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Dealing with Heartbreak

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My life is over,“I can’t move on without you”, desperate, confused; You ask yourself, “what have I done wrong?” These are the expression of pains you feel and questions asked when you are heartbroken.

You are not the only one in this TRAUMATIZING situation, it’s part of life experiences, it only strengthens us to face the bigger challenges coming our way, it is non negotiable.

“You can’t keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.”
- Dan Castellaneta.

The good news is that there’s someone else out there perfectly made for you, to accept you….fat, short, poor, beautiful, attractive, slim-whichever one describes you.

Giving up doesn’t mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go, the right person might just be lurking around the corner, waiting for you- eddaz

If you know it makes you feel better to speak to everyone you know about it, then do it but don’t forget to let go of that feeling and move on…..you might fear that things will never be okay– I promise you from the bottom of my heart that they will be okay again. Concentrate your attention on love within you and not on your break up. There is a better life out there with someone else or it might just be a test of faith.

“Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.” – Jean Giraudoux.

This goes out to my Facebook friend and other folks out there feeling sad and very empty right now, we have all been through one form of break up or the other and the good news is that it has brought out a better personality from the experience we had and some of us have been the initiator of the heartbreak which has definitely put the victim on the right path, it’s all part of life…

Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together-Unknown.

I really hope it makes you feel better, stay happy, you will be fine!!!

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Layers of Thy Journey

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Journey granted,

Overwhelming emotions of blissfulness,

Imperfect, unstable, humanistic I was.

 Dissected layers of trials in trust to me,

I had little knowledge of,

Which befell my course.

I presumed, dared with so much confidence,

Amazing how far I have gone without noticing,

Segments have grown tall into the amazon.

Satisfaction not remitted,

but emitted,

Grudgingly I step,

not stumbling,

but humbling.

Still on the path to clinched victory.

This post is in response to the one word prompt. Layers.

 

 

 

 

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Opposite Birds

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He prefers to be on land posing to impress the tourists rather than hanging out and feeding with other birds on the water. It seemed strange to me back then what sort of bird it was with such a long beak; still does. He’s completely opposite to the other birds in the picture.

This image is in response to the photo challenge. Opposites.

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Who’s In That Mirror

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Look beyond your insecurities,

They are just obstacles.

Look beyond your fears,

They are just your imaginations.

Look beyond the voice in your head causing negativity,

It’s just an illusion.

Look beyond that mirror,

Who do you see?

The physical appearance of yourself is a perception of what you see in the mirror. Take a few bold steps to the mirror now, look closely…. A little bit closer…. Behind the physique which comprises of your body, face, legs, nose, eyes, arms. WHO DO YOU SEE?

who's in that mirror

Did you recognize yourself?

Something lurks behind it that you have never even taken cognizance of. If you didn’t see it then that means you need to get a better mirror. Smile if you want to… I bet the last time you looked into the mirror was to brush your teeth, shave beards, put on the make-up or maybe dress up to see how lovely you look.

You have most likely failed to see the past, future, failures, achievements, warning signs, visions, sadness, joy, growth…The things that have journeyed this far with you to see the “presumed physical image”.

Do you like what you see?

You have obviously changed since the last time you really saw yourself in the mirror, not the checking up your physical appearance routine thing! This is a question only you can answer; some of us see ourselves through the eyes of people we think know us so well but do they have those same eyes that look into that mirror? Big question…

who's in that mirror

The quicker you connect with the person in the mirror, the earlier it will increase your self awareness. You get to understand yourself better, your strengths, weaknesses, fear… Secrets about yourself which you have been avoiding will be exposed to you right there and then, it’s not as bad as you might think, it only helps you in the journey of life.

The first time I practiced this, I was initially intimidated by my own image, I was like “who’s that strange person?” but I put it off as a bluff after more attempts. Now I know better because I have looked and gone beyond.

Do it now, search your soul, see yourself, know yourself!

 

 

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The Simple Truth about Love

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That intense feeling that holds your heart hostage, makes you want to cry, laugh, jump, scream….not give a damn…You wake up with that feeling of being in the cloud, better-still sometimes it puts you in a situation of restlessness, like in a fairy tale but the truth is it’s real, it’s not a Cinderella story and you are in for it….Ready or Not?

Simple truth about love

That tender lily shouldn’t fill either sex’s heart with pain….no, rather, it should make you want to drive long hours to see your heart-throb. When there is love, the absence of the one in your life will affect you and if it doesn’t….be true to yourself and acknowledge that your presence is not important.

Love knows your DEEPEST SECRETS, yet does not judge you…love is fierce enough to make you stand by someone even through the worst times of poverty, sickness, ugly situations, name it… but never waste your feelings on someone who doesn’t value them. They don’t even have to say “I love you”, you can always tell by the way they treat you.

Anyone can give you attention and compliments, but someone who loves you will give you that plus respect, honesty, trust, and loyalty Charles Orlando. 

If you don’t love yourself, you’ll always be chasing after people who don’t love you either Mandy Hale.

It’s weird but true to say that someone who really loves you knows the mess you are, how hard you are to handle, your high level of stupidity, your moody shit…but still wants you in their life forever.

Love is beautiful yet ugly, it is perceived and on the contrary rather than being implemented in our daily life, humans have given it a new meaning to favor their hearts desires. Show the true meaning of love!

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