Looking forward to a successful day,
hoping to accomplish my set goals,
In a horizon of great knowledge.
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This is Life
When I went to school, they
asked me what I wanted to be
when I grew up. I wrote down
“happy.” They told me I didn’t
understand the assignment
and I told them they didn’t
understand life.
John Lennon
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We Only Need Men To Have Children
I absolutely don’t support this statement nor this action which is becoming rampant in today’s society. Some women have decided to demote themselves by saying all they need men for is to have children. This mind set leading to frivolous actions comes with lots of complications we never envisage. I felt very uncomfortable when a close friend said this to me and had to set her straight.
I’m a woman with needs which doesn’t include stooping low in search of men just to bring innocent children into the world and then zoom off like nothing happened, what would be my explanation to them when they are older.
We need men…point blank…just as men need us but for the right reasons procreation is one of them but not the major reason. Both sexes want to be loved, deserve respect for each other and need someone to lean on through communication.
If dating each other doesn’t work out or the marriage collapsed when least expected, if it’s unrepearable, then try searching for someone else. Despite all actions taken to win a man’s heart in a relationship or gain respect from one’s husband, peradventure it doesn’t work out or isn’t going as we hoped it would, we need to accept where life has taken us to, learn and modify our actions.
Don’t give up on your heart’s desire but do things the right way!!!
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Stranger In Countryside
He set out, without being aware of the circumstances
Ascertaining the dimensions of the dungeon
Wondering amidst the hidden vultures lurking around
Four paces to the teasing wall
Two steps away from the vault
Stranger in the countryside
On a journey seemingly set to change doom
Damp atmosphere convulsing limbs
Menace of fearful images ravening above
Antique clocks tickling away without concern
He hurriedly descended on mission of enormous rats
Spirited stranger of achievements
Gone back home with trophy of the brave
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Why We Are Dating Less In The Real World
Dating is becoming more stressful, tell me otherwise…Heartbreak here and there, disappointment, lies, lack of trust, catfishing…yeah right…catfishing but unfortunately people are dating less in the real world of meeting for the first time instead people are starting to meet online which has led to the risk of catfishing but what are we left with?
Knowing about a person online before showing interest seems emotionally comfortable for lots of people. Post your profile, pictures, hobbies, etcetera etcetera…if you don’t like your match move on quickly before developing unessecessary ties. If you are lucky to meet a good match, do a deep research before taking the next stage. It’s tough doing this in the real world cause emotional ties would have been developed already and gets sickening when you can’t break off without feeling weak.
-I personally tried online dating which was way safer for me, call it what you like but I was never catfished, maybe because I was smart about it or call it ‘lucky me.’
-It’s easier to dig around online before finally meeting the person and cutting off the friendship as soon as possible.
-We are dating less in the real world because from various researches, online dating has paid off for many, and me inclusive, although some have been unlucky; apparently is expected.
– its easier not to develop emotional ties which happens too often in the real world.
-From my own perspective dating less in the real world has more advantages than meeting people face to face. Although I might be wrong, I believe if you are smart about it, it would definitely be worth the effort.
Kindly contribute your opinion, it would be appreciated. Thanks.
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