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Scent Of A Woman

The aromatic scent of a woman

That drives a man out of his senses

Is inevitable! Ineludible!

Sweet fragrance pulling opposite polls

Together in unison

Unavoidable! Unquenchable!

 

Tempted To Touch

The unmistakable feeling that swirls in my head, reeling around like a mirage, bringing the images of kissing, touching, romancing in the whirlwind of the night, tempted to touch just like Eve gave Adam the forbidden apple.

The chemistry that flows between us, the electric current that sparks when I’m about to touch…The jolts of suspense, the ejaculation of sweet smell of roses from my breath; wherever that came from cannot be compared to paradise.

He is the paradigm of ecstacy

The fire from the breath of the dragon

Stamping my feet on the land

Lading with touch of gold

My face covered with drapes of silver

The air that I breath masked with desire

Gripping my heart with his strong hold

Let me sink in the pool of passion

I am a woman of many desires.

They thought it was a phantasy, I thought it was genuine…He thought it was misconception. Everything encompassing the event before my eyes.

I walked out before them, in my eyes that beheld love, longing, urge, craving for the man that I knew was mine, it said it all, then they knew I was not hallucinating, he knew I was the woman…The one he had walked around the surface of the earth searching for…

 

Making the FIRST MOVE on a Man

First you need to understand the term “first move”; It can be something as small as a woman simply making an eye contact with a man, giving him a smile, or a simple hello; Opening the doors of communication and signalling to him that she is open to be approached or have a descent conversation. Have you ladies ever contemplated making the first move on a man?

Don’t get me wrong, I still believe that tradition that men should make the first move, when it come s to the courtship process- there are times when a woman need to take the “bull by the horn,” give him a little push in order to set the cycle in motion.

making the first move on a man

Trust me it fascinates men when the other sex makes a little push. In modern day dating, it has become acceptable for a woman to make that move, so KICK IT ON GIRL. You never know the guy out there dying to meet you or just trying to say a simple hello to you but doesn’t know how to make the move. Open the door for him and allow him to walk through it.

Men sometimes have this flutter in their chest while trying to approach a woman, “Is she with a man?” “will she give me an attitude?” “will she give me a kick?” All this doubts crossing through a man’s mind doesn’t show that they have a low esteem of themselves, it could only be that they are just on the reserved side or they are the shy type, moreover some of them actually don’t like taking no for an answer, it cripples their ego. We all know how men feel about this EGO THING, so don’t even be bothered. That’s just men!!

making the first move on a man

Life is something that we need to take control of in order to create the situations and outcomes that we want. If you sit on the sidelines and wait for prince charming to come and ask you for a dance, you leave time frame in his hands, topping it all up, he might never make that move.

Everything you’ve always wanted is right outside of your comfort zone. All you need is to step outside of it and begin creating the life you want. It won’t be as bad as you think it would be, even if the guy isn’t attracted to you, chances are he will be respectful to you.

A woman who approaches a man stands out; one can determine a few things about her. Her boldness tells that she’s confident, spontaneous, brave, and thinks outside the box.

making the first move on a man

Challenge yourself today or tomorrow, that guy you are sure you really like and would love to spend some time with, why not just develop the confidence, give him a sweet smile,but don’t flirt with him just yet, remember men can be judgmental sometimes. Hmm!

A few hints on steps to take in making the FIRST MOVE:

  • Work on your confidence level. Don’t be too forward, don’t be intimate with him, that could be dangerous at the onset, keep your emotions intact and far away, most of all avoiding saying ” I love you.”
  • Get to know him very well, what his likes and dislikes are, be sure about him but remember don’t flirt with him just yet. If you have concluded that he’s worth your attention, then move on to the next level.
  • Which is to let him know you exist by giving him soft sweet smiles once in a while, once you discover that you are at a few distance apart from each other, and he looks at you once in a while, it signifies he probably likes you. Start conversations with him on topics you might have found out he loves to talk about.
  • If your conversations are going on smoothly then, let him invite you out, if he doesn’t-You make the move; invite him out!! This is where your confidence and patience level is measured. The least that can happen is for him to turn your offer down, which I doubt would happen.
  • Allow the friendship to develop, be natural, let him feel free around you. Avoid getting obsessed with him while waiting!
  • Be patient- wait for him to take the final step of asking you to have a relationship with him, while waiting, ensure it’s not for too long.

Whatever happens next, just believe in yourself….

 

 

The Original Man I Await

I find it intricately erotic when I have an encounter with a man who is sincere, tactically detailed, ready to please a woman.

Originality is in him who takes me to the highest land of pleasure and fulfillment. Where is the woman that says ‘Rock me! Rock me! Rock me baby!’ ; Here is the man that says, ‘I shall rock you anywhere and anyhow you wish me to’.

An original man might be hard to find but he’s out there waiting, steadily moving, taking steps of assurance, full of charisma, willing to please; to fulfill the hunger in the thirsty woman; to lighten the world of the darkened heart of the damsel; to shout hallelujah I have finally found her- eddaz.

Who is the original man I await? The one who will conquer my hard stricken heart. The one who will set me on fire of intimacy. The one who will make me understand the true meaning of ‘A man in love’ The scented man of the male specie that will rock me in his arms, make me feel safe; by all odds I would love to sing hallelujah with him.

Conquered Fear To Love Again

The fears are gone;

the walls have taught me

to stand alone and be strong;

I have the foresight to see that

beautifully adorned treasure even

when it’s coming from afar. 

 Love finds its way quietly into our lives when we least expect it; it blossoms beautifully like a rose. We become weak with the desire to please and be loved, and there’s nothing wrong with that, especially when it’s mutual. But when love is one-sided, anguish sets in.

However, I don’t want to dwell on the anguish. Let us talk about the love that exists between two partners. I’ve written about love many times and the situations surrounding it, but have I truly felt it? Yes, I have—in and out. I’ve experienced its highs and lows, its beauty and ugliness. I’ve felt its thorns piercing deep into my skin.

Now, I’ve reached a stage in my life where, as a woman, I need to break down the walls that have guarded my heart against predators. These walls have been my best friends, my lovers, everything one can ask for—but not the love between a man and a woman. I can feel it knocking on my door, growing louder daily. The doors are open to let the imperfect man come in.

Walk through the walls

Walk on the floor of a banquet,

rebuild a wall that does not shut out,

Plant again the roses of love that befits a queen.

Your Highness! wait, and be given.

Take, keep, and care for it.

once it’s time for harvest,

we shall all be fulfilled forever.