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Improving Self-Confidence by conquering negative self-talk

Negative self-talk is the inner voice that uplifts us or brings us down. Unfortunately, many of us have gotten into this habit of talking badly about ourselves, our abilities, our accomplishments, or even our appearance. Negative self-talk can have a significant impact on our overall well-being. It can leave us feeling unworthy, anxious, incompetent, or guilty. Understanding the impact negative self-talk can have on us will help us to take action and break the cycle. Once we have understood the impact of negative self-talk, we can identify it, pay attention to our thoughts and words, and look out for overly critical or self-deprecating statements.

Once we have conquered negative self-talk, we will start to see a more positive and confident mindset. These can lead to an overall improvement in our self-confidence, self-worth, and overall well-being. We will start thinking more positively about ourselves, situations, challenges, and obstacles we encounter. It can help us to approach challenges with a more positive attitude and take action more confidently. As a result, we can start to see improvement in our relationships, career, and personal growth, and overall have a more positive and fulfilling existence.

Demons in my head

They battled in my head, making me numb to the world. They lived inside of me and raged all weeks and months.

I cried out to stop, but they laughed and partied without any remorse. The demons in my head devoured me slowly all day.

The turmoil kept going on for weeks, and they took over every part of my being. I summoned my inner spirits for strength.

I asked why they weren’t fighting back to take over their position. They told me that battles already won no longer need to be fought.

Finally, there is a breath of fresh air coming over my soul.

They also told me to stay silent to cleanse my heart of the demons. Then the wonders of the light will consume the darkness that built a home in my body.

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Holiday Season

Season to love

To Give to those who don’t have

and to

Share with our family.

Are you ready for the holiday season? Done all your shopping for Christmas?.. well for me it’s “No” although I was away for some days because I was down with cold, catarrh and headaches while also busy trying to get better. I had a swell time having lots of soup and watching people around me get ready for the holiday… I wonder if we humans will ever be fully ready for everything; however I’m ready to have fun all the way.

Enjoy the holiday season lovely people.

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Giving Thanks

A new day in life

Just like any other amazing day,

Giving thanks for love, laughter, joy.

It’s Friday just as it’s

A unique day to flex.

Giving-Thanks

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It Takes Two To Tango

Do you want to quarrel?

Do you want to fall in love?

Do you want to have sex?

Do you want to have a baby?

Do you want to get married?

It takes two

Have you seen a situation where you go to a party and people are on the dance floor moving to the rhythm of the music in twos and what happens when you see just one person dancing alone? It looks odd, but the person appears to be having all the fun dancing alone. I tell you this… in his mind, he’s very uncomfortable and if it’s a lady, she definitely wishes a guy would walk up to her to dance with her.

it-takes-two-to-tango

This world has been structured in such a way that it takes two to tango.

No matter how much you try to fight for independence and do it alone, nothing stops you from succeeding but there will always be a craving for someone to stand next to you, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with your thought or cravings, it’s just life, and you can’t change the balance. So remember if someone has hurt you in a relationship or several relationships, never give up, shake the dust off and move on, you sure will find someone to tango with in life because you need it, no matter how much you convince yourself otherwise.

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