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Leslie-Why I have Sex with My Husband Everyday

July 13, 2016 eddaz 27 Comments

It is absolutely normal for women to feel distant, depressed and agitated after giving birth. Scientifically, the basic element in a marriage is SEX. If you want your husband to act like a man, you need to treat him like a man. Leslie says it all as written down in this article to share with everyone.

I have sex with my husband everyday, not that I go around telling people but I would love to share my experience with others. My man is the “keep to myself type”, he loves to drink, playful and once in a while doesn’t miss hanging out with friends.

I had my first child three years after we got married then became distant for a while, complications set in……boredom, depression, name it. The thing is my husband looks fragile but he’s a lion in bed; I discovered after 2 weeks of not touching each other that something was amiss.

I had just finished having my shower, my husband was in the room starring at his laptop as usual, I came out naked which I had not done in a while; I felt wilted, looked like an overripe pawpaw after my childbirth. I was feeling more confident now as I had lost a lot of the fat.

He looked up, gazed at me like a Tiger that wanted to feed on it’s prey, I got into bed with him, we were both silent for about ten minutes I closed my eyes and started to wonder what was going on in his mind….I could here the clock ticking in my head….. before I could say Jack Robinson, I was in his arms and it was that way everyday like I would never allow a single strand of “hair on my head to be cut off”..

There is something restorative about kissing the boy you love. There are times in his arms when I remember who I am…… Yes, I am a fat mother, cleaner, housekeeper, whatever, but I am also something more, something delightful and completely apart from my roles. I am a woman! Oh sexy lady…..

SEX is so magical, it acts as a cure for so many illness, it helps fight off colds and the flu, You’d be basically immortal is what I’m trying to say when you do it everyday my friends!

Men are who they are. They need to be stripped off hunger, they need to be acknowledged, and they need to go on that sweet journey everyday. Every night after the kids go to bed is a chance for you to be with that boy that used to make your knees buckle, feel shy….. that boy that you used to find it so hard to wait for his phone calls. Remember resisting his touch back then was like resisting the sweet savor taste of CHOCOLATE.

Theoretically, having sex every single day would make you feel younger, fertile, never get sick, relieves you of stress, basically sex makes you a superhero; make that man feel special, let him know he’s still the boy you have always loved and wanted to spend your life with.

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Shattered Glass

July 9, 2016 eddaz 11 Comments

My heart,

Transparent like a glass,

See through my innocent soul.

Trying to pave through my heart?

Tender as it is?

Do you not see?

that mounting on my heart,

shatters me,

to bits and pieces too tiny,

cannot be put back into shape.

Can be shaped back together?

How?

Will it be the same again?

Same way it was before?

Or stronger?

Like starting all over again?

Why then treat heart that way?

When all you have to do,

is to tread with care,

not break heart into pieces,

care for heart as you care for your life.

This post is in response to one word prompt. Glass.

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No I’m Not Ready For Sex

July 9, 2016 eddaz 17 Comments

There is this notion that when a woman says NO, she actually means YES. It is absolutely impractical when that assumption is believed and being in existence for too long; When a woman says NO to sex, she sure means NO. Men need to stop this irrational thinking that a woman means yes when she says no. In the actual fact women are known to be the weaker gender, women don’t like being put under too much pressure by men, this makes them give in when a man makes a request.

It’s a connotation of what the man and situation of sphere at that moment that made her voice it out-Why men think women are confused? NO WAY, you just need to give some space, let go…. allow women be who God has created them to be, then the universe will fall into place. You need to start accepting a woman’s no to whatever the case might be so that things won’t eventually get out of hand at the finish line.

Ask yourself what your objectives are, what are you willing to benefit, why do you want to go that far, what will it profit you, how far will it take you, how long is it going to last for, how does it make you feel, how does she feel about it. Does it determine who you are or stand for….THIS IS FOR THE MEN.

Women it’s time you stop getting scared of saying no and stand your ground. You have to learn to say no without feeling any remorse. Learn to be dignified, take responsibilities, don’t fear for your life, the future will take it’s course by the decisions you make today.

Here is a scenario where a man tries to seduce woman, then she moves away carefully, he tells the woman ” I would really love to have sex with you.”

Woman tells man, ” No I’m sorry I can’t, I’m not ready.”

Man starts to put pressure on woman thinking her “no” actually means “yes.”

Man- ” You know I love you and want us to be closer.”

Woman- “Really I need some more time to get to know you better.”

Man- “That’s exactly what I’m trying to say, this is the best and quickest way of getting to no ourselves better.”

Woman starts to give in to the pressure. She smiles softly, feeling the IMAGINARY fear in her heart that she might loose him if she insists on saying NO.

Woman- “Alright just this once, I hope you won’t ever cheat on me.”

Man- ” We are both adults, lets have fun, moreover you are my babe and I can’t hurt you.”

Woman finally gives in. Man eventually continues going around feeling convinced women mean yes when they actually mean no.

Things eventually didn’t work out between them, the woman starts to hurt and blames the guy for using her and putting pressure on her. Things turn out bad. If only the man had respected her decision without coaxing her into giving in.

This is just one of the large number of occurrences between women and men that leads to unfortunate scenes, erupting from YES OR NO.

A gentle man will always respect a woman’s boundaries. Learn to say no and mean it without having to give explanations.

Saying yes just to please someone else is not a true yes, it’s not good for them, and it’s not good for you-Kate Northrup

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In the Midst of Darkness

July 7, 2016 eddaz 14 Comments

Catastrophic events, trials, tribulations,

Flows in the part of life,

A necessity it is,

Encapsulating darkness to give rise to destruction.

Fought at the war front to break it into fragments,

Rebuffed, declined, refused,

Light is unleashed when the capsule cracks open.

Skin filled with filth of darkness,

Tossed away with spiritual cleansing,

Like the waves washed the shore.

A bright new skin is given birth to,

And Light comes forth.

The heart corrupt with evil,

Calling forth darkness to overtake,

Will break open and through the eyehole shall light find it’s way in,

And shall call out the darkness,

To love, kindness, peace, togetherness, humility.

Nations engulfed with war,

Killings, Kidnappings, Abuses,

Why fill your domain with darkness?

Nothing good comes out of it,

Why seek for the power of the dark side?

Rebuke it, let it be banished,

Receive light for it will take you to the higher side.

Darkness and light have no place together

I hug light tightly to my bosom,

For darkness not to prevail.

Because I belong to the light,

I will not be overshadowed,

World overwhelmed by darkness is for a while,

Light will show forth, it cannot be consumed,

It can never be consumed.

We call out to light in one accord and embrace it like a child.

This post is in response to the one word prompt. Darkness.

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Almost 50-Live a life Everyday

July 7, 2016 eddaz 21 Comments

I was at the shopping mall and decided to indulge myself with lunch after the whole shopping spree. There I sat down at a small round table far away from where I could be disturbed. I looked up and there I saw a nice-looking mature man take a few steps towards me and he said to me across the tiny table, ” young lady, can I join you please,” I answered politely ” yes please.”

A few minutes later he said to me, ” you know… today is my fiftieth birthday,” I opened my mouth in amazement because I really don’t quite know how to put, he looked much older than his age, I told him politely with a smirk across my face, ” wow that’s nice- Happy Birthday,”

While we had lunch quietly he stopped and said to me, ” I wish I had more fun when I was a lot younger,” and he went on chatting, “It looks to me now like time passed by while I was put on hold. I’ve decided regardless of all the pressures I’m under, I will henceforth make this year one of celebration and certainty for myself”.

I actually didn’t know how to respond to that, then I told him you don’t have to regret anything because it’s not too late for you to have the fun of your life. I gave him a few TIPS on what to do, he thanked me for the piece I gave him with a grin all over his face, I simply got up and took my leave.

Let me know if you think I’m crazy, if you want to do any of this things with me or if you’ve already done them and have some tips. I’m determined to make each day of my life pretty awesome and making these goals public I believe is a good first step for me to get on the right path.

This brings us to the point where we need to acknowledge that those of us not yet fifty years of age should “live every day as if it were the last” even those that are fifty and above.

Things I would love to do:

I would love to turn off the internet for a week. I want to know how that would feel like. No twitter, no Facebook, no Instagram, no whats app. I think that sounds nice.