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Heard- The Sound Of Music

February 8, 2017 EDDaz 29 Comments

I believe lots of people have heard and watched the sound of music. It was my favourite romance movie when I was a lot younger which actually got me hooked on it and I ended up watching it a couple of times I can no longer count. The musical romance movie was released back in 1965 and the main actress Maria acted by Julie Andrews was someone I fell in love with and I had a crush on the Austrian widower Von Trapp originally named Christopher Plummer.

If you haven’t watched this movie, please and please you need to get it somehow…It’s the best romance movie I know at the moment. I don’t want to tell too much about it now but….Maria became the governess of the Von Trapp family of Seven kids and along the line she fell in love with their dad the handsome captain…Hmm who wouldn’t?

Maria later got confused about the love thing and tried to go back being a nun😮😮 but was tutored briefly on the things of the heart by Mother Abess meanwhile the other nuns considered Maria as someone they didn’t know what to do with, I guess she was quite a naughty one at the Abbey.

It’s quite a long movie but a very interesting one you would not want to miss any of the act. The music I can still single some till date…

Love can be found in places we don’t expect…Can one ever be ready for it? What do you do when it happens?

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Automatic- Growth Is A Process

January 28, 2017 EDDaz 3 Comments

Growth is a process; it’s not automatic. Love is planted and nurtured until it develops, matures and blossom beautifully- eddaz

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Did I Marry The Wrong Person?

January 23, 2017 EDDaz 12 Comments

If you have recently found yourself asking the questions, bear in mind that you aren’t alone. Several couples do same. The question is why ask such at this stage of your marriage…

Did you get to know each other very well or was there an oversight? Were you guys true to yourself before eloping? Did the love fail in the middle of the journey? Did you guys loose focus somewhere? Sometimes we see the signs before taking the final decision and sometimes we don’t. Whatever happened; we are just humans.

What went wrong?… Remember when you took the vows, you did it because you were sure he or she was the right person for you until death do you apart…Always know that no one is perfect; don’t become too hard on yourself.

Once you find yourself in this dilemma what should be the next step to take? It’s a very confusing and depressing point in life when this questions start coming up, the feeling of being lost, nowhere to go, not sure who to talk to, not knowing what happened to the lover boy or sweet girl you married…It could be very sad.

One thing is certain…“All hope is not lost”… Everything that has happened in this world has happened before to other people and you won’t be the last it will happen to.

Take heart, pick up the bits and pieces where you left off…Think..It’s either you start afresh since you are already in it or you decide to take the easier step which might be the right or wrong one.

What I would do is to take a leap of faith if I still feel the love deep in my heart as long as it’s not an abusive marriage. To be honest with you if the man is violent with me, then I would definitely take a walk until or if ever he drops the violent nature. Meanwhile I would ensure I stay happy and focused.

It’s surely not an easy stage in life but try to stay strong, talk to trusted ones to free your mind, if you have kids, try to keep them happy and away from whatever drama might be occurring. Whatever you do, make sure you are truly happy doing it.

What would you do in this situation?