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The Things I Won’t Do For Love

July 21, 2016 eddaz 18 Comments

Love breaks barriers

Love accepts my flaws

Love conquers all

Amour regarde au-delà nuages de doute.

Everyone wants to know what love feels like, the power of that rocket feeling that burns in the heart and swirls your brain is so unpredictable when it gets deep- Deep as in what sense? Love makes us do things we ordinarily wouldn’t do. I believe you must have heard this saying many times,”Love is for fools.” No it isn’t, it only makes us act like fools.

I will do anything for love but I won’t do some certain things…like what? Find out things you shouldn’t do for love.

Never get a tattoo for love

Why would I draw a tattoo on my body just because I’m in love with my partner? What if, when I meet someone else I love as much too, I would put the permanent ink as well,? Until there’s no more blank space left on my skin, and then the whole world gets to know how many people I have dated and fallen in love with.

Signing a deed of sex slave

I’m in love with my partner, he takes care of me, I take care of him, we enjoy each others company. That doesn’t have to result to pleasing him sexually all the time when I don’t want to, no partner should take up the act of ‘sex slaving’

Transforming into a masquerade

Side effects of carefree love is that, it makes you want to over please your partner. Women try to look prettier, overdoing it will make us have too many colors on the face from the make up we use. Remember also ‘Love is patient,’ if your partner loves you for real, he would love your naturalism without you having to turn into a masquerade.

Run out of Town

Love sometimes gets into the system to an extent that one decides to run away from family and friends, ‘love is patient and understanding,’ if you want to be alone with your partner, absconding with him or her won’t solve a thing. It will only complicate your chances of being together for real.

Character assassination

Your partner loves to party, watch football games, blah.. blah.. blah.. Come on, you also want to do the same things, when all your life is about watching movies, reading books, going to the zoo… Compromise, let their be a blend, enjoy each other’s company.

Go on a diet

Hell no, babes, guys. I’m fat for real, love me, lick me, until you want more. Don’t go on a diet for no one, unless you want to, but not because anyone insists that you do so or because you want to look better. Remember beauty is a thing of the mind.

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Leslie-Why I have Sex with My Husband Everyday

July 13, 2016 eddaz 27 Comments

It is absolutely normal for women to feel distant, depressed and agitated after giving birth. Scientifically, the basic element in a marriage is SEX. If you want your husband to act like a man, you need to treat him like a man. Leslie says it all as written down in this article to share with everyone.

I have sex with my husband everyday, not that I go around telling people but I would love to share my experience with others. My man is the “keep to myself type”, he loves to drink, playful and once in a while doesn’t miss hanging out with friends.

I had my first child three years after we got married then became distant for a while, complications set in……boredom, depression, name it. The thing is my husband looks fragile but he’s a lion in bed; I discovered after 2 weeks of not touching each other that something was amiss.

I had just finished having my shower, my husband was in the room starring at his laptop as usual, I came out naked which I had not done in a while; I felt wilted, looked like an overripe pawpaw after my childbirth. I was feeling more confident now as I had lost a lot of the fat.

He looked up, gazed at me like a Tiger that wanted to feed on it’s prey, I got into bed with him, we were both silent for about ten minutes I closed my eyes and started to wonder what was going on in his mind….I could here the clock ticking in my head….. before I could say Jack Robinson, I was in his arms and it was that way everyday like I would never allow a single strand of “hair on my head to be cut off”..

There is something restorative about kissing the boy you love. There are times in his arms when I remember who I am…… Yes, I am a fat mother, cleaner, housekeeper, whatever, but I am also something more, something delightful and completely apart from my roles. I am a woman! Oh sexy lady…..

SEX is so magical, it acts as a cure for so many illness, it helps fight off colds and the flu, You’d be basically immortal is what I’m trying to say when you do it everyday my friends!

Men are who they are. They need to be stripped off hunger, they need to be acknowledged, and they need to go on that sweet journey everyday. Every night after the kids go to bed is a chance for you to be with that boy that used to make your knees buckle, feel shy….. that boy that you used to find it so hard to wait for his phone calls. Remember resisting his touch back then was like resisting the sweet savor taste of CHOCOLATE.

Theoretically, having sex every single day would make you feel younger, fertile, never get sick, relieves you of stress, basically sex makes you a superhero; make that man feel special, let him know he’s still the boy you have always loved and wanted to spend your life with.

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No I’m Not Ready For Sex

July 9, 2016 eddaz 17 Comments

There is this notion that when a woman says NO, she actually means YES. It is absolutely impractical when that assumption is believed and being in existence for too long; When a woman says NO to sex, she sure means NO. Men need to stop this irrational thinking that a woman means yes when she says no. In the actual fact women are known to be the weaker gender, women don’t like being put under too much pressure by men, this makes them give in when a man makes a request.

It’s a connotation of what the man and situation of sphere at that moment that made her voice it out-Why men think women are confused? NO WAY, you just need to give some space, let go…. allow women be who God has created them to be, then the universe will fall into place. You need to start accepting a woman’s no to whatever the case might be so that things won’t eventually get out of hand at the finish line.

Ask yourself what your objectives are, what are you willing to benefit, why do you want to go that far, what will it profit you, how far will it take you, how long is it going to last for, how does it make you feel, how does she feel about it. Does it determine who you are or stand for….THIS IS FOR THE MEN.

Women it’s time you stop getting scared of saying no and stand your ground. You have to learn to say no without feeling any remorse. Learn to be dignified, take responsibilities, don’t fear for your life, the future will take it’s course by the decisions you make today.

Here is a scenario where a man tries to seduce woman, then she moves away carefully, he tells the woman ” I would really love to have sex with you.”

Woman tells man, ” No I’m sorry I can’t, I’m not ready.”

Man starts to put pressure on woman thinking her “no” actually means “yes.”

Man- ” You know I love you and want us to be closer.”

Woman- “Really I need some more time to get to know you better.”

Man- “That’s exactly what I’m trying to say, this is the best and quickest way of getting to no ourselves better.”

Woman starts to give in to the pressure. She smiles softly, feeling the IMAGINARY fear in her heart that she might loose him if she insists on saying NO.

Woman- “Alright just this once, I hope you won’t ever cheat on me.”

Man- ” We are both adults, lets have fun, moreover you are my babe and I can’t hurt you.”

Woman finally gives in. Man eventually continues going around feeling convinced women mean yes when they actually mean no.

Things eventually didn’t work out between them, the woman starts to hurt and blames the guy for using her and putting pressure on her. Things turn out bad. If only the man had respected her decision without coaxing her into giving in.

This is just one of the large number of occurrences between women and men that leads to unfortunate scenes, erupting from YES OR NO.

A gentle man will always respect a woman’s boundaries. Learn to say no and mean it without having to give explanations.

Saying yes just to please someone else is not a true yes, it’s not good for them, and it’s not good for you-Kate Northrup

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The Simple Truth about Love

July 2, 2016 eddaz 12 Comments

That intense feeling that holds your heart hostage, makes you want to cry, laugh, jump, scream….not give a damn…You wake up with that feeling of being in the cloud, better-still sometimes it puts you in a situation of restlessness, like in a fairy tale but the truth is it’s real, it’s not a Cinderella story and you are in for it….Ready or Not?

That tender lily shouldn’t fill either sex’s heart with pain….no, rather, it should make you want to drive long hours to see your heart-throb. When there is love, the absence of the one in your life will affect you and if it doesn’t….be true to yourself and acknowledge that your presence is not important.

Love knows your DEEPEST SECRETS, yet does not judge you…love is fierce enough to make you stand by someone even through the worst times of poverty, sickness, ugly situations, name it… but never waste your feelings on someone who doesn’t value them. They don’t even have to say “I love you”, you can always tell by the way they treat you.

Anyone can give you attention and compliments, but someone who loves you will give you that plus respect, honesty, trust, and loyalty Charles Orlando.

If you don’t love yourself, you’ll always be chasing after people who don’t love you either Mandy Hale.

It’s weird but true to say that someone who really loves you knows the mess you are, how hard you are to handle, your high level of stupidity, your moody shit…but still wants you in their life forever.

Love is beautiful yet ugly, it is perceived and on the contrary rather than being implemented in our daily life, humans have given it a new meaning to favor their hearts desires. Show the true meaning of love!

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