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We Only Need Men To Have Children

I absolutely don’t support this statement nor this action which is becoming rampant in today’s society. Some women have decided to demote themselves by saying all they need men for is to have children. This mind set leading to frivolous actions comes with lots of complications we never envisage. I felt very uncomfortable when a close friend said this to me and had to set her straight.

I’m a woman with needs which doesn’t include stooping low in search of men just to bring innocent children into the world and then zoom off like nothing happened, what would be my explanation to them when they are older.

We need men…point blank…just as men need us but for the right reasons procreation is one of them but not the major reason. Both sexes want to be loved, deserve respect for each other and need someone to lean on through communication.

If dating each other doesn’t work out or the marriage collapsed when least expected, if it’s unrepearable, then try searching for someone else. Despite all actions taken to win a man’s heart in a relationship or gain respect from one’s husband, peradventure it doesn’t work out or isn’t going as we hoped it would, we need to accept where life has taken us to, learn and modify our actions.

Don’t give up on your heart’s desire but do things the right way!!!

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How to Increase Your Sex Stamina

The most embarrassing thing that can happen to a man in a sexually active age is if he gets into bed with his spouse to have sex and just a couple of minutes after the whole excitement of having an adventure, it gets cut short by a premature ejaculation. Have you ever experienced this?

How to increase your sex stamina

Sex is very important to us and should be enjoyed as much as possible but how would we achieve this when aren’t mentally, physically, or emotionally active enough. Your sexual performance is crucial to your relationship, this has been overlooked severally by many and it’s time you decide to say NO to bad sex.

You can increase your sex stamina to some extent by preparing your body, mind and soul…HOW?

If you believe you have a low sex stamina, first thing is to accept that fact, then prepare your mind towards having a fun-filled sex life but be ready to make sacrifices.

How to increase your sex stamina

Next on your list is to start exercising, practice yoga, avoid sex stimulants, get to know your partner well enough, have it in mind that you want to have sex for the right reasons best known to you.

How to increase your sex stamina

Apart from the above mentioned practices which stimulates sex hormones, you need to apply discipline on your eating habits. Hope this works for both men and women.

Live healthy… sex happily.

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You Don’t Get To See Everything

I had a conversation with a woman in her late seventies, we got deep into it and she told me she has spent so many years on this earth travelling and doing all sorts, yet she hasn’t seen it all, then she added to it by saying ‘You don’t get to see everything no matter where you are.’

Her words reminded me of how naïve we can be when we say we’ve seen it all, if only we could control our thoughts as well as actions.

No matter how many thousand miles we’ve travelled

Regardless of where we have been and what we’ve seen

It doesn’t matter how wise or intelligent we are

It makes no difference if we are young or old

We don’t get to see everything in this world.
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Planning Your Outfit For A first Date

It’s perfectly natural when we try our very best to look good on our first date, appearing desperate is something we never want to experience. As hard as it may seem all you need to achieve is to look sexy, beautiful, pleasant, alluring, not only that, confidence is the chief factor of a successful first date. On the other hand, men simply want to look handsome, confident and just be the man that proves a point.

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I find it quite interesting when the guy calls the lady to set up the first date, she gets all excited to the extent that her line of reasoning starts getting awkward, not only that, the preparation stage turns cumbersome, in the sense that, it takes forever for a woman to decide what she wants to wear to impress the man. Women just crave attention that sometimes makes them end up looking overdressed, thereby turning into something I don’t even want to describe. I must say that I’ve found myself in that situation too.

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Men on the other hand usually take lesser time to dress and the outcome is usually impressive. When we are planning our outfit for the first date there are some certain facts to consider, Whatever we chose to wear on our first date must be something we feel comfortable in, should be clean, not too colorful, most importantly have to generate confidence, In addition to that, we don’t want our first date to be the last.

Good luck on your first date.

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My Father’s Dream

My fathers dream

It’s his dream for me to succeed

It’s his wish for me to radiate happiness

It’s his aspiration for me to bloom into a woman

Here I am father fulfilling your dream and mine.

Happy father’s day to all the men out there. Greatness lies within and spreads outwards in strength. I wish you all good health.

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Thin Line Between Love And Hate

When love spikes up the sparkles in a woman’s eyes

When love turns a man into a lovey-dovey

The emblem of love flourishes in a feast

When love exists between the two opposite sex, it creates an atmosphere of joy, peace and ease but when love turns sour and decides​ to say to them ‘their is no remedy I am not returning’…

Shatteres! Anger!……

Hatred doesn’t knock on the door nor does it announce it’s entry; it badges in and knocks down every obstacle standing in it’s way that is not deeply rooted…

She planted a love tree

Left it to flourish freely

He walked towards the tree

Plucked from the tree and ate everyday

He fell in love…

She stopped noturing it

Started to count her head strands of hair

The tree died…

And he stopped coming

There were no more fruits to pluck…

He searched elsewhere for fruits

Hatred created a settlement in the space of the dead love tree

Love always conquers eventually!!!

 

 

She’s Not An Ordinary Woman

Beautiful inside and outside

Endowed with the strength of an eagle

There she goes spreading the warmth of goodness

She’s not an ordinary woman

 

Picking the fallen ones

Cleaning up the alterations that were forgotten

Making life out of the condemned

She’s not an ordinary woman

 

Poking the dark side

Bringing out the light

Making the imperfect awesomely perfect

She’s not an ordinary woman

 

A woman unique, with the heart of gold that brightens up the night, does not question the lack of ability to please but just understands; she covers herself with the armour of patience. She is not an ordinary woman but one to cherish, love and never let out of your life.

 

Making your Office Romance a Success?

Intimacy between the two opposite sex in an organisation is usually as a result of close working relationship. It’s usually common in a work environment where workers spend  lots of quality time with each other, working, sitting, and sometimes chatting together. All this brings about closeness, and sometimes strong attractions which is perfectly normal.

Making your office romance a success?

Office romance takes a lot of determination; some have been a successful love story to narrate, while others have been a total disaster. But of course you need to be cautious if you have to engage in it, especially in situations where the organisation discourages it…

Looking at a scenario where you know the consequences of starting an office romance, yet you can’t resist the chemistry radiating from this sweet, gorgeous, intellectual lady who probably also has an interest in you…

You step into the office in the morning with the mind set of resisting the temptation- The first object that draws your attention is the beautiful lady, and you say to yourself “no I won’t do it”, apparently you know quite well that you are lying to yourself.

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One thing leads to the other, you guys end up dating with both of you hoping it will work- Having it in mind that the human resources must not get to know about it, considering the fact that you are both at a risk of loosing your job, loosing focus at work, reduced productivity, anyone of this can come up as a result of office romance whether successful or not, be rest assured that all isn’t that bad, there are ways to curb this.

COMMUNICATE with each other the basis before commitment sets in so that neither of you gets hurt or misunderstood.

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You both can’t resist the attraction? Go ahead…but be PRIVATE about it, trust me making your relationship in the office public will make you project interesting topics for others. The sweet and savor taste of your courtship will be gone like the whirl wind.

MATURITY will go along way, disagreements of whatever type shouldn’t be brought to the office, it should be dealt with elsewhere. Both of you should learn to agree on important details such as meeting points… Dare not date someone else in the office or your affair will be heading for the rocks. Never ever get carried away with your personal emotions in the office. Do not to stay alone in the same office… converse together as co-workers with other colleagues so that no one will suspect a thing but let it be based strictly on general topics.

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Keep it PROFESSIONAL at all times, never indulge in intimacy inside the office, you can be careless about it and get caught, this won’t be good for your image.

My Female Director Is In Love with Me

I am Rob! The new guy on the block. An expatriate newly employed to set up new strategies of moving the business forward. Everyone sees me as a threat, they aren’t too sure what my mission is at the company, however I am here to set things straight. I don’t take no for an answer and I don’t  fail. Failure went away with the past.

I am at cross roads, stupidly in love with Hilda…The director of the company whom I had to transfer her toyboy since he was annoyingly troubling my thoughts and his unethical behaviour at the organisation was unprofitable. An empty brained good looking idiot.

Hilda deserves better…I love her and will show her the meaning of true love. I will let her know what a real man is..She needs to know what it feels like to be treated like a woman. That ice clouding her chest, freezing her heartbeat, turning her into an emotionless woman with the power to shake an organisation and make men act clueless around her needs to be amended.

My heart beat quickened when I finally saw her walking in to the office hall, through my office glass door..I saw the pain written all over her face, while I wondered how she manages to maintain her balance with those 6 inch heels and the sexual shape that drives men crazy.

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She stepped into my office and broke down into tears while I softly took her in my arms, laid her head on my hard chest and let her release the whole pain while the staff member watched in amazement. She raised her soft heads looked into my eyes and said to me softly..Rob I can’t hold it any longer, I have tried so hard to stay away from you for years, I have tried so hard to work hard to take you off my mind, there’s so much pain in my chest from loving you, after all this year’s I need to love freely even if you don’t love me back.

I was shocked, I felt like my shoes were stuck to the hard floor and I couldn’t raise them, when I opened my mouth to talk, my voice sounded like a frog croaking. I cleared it and finally said to her..”Hilda I have always admired you and have fallen in love with you. I love you from deep within me..You are the woman I have always prayed to spend my life with if you accept” and then I devoured her mouth with a long kiss right there in my office.

Rob built his own organization elsewhere while. He dated Hilda for a while and they got married. Harry was relieved of his duties while he was caught making out with one of the female cleaners in the office at his new location.

Here are the links to the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd part of the stories:

Harry- Oh my sexy female director

Harry –  What my sexy female director did

Harry- My Sexy Female Director Has Done It

Rob-loving Loving my sexy female director

Thanks for reading and hope you enjoyed the stories😍😍

The Desires Of My Babyboy

One day you said to me

Be my girl

You said to me

Be my woman

Then you whispered into my ears

Be my lover

Baby boy I know the desires

That run through your heart

I would be whatever you want me to be

As long as you fulfill my fantasies

Treat me like a woman

Handle me with care