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Getting Overworked In A Relationship

People meet each other, some develop attractions and start dating while others don’t but still go ahead onto that path, but realistically do we even really know what we want to achieve from this affair…Or are we just into the dating game to have fun and then move onto the next?

We eventually get overworked in them when we don’t face the facts…Take note of the following before going into a relationship so as to avoid hassles, heartbreak, depression and the likes…

1. Be sincere with yourself, knowing why you want to go into the relationship, what you aim to contribute and achieve.

2. Ensure you and your dating partner are on the same path. This is very essential as it makes the relationship more enjoyable and stressfree.

3. Never let your hopes be high, have a free mind and have fun as desired.

4. Cut down on your demands, it makes you appear desperate when you don’t.

5. Be friends, get to know each other before you start the relationship, ensure it’s someone you can treat like gold and do same to you.

6. While you are still single, prepare yourself, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and domestically because oh boy…You will need those tools.

Your aim is to have a relationship that leads to marriage?

When God knows you are ready for the responsibility of commitment, he will reveal the right person under the right circumstances- thesoul doctor.

 

Be a blessing to that person you go into a relationship with; not a heartbreaker; not a demon; not a bad story…- eddaz

 

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Did I miss something?

I know people talk about having the blues, the Monday blues and motherhood blues but there is a day assigned to recognize,

Blue Monday!

Who came up with the concept to celebrate a day of woe?

My thoughts: people who want to capitalize on our misery. 

Pharmaceutical companies, people trying to sell us comfort kits or whatever.

I get the whole statistic thing, that it’s the third week in January and financially big organizations and businesses are feeling –  mainly pennies no freshly printed notes.

Can, I just put out it on here -that Monday has been the best day of the week for me, out of all the Monday’s in January.

Why?

I didn’t focus on my money situation, or if people liked me or if I was anxious. What made my Monday bluesy – Jazzy – full of a spectrum of emotions:

is seeing my Grandma.

Yes…

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Is Life Now A Marathon?

Martin Luther King is a great man who I admire so much for his wisdom and braveness.  We honour and celebrate him today, his presence will always felt. This quote below makes me think if life is a marathon now…I really don’t want to admit the near truth or the plain honest truth, but on the contrary I see hatred amongst humanity, race, contest to be the best regardless of whatever it takes to win; it’s so strong that I start to wonder about the new generation…What will happen next?

This hour in history needs a dedicated circle of

Transformed nonconformists. Our planet teeters on

The brink of annihilation; dangerous passion of pride,

Hatred, and selfishness are enthroned in our

Lives; and men do reverence before false gods

Of nationalism and materialism.

 

The saving of our world from pending

Doom will come, not through the

Complacent adjustment of the

Conforming majority, but through

The creative maladjustment

Of a nonconforming minority.

 

Exquisite Smiles of Human Nature

Recherché smiles make faces beam

In beauty; lightening up the cosmos

Attracting good things

Illuminating hope, joy and love

In someone’s world

It’s an elegant gift to behold

Exquisite smiles of human nature

A blessing worth discovering.

 

Unseen Images of Love

Images emerging before me

Justified magnitude of emotions

Artistic touch to my heart

Pulling out wrapped comforting words

From my mouth to the flamed skin

Unseen images I sense

In a musical string of lyrics

A therapy of love I desire

Patching the damaged edges of it

To reach the altitude of arousal

Beaming the ambience of love

To be wrapped around my world

Music of love to my ears unremittingly

I see it not; I feel it; I believe in it.