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Me – You Being Sincere

I love to give all I can, it makes me happy and look younger. I am always sincere to a fault with people, much more to people I care about.

unnamedBut when they trample on my feet, I pick up my bag of sincerity, hang it over my shoulder and bid them goodbye and to some of them, I shove it up there ass.

unnamedAin’t my fault, no way am I going to get myself kicked around because of some low life individual that knows not the definition of love and sincerity. My sincerity used to be to a fault but with age and experience, since I can’t do without it as a person, I got wiser so as to stop getting hurt in the process.

Now my eyes are wide open, my heart tougher, my flair for it stronger, with it comes lots of gifts such as fulfillment, happiness, benefits and favour tagging along after me. I’ve met lots of people with such nature, they aren’t perfect but to an extent you know when yes is yes and no is no.

The secret of success is sincerity- Jean Giraudoux

Natural Talent Vs Skilled Job -Choose

The general knowledge about life is everyone has to work to earn a living-bare in mind that there are some human that are perpetually lazy and would rather do nothing to survive. Then there is a common misconception where humans find it overly confusing what to do in life to achieve their set goals and objectives. Take it or leave it, we need to survive and to do this we have to do a job which either will come from our natural talent or from our skill sets. I need to crash this down to tiny little bits for better understanding.

Natural talent is not learnt, it simply comes naturally, it doesn’t often require training or education unless if you chose to further polish it until it glows in crystal colours, it is in-depth, you dream it, it is felt, you see it right in front of you, there’s this feeling of joy and fulfillment in talent, sometimes the finances might not come so soon from it like regular monthly salary jobs, but regardless of it, you still find peace in it and there’s greater recognition from it.

Skilled Job is the one acquired over years through series of education, training, skill acquisition, it makes you smarter, gives you monthly financial comfort, you might have passion for it and you might not, you are engaged in it because it pays your bills.

Questions have been asked by so many on figuring their life purpose, which career path to follow, means of survival. You have an option to choose. Once you know your talent, it give room for more options. Do you love your skilled work? You don’t need to search your mind before the answer comes up because you know it. it’s a yes or no. Do you love your talent? It’s same. Which one gives you more satisfaction? which one pays your bills more? which one can you keep doing for the rest of your life with a purpose and never get tried of?

One important thing to know is that your life purpose may not be in what you have skills for, it may not be in what gives you regular inflow of income, it may not even be in what you believe you know how to do very well- yes it may not be what you believe you should do or know how to do very well.

Your life purpose is in what gives you a sense of joy, fulfillment, love, everything in life comes with challenges so as your talent will come with challenges, you life purpose could even be in the regular job if it makes you happy.

What gives you purpose to live, to love, to continue? What gives you this sense of deep bliss, fulfillment? What gives you income to survive, to pay your bills?

I was once asked a question that what if my talent isn’t paying my bills like the regular skilled work, but I love my talent work much more, like it’s my life. My answer was ‘If you love your talent work and it’s not paying your bills yet, alternatively you have a job that pays your bills but you don’t love it enough, then rather choose your job BUT make it temporary and a solution to creating a foundation for your talent. Use the skilled work to generate income for the stability of your talent work, when the timeline is set to further no longer with the office job, you will know and all things will work out, you will have a better knowledge on how to navigate your challenges’

That’s my opinion! If you hate your job so much but have a treasure hidden somewhere, do you think you should exploit it regardless of it’s challenges?

Is it your talent or skilled job? Choose today and be happy!

We Will Cross The Bridge

Love, life, relationships, career can be tough sometimes but consistency with faith and hard work will get us through, like is always been said, “we shall cross the bridge when we get there.”

I have crossed a lot of it and still have lots of bridges to travel across in achieving greatness. This week has been tough I must say. The best experience I encountered was that I crossed that narrow thing successfully and I can smile all the way.

My first Ebook will be out in November (Unveil The Eagle)😍. It hasn’t been so easy writing it, getting it ready to be published coupled with demands from my daily career, family, and other responsibilities. However I love writing, it’s been great, fulfilling and the best thing in my life. I will start working on the second book as soon as this is finally out.

We shall all cross the bridge when it’s time, regardless of life’s struggle for survival💞💝

The Artificial Life

Live naturally

Love naturally

Eat naturally

Embrace nature.

I love the natural things of life; it gives one this sense of belonging, peace and adaptability. Nowadays we have lots of artificial things around us such as artificial hair, flowers, make up kits, food condiments, even artificial love.

All these are as a result of technology advancements. Are these innovations beneficial to the human lives? What are the positive and negative effects? The benefits are good; the lists amounts to being successful as determined by the scientists. The detriments are disastrous with no remedy or very little one and reduced life.

Let’s encourage the natural form of living, don’t get me wrong. Not that we should stop technology but let’s take into cognisance it’s effects on the human life, relationships, plants and animal existence.

Candle Light of My World

Your candle light that radiates through my soul

The beam of light that lights up my world

That light that gives me the aura of vitality

The rays that reflect the brightness of your tender heart

Wishing that it would never have to go off

Than to live an everlasting trail in my life..