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One Fact About Human

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A conundrum of life I have learnt is that getting to know someone completely is very difficult, If not almost impossible. I actually compare it with a painter painting a picture on a frame…

When you see an artist begin his or her work of art imagining what the final work will be all about…yet you’re still wondering what the outcome will be as the artist continues brushing away…by the middle of the painters work you know you are getting a pretty good idea what the final work will look like, but yet you’re still not one hundred percent sure…and the painter is about to finish his or her work…now you almost know exactly how the concluding work will look like…but in reality you’re still not hundred percent sure until the artist strokes his or her final brush…

Hardly ever in life do we see that special someone’s final picture. That final stroke of a brush that would show us exactly what the person is really about….and so enjoy his or her work of art, but never completely picture it in your mind, and in your heart, until you see that final stroke of the brush…

This is one fact about human we are currently to contend with.

A post written by my friend Carlos Soler

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Valentine’s Day Expectations

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I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex😓😓 just as some are anticipating.

Valentine's Day Expectations

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

Valentine's Day Expectations

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

Valentine's Day Expectations

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

 

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

Today is my nephew’s birthday so I sure will share the love with him..

Happy Valentines Day to everyone out there💝💝💝😘😘😘💕💕💕💞💞💞🎈🎈

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Criticize The Best Out Of Me

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There are people out there to praise you just as their are those to criticize you. Our heart must always be open to accept praises just as it accepts criticism. What we ought to do is to hold it in our hands, access it because sometimes the criticism helps bring the best out of us.

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Accepting praises all the time without also accessing it is dangerous as it can get into our heads especially when we have confused praises with flattery just for what can be obtained from us. We have to pay attention to be able to identify critics that are out there to make or bring us down.

Criticize the best out of me

What I say to critics is to ‘bring it on’, I’m fully open to critics just as am fully open to accessing them and criticizing them critics too😀😀

To be sincere with you there are times I pretend to ignore critics but sometimes deep down in my heart I know they are telling the truth…Though not all of them but I have been able to identify those that are saying the fact and I sit myself down to adjust things. It has paid off so much..

Criticize the best out of me

One thing deep critics, I mean those that have taken it as a profession don’t know is that when they take one step in criticizing someone, the person takes two steps forward in being a better person while they take three steps back in fooling themselves and remaining stagnant…

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Lovingly Wrapped In Comfort

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In the comfort of our own world, we flourish, get wrapped up lovingly so as to be free from the discomfort raging around. Eventually we come out of it and find ourselves back in the harsh realities of life. I have asked myself a couple of times why I have to bend to the heat waves that hit hard at me and inclusive of we humans.

Why can’t I just stand upright at all times when life gets very tough…Yes I do stand firm but I mean ” stand firm at all times like a robot” regardless of how tough the issues are.

I believe I’m not the only one in this situation, so many people are out there asking….Waiting… Wondering…Saying to themselves” I need to be stronger but how? God helps us but we also need to make way for the help to come through.

How do we stand lovingly firm at all times regardless of the tough situations that arises in life?

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The Simple Way Of Life

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Life revolves; it evolves; it involves we human revolving and evolving too else we remain stagnant. Supposedly life seems to become harsh, then what do we do? Do we submit and become a reckless victim? Or do we take our stand and put our feet down? The simple way of life is to assume it’s simplicity, and in a less complicated way, take life easy. Take one step at a time. It’s a journey, not a thug of war even though it appears to be so at times…Life is here for us to enjoy it. REMEMBER!

The secret to having a simple life is to wake up happy, live, be hopeful, always create something to do…Never give space to doubts, reject spirits of depression which creeps in quietly like a thief in the night. Yes life can be unfair, it doesn’t give a damn who you are, cares less about your age, doesn’t recognize your gender. More of the reason why you let life accept the fact by all means that you are hear to stay, here to prosper, here to live and be happy.

Life can be a bitch, wicked entity it can be, filled with evil that has found dwelling places in humans that have allowed it to stay without paying rent, but I announce to life that I am a crazy conqueror, I will not submit to the hardships, the terror by night nor to the evil by day, I will not be brought down but stay up and ahead. I will seize all the available tools provided for me and to me to succeed with each step I take and each single move I make.

I say YES to the simple way of life.