Dated back to ages women have always being known to be the more demanding sex, more emotionally attached in body and soul…Women are naturally emotionally charged while men are sexually charged.
Men would rather think with their….down there…While women think with the brains; this is a natural phenomenon which equals easily making women attached to the man they have strong feelings for. Men too have feelings but not as equal to that of the other sex. Clinging to men is enhanced when a woman is in love especially once she gets intimate with him…Does that mean women shouldn’t get involved in sex with men they love? Clinging to men simply can be described when a woman despises seeing her man staring at a woman, when he’s talking with another lady, he’s hanging out with friends, he does not call her 24/7, she wants to be with him most times or at all times if possible…Maybe some men like this but a greater percentage of them honestly detest this attitude.
Sex is strong, soul binding and if not careful can make women start attaching sentiments to the relationship which results to clinging onto the man. Clinging to men is not only unhealthy but can also make one lose out in the relationship by making men feel choked up and then run for their life, it makes women appear insecure. Men love freedom, they love sexy women that know what they are out there for. As women we need to be independent, strong, focused, aim to achieve the best and be at the upper hand of a relationship. Women have got the brains, learn to use them to your own advantage. Women have got the power to have whatever they wish to have only when used with the will power bestowed on us.
Women appear sexier when not clingy, more beautiful they become because they get all the attention which radiates from their heart. Women become clingy once they detect a man losing focus on them…Don’t get me wrong, I know how painful this can feel but note that a man that loves and respects you will always come back for you, if a man walks out on you, let it be…Things will surely work out in your own favour…This also applies to a man in a relationship with a woman…
This article is awesome and tells it just as women should hear it. Great read!
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Thanks a lot for reading. I’m glad it’s useful.
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Agree with you! I’m tough on my husband. lol
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Very true, although there are a lot of exemptions (like in everything). Those differences between men and women are really fascinating 😀 even if they are the source of so many problems 🌺
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Lol.
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Thanks is a lot for reading 😉
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With pleasure🌺
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Eddaz has beautiful way of writing….
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Thanks a lot. That’s a lovely comment💝
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A great read. Very well written…
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Thanks for reading. Glad you like it.
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A clingy behavior, for me, is a sign of insecurity and lack of trust. I have not met anyone who likes a clingy partner. When I was about 22, I left a boyfriend who was too clingy. I am sure I had a bit of it at somehow, one time or another but not with the same boyfriend… I must have been about 27. I had issues and was recovering from divorce so I have an excuse. Lol! Insecurity fades as we grow up as we become more comfortable with who we are. I guess we can give the young ones time to get over it. Past 25 could be questionable… or an age around there..?? 🙂
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You are so right about that. Insecurity fades as we grow older. Thanks for reading.
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My pleasure. Much love and hugs xxx
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💖💞
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Great piece … Love it 🙂
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Thanks ladylebz
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Good advice!
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Thanks!
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