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Wednesday Thoughts

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Willingness to learn is the starting point of achievements.

Enchant your partner with spice he can’t find anywhere else.

Desire the words of wisdom so you may walk in the path of victory.

Neglecting to motivate yourself is setting yourself up for a downfall.

Everything you know about being naughty must be explored in the marital bed.

Success doesn’t come easy but through hard work and determination.

Daydream as much as you like; one day you will face reality.

Almighty, fill me with your grace to stay joyful every day.

You are extraordinary, don’t let darkness into your heart.

 

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Lost In The Crowd

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Gazing into the distance in seclusion

Where thorns are amongst the grains

Standing in the place ought not to be

Lost in the crowd

The path to freedom dimmed by eclipse

Fading In isolation to the unknown

Lost in the mind

Seeking my path to revelation

Eradicate the gloom blinding the truth

To be amongst the living but not the dead

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How Not To Stay Single

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I published a post on my blog two weeks ago on “Why Men Stay Single,” hence based on one of my dear readers who asked me to write on this topic, “How not to stay single,” here we go. But note, I’m not a relationship expert, everything I write on my blog based on relationships, love, and marriage is of my opinion, research, and true life experiences.

It’s a state of mind when you panic about being single, it should be considered as a learning period; Once you accept the position in your life, it will surprise you how other things will fall into place, things you never expected nor planned. Getting married or entering a long-term relationship is not the end to your struggles… believe me; It’s an eye-opener and another learning ground. But the good news is that if you meet the right person who is willing to travel on the same path – you will be able to rock the boat together regardless of the storms…

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If you don’t want to stay single, consider the following…

-Accept that you are single.

-Search your heart since no one is listening to your thoughts and ask yourself if you are ready for a relationship.

-If you feel insecure or have biased feelings about dating but unwilling to stay single, you might need to make some visits to your therapy.

-Stay happy and take time to discover yourself.

-You will make mistakes but never be hard on yourself.

-Acknowledge that no one is perfect.

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-Don’t be selective of men or women to date.

-Build your confidence, work on your charisma, be real.

-Always put yourself together.

-Don’t rush into any relationship because you don’t want to stay single.

-Don’t dwell on the past but look forward to the future with joy on the horizon.

-Don’t make a list of what the ideal partner should be but open your heart.

-Prepare yourself for agreements, disagreements, love, long-term commitment and whatever you might encounter when you start dating.

-Be ready to let go, there will be times you must sacrifice your desires to make your partner happy.

When your ‘OWN’ partner comes, nothing can stop you from being together… NOTHING…

If the relationship doesn’t work out, move on and stay happy, never lose confidence in yourself because it means that you and the person aren’t meant to be together.

Feel free to share your opinions on how not to stay single.

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Words Of Life

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“You say you love rain, but you use

an umbrella to walk under it. You

say you love the sun, but you seek

shade when it is shining. You say

love wind, but when it comes you

close your window. So that’s why

I’m scared when you say you love

me”

-Bob Marley

So long as we are still alive, issues will always arise and we’ve got to tackle them- Eddaz

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Monday Highlights

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What makes me happy on Monday even though it’s always a busy one – is that idea of jotting out my list and highlighting the most important goals I need to achieve. Over the weekend I lounged around the house and immerse myself in happy thoughts watched movies, hung out with my hubby and friends. I needed these moments because it was a challenging week. It’s so amazing how one’s spirits get jolted by spending time with loved ones. Therefore, my Monday highlights include:

Stay Focused.

Build Confidence.

Be extraordinary.

Centered meditation.

Adjusting my creative process to an optimal point.

Cool, collected and calm in every situation.

These are just a few of the highlights, they aren’t my goals, however, are the tools for achieving my goals today and the rest of the week. We are living in a world where everything is evolving at a quick hype and we need to be innovative. I admire people that do this and multi-task.

My advice to everyone this week is to be a game changer and remember when you get to the peak of your career or you become who you ought to be, people will expect you to conform and when you don’t, you will be characterised as being proud; Be yourself, it’s better than being anyone’s doormat.

Have a lovely week people.

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