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Did I Marry The Wrong Person?

If you have recently found yourself asking the questions, bear in mind that you aren’t alone. Several couples do same. The question is why ask such at this stage of your marriage…

Did you get to know each other very well or was there an oversight? Were you guys true to yourself before eloping? Did the love fail in the middle of the journey? Did you guys loose focus somewhere? Sometimes we see the signs before taking the final decision and sometimes we don’t. Whatever happened; we are just humans.

Did I marry the wrong person?

What went wrong?… Remember when you took the vows, you did it because you were sure he or she was the right person for you until death do you apart…Always know that no one is perfect; don’t become too hard on yourself.

Once you find yourself in this dilemma what should be the next step to take? It’s a very confusing and depressing point in life when this questions start coming up, the feeling of being lost, nowhere to go, not sure who to talk to, not knowing what happened to the lover boy or sweet girl you married…It could be very sad.

One thing is certain…“All hope is not lost”… Everything that has happened in this world has happened before to other people and you won’t be the last it will happen to.

Take heart, pick up the bits and pieces where you left off…Think..It’s either you start afresh since you are already in it or you decide to take the easier step which might be the right or wrong one.

Did I marry the wrong person?

What I would do is to take a leap of faith if I still feel the love deep in my heart as long as it’s not an abusive marriage. To be honest with you if the man is violent with me, then I would definitely take a walk until or if ever he drops the violent nature. Meanwhile I would ensure I stay happy and focused.

It’s surely not an easy stage in life but try to stay strong, talk to trusted ones to free your mind, if you have kids, try to keep them happy and away from whatever drama might be occurring. Whatever you do, make sure you are truly happy doing it.

What would you do in this situation?

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Sensibilise

Sensibilities! Written by Daisy… She writes in such an intriguing manner. Uniquely awesome posts she delivers to readers. Read and enjoy😘

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Did I miss something?

I know people talk about having the blues, the Monday blues and motherhood blues but there is a day assigned to recognize,

Blue Monday!

Who came up with the concept to celebrate a day of woe?

My thoughts: people who want to capitalize on our misery. 

Pharmaceutical companies, people trying to sell us comfort kits or whatever.

I get the whole statistic thing, that it’s the third week in January and financially big organizations and businesses are feeling –  mainly pennies no freshly printed notes.

Can, I just put out it on here -that Monday has been the best day of the week for me, out of all the Monday’s in January.

Why?

I didn’t focus on my money situation, or if people liked me or if I was anxious. What made my Monday bluesy – Jazzy – full of a spectrum of emotions:

is seeing my Grandma.

Yes…

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With the first Spark the Journey begins…

Inspiring post by Minal Dalal. Read and enjoy😊

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What happens when we are struck with the first spark of awareness? The first spark of who we are. In awareness The journey begins…

With that very first spark our life changes. For sure. Even the dimmest ray of Sun and entire world changes. Now we can never turn back. We may get tired, we give up, we rise again, we sometimes limp or walk, sometimes we run or eve fly. We may step down as well but can never ever return to the state of complete darkness, we were in before. Now only forward marching. Knowingly, unknowingly, intentionally, unintentionally, willingly, unwillingly, spontaneously or struggling. The only way is forward marching. Towards Light, towards Truth, towards Purity. Towards our highest potential of our Self Supreme Being.

All situation the life has been providing us continuously, whether in stark darkness or little brightness or full beaming brightness, are meant for us…

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Just A Facade

Would you reveal your true self to the outside world? Great post written by Izht.

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When the going gets tough, the tough gets going

Everyone has a shield towards the outside world. They do not reveal who they truly are in the outside world easily. Unless it’s only to your very close friends. Consequently, being such a judgemental society, we tend to judge people just by the facade they see on the outside. With this passing judgment, an affirmation is being set.

Today, this post that I’m writing is a reminder to myself. In the eyes of my colleagues, I’m a capable, strong and determined lady trying to achieve something in my career. In my friends’ eyes, they know the rocky road I’m heading for and they cannot do anything to help me. Just by being there is good enough.

For every laughter I laugh, there’s a pain behind it
For every smile I have, there’s a sorrow behind it
For every…

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When I Look At You

When I look at you is an awesome post written by Keri. L. Read! Enjoy!

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We need to have a talk. So sit down, be quiet, and let me get this off my chest, because this is something you need to hear, this is something you need to know. You need to know what I see when I look at you.

When I look at you, I see someone who has overcome incredible odds, someone who went into the fight already wounded, yet still won. When I look at you, I don’t see the weakness you feel so often, I see strength -strength you need to realize you possess. I don’t see your mistakes, I see your accomplishments, your achievements, and believe me, there is a lot. When I look at you, I don’t see what you see, I see what you can’t see. I see the smile that comes to your eyes when you hear something funny, I see the tears that fill them…

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It Boils Down To Two Choices  

You make your choices and live with them; OR you change your mind and make new choices. Great post written by Itsallbuki. Read and enjoy!

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There are a lot of marriages out there that aren’t thriving. Yet the bulk of the responsibility to keep it together is on the woman. Who teaches girls or rather who brain-washes girls that their responsibility is to baby their marriage and chase their husbands till they die? When they are babying another adult, who will baby them? Or are women destined to be the sad haggard one in life? Yet when these women reach out for help, the general word is, it’s your cross or lot in life and then you find that they resign to living out their days with a spouse who is flawed and making them anxious and miserable.

I have both female and male friends who like to engage in very meaningful and intimate conversations about love and life. I listen especially closely to…

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Why You Should Never Stop Dreaming -A Rambling Friday Blog

Dream all you want to. Your dream creates a picture of what you are aspiringNever give up hope, and one day your dreams might just come true. A very inspiring post by Keri. L. Enjoy while you read!

Keri L.

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I’m not a perfect person. I make mistakes. I fall down, and sometimes, the hardest thing I have to do is get back up. Get back on the horse, get back in the ring, climb back into the cockpit. And sometimes the hardest thing I have to do is put myself first.

I’m a dreamer. I always have been and I always will be. And while I see life through eyes that take everything in stride and I do my best to remain calm in tragedy, I never stop believing, I never stop hoping. Because I know that’s where my strength is, I know that’s where my heart it. If I didn’t dream, I wouldn’t be able to force myself up in the morning, I wouldn’t be able to look in the mirror and face another day. I know that without dreams, there’s no point in life.

Recently, I was…

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Paul.E.Bailey’s World – The Article of Astronomical Proportions…

Astronomy, cosmos, the sun, moon, star, earth… have been studied for years. Do you think that we’ll ever populate other planets? Earth resources are getting depleted. Find out more from this interesting post by Paul Bailey.

The Adventures of an Average, White Man...©

Some time in my mid-twenties I developed a crazy obsession with astronomy. I mean I went nuts over it.

Professor Brian Cox definitely had a lot to do with it. I can’t fully recall, but I think it was when Wonders of the Solar System first appeared on BBC. I saw it advertised and thought ‘now that sounds interesting; I must give it a watch’. After five minutes I was hooked.

The reason I can’t properly recall whether it was Wonders that got me hooked on astronomy is because I was either into it a bit beforehand, saw it advertised and was keen to watch or Wonders itself awoke my obsession with the subject.

brian-cox-saturn Professor Brian Cox and his no nonsense methods make the basics of astronomy easy for anybody to understand

Regardless, my affinity for the moons, planets and stars awoke within me and I’ve never looked back. Granted…

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