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Natural Talent Vs Skilled Job -Choose

The general knowledge about life is everyone has to work to earn a living-bare in mind that there are some human that are perpetually lazy and would rather do nothing to survive. Then there is a common misconception where humans find it overly confusing what to do in life to achieve their set goals and objectives. Take it or leave it, we need to survive and to do this we have to do a job which either will come from our natural talent or from our skill sets. I need to crash this down to tiny little bits for better understanding.

Natural talent is not learnt, it simply comes naturally, it doesn’t often require training or education unless if you chose to further polish it until it glows in crystal colours, it is in-depth, you dream it, it is felt, you see it right in front of you, there’s this feeling of joy and fulfillment in talent, sometimes the finances might not come so soon from it like regular monthly salary jobs, but regardless of it, you still find peace in it and there’s greater recognition from it.

Skilled Job is the one acquired over years through series of education, training, skill acquisition, it makes you smarter, gives you monthly financial comfort, you might have passion for it and you might not, you are engaged in it because it pays your bills.

Questions have been asked by so many on figuring their life purpose, which career path to follow, means of survival. You have an option to choose. Once you know your talent, it give room for more options. Do you love your skilled work? You don’t need to search your mind before the answer comes up because you know it. it’s a yes or no. Do you love your talent? It’s same. Which one gives you more satisfaction? which one pays your bills more? which one can you keep doing for the rest of your life with a purpose and never get tried of?

One important thing to know is that your life purpose may not be in what you have skills for, it may not be in what gives you regular inflow of income, it may not even be in what you believe you know how to do very well- yes it may not be what you believe you should do or know how to do very well.

Your life purpose is in what gives you a sense of joy, fulfillment, love, everything in life comes with challenges so as your talent will come with challenges, you life purpose could even be in the regular job if it makes you happy.

What gives you purpose to live, to love, to continue? What gives you this sense of deep bliss, fulfillment? What gives you income to survive, to pay your bills?

I was once asked a question that what if my talent isn’t paying my bills like the regular skilled work, but I love my talent work much more, like it’s my life. My answer was ‘If you love your talent work and it’s not paying your bills yet, alternatively you have a job that pays your bills but you don’t love it enough, then rather choose your job BUT make it temporary and a solution to creating a foundation for your talent. Use the skilled work to generate income for the stability of your talent work, when the timeline is set to further no longer with the office job, you will know and all things will work out, you will have a better knowledge on how to navigate your challenges’

That’s my opinion! If you hate your job so much but have a treasure hidden somewhere, do you think you should exploit it regardless of it’s challenges?

Is it your talent or skilled job? Choose today and be happy!

Appreciate Every Tiny Favour

Learning to appreciate every favour that comes our way is important in life. Showing gratitude for every tiny privilege granted us goes a long way.

“Don’t forget a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated”- H. Jackson Brown

Many of us don’t know how to do this; I feel biased when I come across people that aren’t grateful of this little opportunities they have or help they get from friends or families. It’s actually a bad habit. We shouldn’t wait till we loose this people  before we start to acknowledge them.

AppreciateLet’s learn to appreciate out parents, friends, colleagues, neighbours, readers, business partners, customers, children, loved ones, workers, siblings, leaders, and the fact is everyone deserves to be appreciated for their kindness to us.

“Not everyone will appreciate what you do for them. You have to figure out who’s worth your kindness and who’s just taking advantage”- Unknown

Some people appreciate favours but when it’s time to help, they decline, forgetting they were once also helped. Helping others is a great way of showing appreciation. It gives you this feeling of contentment, joy and fulfillment.

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The Artificial Life

Live naturally

Love naturally

Eat naturally

Embrace nature.

I love the natural things of life; it gives one this sense of belonging, peace and adaptability. Nowadays we have lots of artificial things around us such as artificial hair, flowers, make up kits, food condiments, even artificial love.

All these are as a result of technology advancements. Are these innovations beneficial to the human lives? What are the positive and negative effects? The benefits are good; the lists amounts to being successful as determined by the scientists. The detriments are disastrous with no remedy or very little one and reduced life.

Let’s encourage the natural form of living, don’t get me wrong. Not that we should stop technology but let’s take into cognisance it’s effects on the human life, relationships, plants and animal existence.

Little Things That Matter In Life

What exactly  does it mean when that word LIFE is mentioned? It’s all about everything that surrounds us, that goes on in our environment, people, character, it encompasses everything that makes us human, both known and unknown. According to the Wikipedia, it says life is partially a process not a substance. Life is not a nightmare.

There are various things that matter in life which cannot be compromised, but I would like to lay emphasis on the little things that matter in life.

However take note that some of this little things are very important to some of us in our daily lives and cannot be underestimated. Little things that matter to you might be the greatest need in life for others or better-still for you-eddaz.

I met a guy once who told me that women matter a lot in his life, I asked why and his reply was that, women made him who he is, women love him for no particular reason and would go at any length to make him have every one of his needs. For me, it sounds kinda funny but it’s actually an essential little thing which turned significant in his life.

We need to take cognizance of this little things in out life, what are there values, how far have they journeyed with us. Writing matters to me but it’s of no relevance to some people, most important thing is it matters to me and I would love to explore it more.

“It has been an axiom of mine that the little things are infinitely the most important”-The memoirs of Sherlock Holmes

For some of us little things that matter to us could vary from family, career, education, health, for some of us, it’s clothes, makeup kits, gadgets, flowers, sharing gifts, having get together functions, sporting events, watching movies, singing, name it….However how little it seems, the most important thing is it matters to you, so keep enjoying it, you might look back down memory lane and realise it was a life saver for you  or something bigger. If the things that matter in your life are totally wrong, then give up on it. We have to stop gaining pleasure from things that hurt people so bad.

For me little things that matter are gestures like opening doors for the elderly people, helping someone in need, a little smile goes a long way for me. ..Try to encourage little things in life such as sharing with the less privileged, a little assistance for the needy, kind words to people around you, keeping the environment clean, a little tip once in a while as sign of appreciation.

Challenge yourself today that henceforth each day or trice a week you will buy a plate of meal for someone in need, give out some of your old things, you never know who might be in great need of this things. Take note of your environment and do the needful.Go on a short trip, have fun…

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Warrior Became Daring

It was a mission that seemed impossible to complete.

After the first battle was fought, he could no longer raise his arms for war. Once the greatest warrior, he now wondered—would he always be?

Before him stood a multitude, their faces stormy and fierce, their cries demanding action. Children reached out, and women dared him to grant the freedom they longed for. He struggled to rise, urged on by the crowd, his strength tested—but he fought. He conquered. He set them free.

At last, he found his lover, pulled her into his bruised, victorious arms, and kissed her with renewed fire.

Be daring. Conquer your battles.
Be daring. Rise to every challenge.
Be daring. Claim what is yours!

Be daring to claim what’s yours!