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Why We Are Dating Less In The Real World

Dating is becoming more stressful, tell me otherwise…Heartbreak here and there, disappointment, lies, lack of trust, catfishing…yeah right…catfishing but unfortunately people are dating less in the real world of meeting for the first time instead people are starting to meet online which has led to the risk of catfishing but what are we left with?

Knowing about a person online before showing interest seems emotionally comfortable for lots of people. Post your profile, pictures, hobbies, etcetera etcetera…if you don’t like your match move on quickly before developing unessecessary ties. If you are lucky to meet a good match, do a deep research before taking the next stage. It’s tough doing this in the real world cause emotional ties would have been developed already and gets sickening when you can’t break off without feeling weak.

-I personally tried online dating which was way safer for me, call it what you like but I was never catfished, maybe because I was smart about it or call it ‘lucky me.’

-It’s easier to dig around online before finally meeting the person and cutting off the friendship as soon as possible.

-We are dating less in the real world because from various researches, online dating has paid off for many, and me inclusive, although some have been unlucky; apparently is expected.

– its easier not to develop emotional ties which happens too often in the real world.

-From my own perspective dating less in the real world has more advantages than meeting people face to face. Although I might be wrong, I believe if you are smart about it, it would definitely be worth the effort.

Kindly contribute your opinion, it would be appreciated. Thanks.

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Good Things Happen To Good People

No matter how hard it might be

Perhaps the baggage is too heavy to carry

Disappointments here and there

People expecting so much you can’t give

Eventually there will come a time

The light will shine on you

Good things happen to good people.

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Being The Center Of Attention

Have you found yourself being the center of attention where every step you take is counted, the move you make is measured, all ears flip open at the sound of any speech you are about to give, every eye gape open when you sneeze?

It’s a burden on me when certain people expect the best from me, did I announce to them that I’m all and mighty? I believe lots of people have been there or are there right now. How do you feel? Certainly, it’s ridiculous when you find yourself in this position.

I have found myself in this position at one time in my life, trust me I wasn’t loving it even though some thought I was.

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I just want to be myself

Feel comfortable with who I am

I want to look into the sky

scream without anyone judging me

I want to trip and fall

rise up again and move on

I want to be superior in my own way

I don’t care for acknowledgments…

Have you found yourself in this situation, how did you handle it? Kindly give your advice.

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Finding Someone Who Shares The Same Interest

We all have certain interests hooked up on our heart which is unrelenting. Being decisive of what exactly we want to do about it is bothersome sometimes, but do you think to find someone who shares the same interest in your view will clear the pathway for you, sensitizing you of the delusions you think is wavering through your mind?

Regardless of how strong we are, there are times we need another individual that shares the same interest we do, supporting us all the way and saying it exactly as it is, detecting the negativity we have divulged into unknowingly so as to alert us and pull us back on the right path.

Apparently, two heads coming together as one is always more productive, that is the reason why teamwork is non-negotiable in organizations. Then start to see yourself as an organization that needs growth and productivity in every aspect, therefore doing that will prompt you in actualizing the fact that you need someone or group of people that share the same interest as you do.

Remember individually we are one drop, but together we are an ocean.

Coming together is a beginning, keeping together is progress, working together is a success – Henry Ford

Do you think you need to find someone who shares the same interest with you?

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The Beauty of My Culture

The generational values sublimed in the ethical region,

manifestation of the randomness within; born inside of me.

The driving force of the cluster of togetherness resulting from

the inner mind of my people. The values of my societal knowledge

hatched as a beauty into my daily life, manifesting into streamlines

of concurrences to be recognised. Perception generating from the

stranger with the practice of my culture; thoughts flowing from him

of the weirdness of it. The mental attitude of it that he understands not.

 For in him is ignorance and fear of what is not understood. The flawlessness

of my practice is undeniably beauteous. Enchanting the senses of old and

new generation; with the driving force of never letting go.

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Me – You Being Sincere

I love to give all I can, it makes me happy and look younger. I am always sincere to a fault with people, much more to people I care about.

unnamedBut when they trample on my feet, I pick up my bag of sincerity, hang it over my shoulder and bid them goodbye and to some of them, I shove it up there ass.

unnamedAin’t my fault, no way am I going to get myself kicked around because of some low life individual that knows not the definition of love and sincerity. My sincerity used to be to a fault but with age and experience, since I can’t do without it as a person, I got wiser so as to stop getting hurt in the process.

Now my eyes are wide open, my heart tougher, my flair for it stronger, with it comes lots of gifts such as fulfillment, happiness, benefits and favour tagging along after me. I’ve met lots of people with such nature, they aren’t perfect but to an extent you know when yes is yes and no is no.

The secret of success is sincerity- Jean Giraudoux