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Sensations Of Sexual Urge

Tingling the sensitive parts of the body;

Craving for the erotic touch.

Sensations of sexual urge.

Haunting Me...

Taunting Me…

Testing Me…

Tempting Me…

Inviting Me…

Sensitizing my thoughts…

Stimulating rhythms in my core…

What do you do to quench the fire blazing from your body? Those sensations making you so restless… purging out distress in your heart of whom to stroke…

What do you do when your eyes bulge out upon seeing a lady romping that thingy thing or a handsome dude with velvety skin, flaunting his tight muscles in your face?

Sensations Of Sexual Urge

Sensual lust is wicked when you have no companion to soothe you, it becomes distressing. But if your partner is there and then… He or she would be at your mercy. Right? Just a thought…

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Does True Love Really Exist?

It’s difficult to love and for some people, it’s as easy as taking a sip of wine. I have often wondered what it would be like if every passion lasts forever…. the only true love I know existing in this universe is that of the Almighty.

The unquestionable affection

Without limit

No doubts, no confusion

No skepticism, no holding back

The treasure of God is incomparable

It’s hard to express this feeling nowadays because it’s prone to get broken, this makes loving another human tricky. But has a genuine devotion ever existed in humanity because if so why are we so divided, why do couples wake up one day and kill each other, children killing siblings and parents?

Why would a partner seek for divorce after years of being together just because they are no longer loyal to each other or due to whatever reason; I thought true love doesn’t give up… we aren’t God, but he lives in us. What do we call what we have now?

Love differs

The existence is pure

But they refined it

To fit into their daily worlds

Be filled with purity

So that true love can survive

In us

 

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Fun Things to Do On Friday Night

It’s Friday once again and I’m ready to swing…

Here is a list of entertaining things you can do tonight to relax, unwind and bring on the weekend mood. For those of us working at night or tomorrow, It shouldn’t impede having fun.

  • Hang out with friends but pleease don’t get drunk and run into trouble.
  • Cuddle up and check out movies with your partner or explore.
  • Eat out at a nice restaurant and meet new people.
  • Go to the theater and see a movie.
  • If you are in the worship mood, it’s month-end so run and boogie in church.
  • Attend a music concert you find passionate.
  • Game night with friends or siblings is cheap but fun.
  • Settling at home isn’t a bad idea, relax or groove alone.
  • Cook for your family (It’s dinner time).
  • Have a pool or beach party with buddies.
  • Visit your parents if you still have one, have a chit-chat and make them laugh.
  • Bowling is amusing, and my favorite.

Life is too short to worry, let’s keep it real and cool by having decent fun and staying happy. Regardless of who you are, what you do or where you live, there are lots of activities to do and places to go that won’t cost much.

Wednesday Thoughts

Willingness to learn is the starting point of achievements.

Enchant your partner with spice he can’t find anywhere else.

Desire the words of wisdom so you may walk in the path of victory.

Neglecting to motivate yourself is setting yourself up for a downfall.

Everything you know about being naughty must be explored in the marital bed.

Success doesn’t come easy but through hard work and determination.

Daydream as much as you like; one day you will face reality.

Almighty, fill me with your grace to stay joyful every day.

You are extraordinary, don’t let darkness into your heart.

 

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How Not To Stay Single

I published a post on my blog two weeks ago on “Why Men Stay Single,” hence based on one of my dear readers who asked me to write on this topic, “How not to stay single,” here we go. But note, I’m not a relationship expert, everything I write on my blog based on relationships, love, and marriage is of my opinion, research, and true life experiences.

It’s a state of mind when you panic about being single, it should be considered as a learning period; Once you accept the position in your life, it will surprise you how other things will fall into place, things you never expected nor planned. Getting married or entering a long-term relationship is not the end to your struggles… believe me; It’s an eye-opener and another learning ground. But the good news is that if you meet the right person who is willing to travel on the same path – you will be able to rock the boat together regardless of the storms…

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If you don’t want to stay single, consider the following…

-Accept that you are single.

-Search your heart since no one is listening to your thoughts and ask yourself if you are ready for a relationship.

-If you feel insecure or have biased feelings about dating but unwilling to stay single, you might need to make some visits to your therapy.

-Stay happy and take time to discover yourself.

-You will make mistakes but never be hard on yourself.

-Acknowledge that no one is perfect.

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-Don’t be selective of men or women to date.

-Build your confidence, work on your charisma, be real.

-Always put yourself together.

-Don’t rush into any relationship because you don’t want to stay single.

-Don’t dwell on the past but look forward to the future with joy on the horizon.

-Don’t make a list of what the ideal partner should be but open your heart.

-Prepare yourself for agreements, disagreements, love, long-term commitment and whatever you might encounter when you start dating.

-Be ready to let go, there will be times you must sacrifice your desires to make your partner happy.

When your ‘OWN’ partner comes, nothing can stop you from being together… NOTHING

If the relationship doesn’t work out, move on and stay happy, never lose confidence in yourself because it means that you and the person aren’t meant to be together.

Feel free to share your opinions on how not to stay single.

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Your Ideal Partner

Destination unknown to reality

Taking me into the depths

of happiness hiding in the darkness.

When the wind drives you in a direction uncertain to you, you wonder why you keep moving along without control; you try as much as possible to fight it but end up in the same path and that’s when you realize that love can take you through different phases in life you least expect.

If you belong to the group of people that make a list of the ideal man or woman they prefer to date, trust me you will end up with no one for a long time. Hence if faith is on your side, you will meet your lover contrary to the list you made up and regardless of how much you remind yourself of your ideal partner, you will keep falling back into the hands of this person who you tag as the unideal lover. So relax and allow faith to take charge and when it happens, accept it and you will discover a better person for you than your ideal partner.

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The Ideal Relationship

Healthy relationships create an atmosphere for friendship and courtship. It comprises trust, honesty, respect, and loyalty so you have hope for an ideal relationship based on this foundation. It’s not always as easy as it sounds because there’s bound to be conflicts, disagreements, miscommunications and this happens because we are human and no one is perfect.

Therefore, before going into any relationship, remember your partner isn’t perfect, neither are you so don’t expect a relationship without flaws.

Ideas on building the Ideal Relationship.

  • Acknowledge each other’s feelings
  • Respect for each other.
  • Never condemn your partner
  • Accept each other’s flaws.
  • Accept you made mistakes and adjust.
  • Always communicate through talking, emailing, texting or written letters.
  • Forgive.
  • Don’t pretend to be perfect nor act saintly.
  • Help each other.
  • Build trust.

If the following doesn’t work, then you may need to take a break and figure out what you both want from each other.

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Release The Dark Emotions

You feel anger, frustration and have this gruesome feeling at the pit of your stomach all because your partner did something or keeps doing things you feel you can’t forgive them for.

It’s best to release all the dark and cooked up emotions in a way you can control without letting it get out of hand, if not it will build up into hatred and then a complete disaster.

Giving You The Best That I Got

I watched #BETAwards last night and I was impressed at  how Jamie Foxx put together some of Anita Baker’s songs. One of the lyrics he emphasized on was ‘giving you the best that I got’ and the question I want to ask is are you giving the best that you got in whatever situation you’ve found yourself?

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Giving your best all that you got realistically doesn’t have to do with just a person but also situations surrounding you that need great attention. For instance, you have an exam to write and you got to make good grades otherwise you will be a step backwards from your objective, in that case you got to give it the best that you got. Another case where you need to feed your family, provide shelter, put clothes on your back, what must you do? You got to give it the best that you got…meaning ‘increase your hustle.’

You want your partner to devote his or her heart to you, then you got to give that relationship the best that you got. You’ve got to be strong in life, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

I cry out

I’m dried out

I’m getting out

Can’t go on no more…

Hey stop!!!

You got to give it the best that you got.

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Would You Show Love Or Say It

It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.

Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.

Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.

Which would you rather do?

•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?

•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?

•Do both but how often?