
Then you are dating the wrong person….being single is also a virtue you know?
Better be single and be happy than date the wrong person that will suck you dry until you have no more to give.
Would you wait to meet the the right person to date or stay in that ugly relationship and try to turn things around?
Love comes, it goes, comes again; like a fairy-tale we find ourselves engulfed in it, wrapped up in it like a coven. Wondering how we ended up in that situation…This is how we feel when we are hopelessly in love.
Have you felt that way? I mean seriously…Felt like you are the definition of love. And then miraculously when we get disentangled from it, especially from the wrong kinda love.. we feel free and delivered, only to find it hiding in another corner, about to jump right at us like it’s Spider-Man…
Honestly sometimes I hate love but when it jumps and glues to my heart I feel so safe in it until it turns sour.
I don’t want to be hopelessly in love with the wrong partner…I want to be hopelessly but wisely in love with the right one…This is what we need to do to get our games right. That’s if we can control it though!
I once had a friend that said he was hopelessly in love with his girlfriend and unfortunately for him, she didn’t give a damn…Yet this guy kept on loving her until one day the love detached from his heart somehow and when the girl realised that her boyfriend had regained his freedom. She started to have panic attack which somehow got love glued to her and then she became hopelessly in love with him…Luckily for her, she had a man with a beautiful soul who never took advantage of her nor break her heart.
What do you do when you are hopelessly in love?
The emotions that I feel
Reverberating through my body
That I cannot explain
Joy or sadness
Pure love or fondness
Tender loving care
That I need
Making me want to plunge
Into the sea of exhaustion
Swim through the everlasting love
That I deserve
Bath in it
Be clothed with it
Be married to it….