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Boost Your Self Confidence

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I have heard of several instances where self esteem is a problem for so many, it has degenerated to a level so high in the life of an individual that they feel they can’t overcome it. It advances with them to adulthood to the extent that some people find it so hard to perform well in interviews, it makes some people avoid socializing, some find it so difficult to do things that will make them happy-because they think they will never be approved of.

It usually arises from early growth, where parents are being overprotective of the child; criticism is also an element, when a child is being pushed to hard, it makes him loose confidence, parents who criticize their children over every little detail or failure are not only killing their confidence but are also crippling their spirit.We as humans will take cognisance of it and decide to use it then bullying sets in.This can only maim an individual development, self esteem, self knowledge and growth. We don’t want this to happen to any of our loved one…

If you grew up this way, it’s never too late to get out of that bondage, that is what is seems to be…Think positive, be optimistic, never allow criticism get to you. People can’t bring you down, they can only try. Don’t allow your feelings be toyed with, you are the determinant of how people treat you, live your heart into their hands, then you are already under their control for manipulation.

Enhancing your self esteem will pave way in facing challenges, it helps you to meet the right people in the right social gathering, It helps you in development of your writing skills and not giving up in what you believe in no matter how many times you fail at it. You want to blog? You want to publish a book? You want to sing? Why not just take one step of confidence today and try whatever is bugging your mind and giving you sleepless nights as long as its’ not a bad thing…

How do you build self confidence? Say to yourself everyday,”I will try harder today, I will be confident today.” Be bold, take informed risks, challenge yourself, love yourself, always remind yourself that you want to succeed at whatever you do but you can only achieve it through confidence. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Today is Monday! Be confident in achieving success at whatever you will embark on.

Xoxo

 

 

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Reach Out To Them

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Indigent, poverty-stricken

Begging for alms,

Now their survival technique

They cry out for help

Not their fault, deprived

Of their homes

Reach out to them

 

Emotionally detached,

Sad, loneliness has overridden joy

Living in an environment

With fierce combart

They’ve been hurt, deprived

Of the pleasures they deserve

Reach out to them.

 

Abused, battered,

The wicked has shown them hostility

Fear has crippled into them

They hide amongst the crowd

They can’t cry out, deprived

Of freedom they deserve

Reach out to them.

 

Dying of ill-health

From an ailment with no cure

A bad omen for them

Negativity has crawled into them

They are upset, deprived

Of help from those that can offer

Reach out to them.

 

 

 

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Obsessed Over Image

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You stare solemnly

At your sultry image

Obsessed over yourself

Selfishly, but hurting

Thinking the stars will fall

At your feet

The world does not revolve around you.

 

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He lies beneath the surface

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Sparkling clear glamour

Imitating the sky blue

Something lies beneath the surface

Drifting in silent metamorphosis

In depth of pitch black

The soul no one knows

Shallow fierceness that lies

In a man’s heart

Thread softly, be at alert

Do not fall prey to the hunter.

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Just Maybe

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                       Woman

Did you think I would break down?

Did you think I wouldn’t move on without you?

Did you think I would still be the me for you?

 

Just maybe If you had loved me enough,

Appreciated the worthy woman in me.

Just maybe if you had held me tight,

every night, kept me safe in your arms.

Just maybe if you had done it from the back more often,

seen the desire in my eyes.

Just maybe if you had showed me,

the kind of I respect I deserved, kissed me more.

Just maybe if you had kept the light on in my heart,

Exterminated darkness from it.

Just maybe if you had touched me,

In the sensitive areas more.

Just maybe if had been more responsive,

To my desires.

Just maybe if you had,

Read the warning signs.

I wouldn’t have left your boring arse

                                      Man

Just maybe you can give me one more chance,

I would be your all in one.

Just maybe you stay one more night,

I would show you the inspirations in doing it from the back.

Just maybe you don’t turn your back on me,

I would frame love into your eyes.

Just maybe if you remain the one in my life,

I would adore you, devour your desires and relinquish,

The hunger in your heart.

I would savor everyone of your delightful,

dish, dearest honey,

I would never let it even cross,

your mind to match into another man’s arms.

Just maybe if you be my superwoman again,

There would never be an end to love poems.