FRIDAY On My Mind



Friday sweet Friday,

Here you are,

The perfect gift of the week,

Been looking forward to your rebirth,

Generous in assistance to the stressed,

Relief day! We will joyride down the street,

And sing Hallelujah

Thank God it’s Friday.


You are probably thinking, “THANK GOD IT’S FRIDAY,” you aren’t the only one in that line of thoughts, I feel same way too; Knowing it’s going to be a full evening of fun all the way. Are you going to watch a football match? clubbing  with friends? Going for an all night church service? Or is it going to be a lovely night alone with your spouse??

Whatever it’s going to be for you, JUST GET YOUR GROOVE ON – It’s gonna be  #fridayflexnight. Don’t take life too seriously, pressure can really weigh one down, which is most likely what you have passed through during the week. Have fun, it’s going to be a cock-a-hoop weekend ….

 

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Renewal Plans For 2017

The year is fast coming to an end…2016 will be a year well spent and 2017 I welcome with optimism. We probably didn’t achieve everything we aimed to achieve but it’s still time for us to reflect on that and set up a renewal plan for the coming new year.

I must confess that I don’t usually have plans laid out at the begining of a new year but what I normally do is pray into it with high hopes for everything that would make me happy and contented.

Well…I’m doing same again this year because I think that’s my lifestyle and that’s  how it works best for me…Plus I love surprises. One thing I have to put into account for the very important ones I couldn’t successful accomplish is to have a renewal technique on how to reach it and God willing I will get there by breaking down those headstrong walls.

I will step into 2017 because it is a major year for me I must say…Some perculiar things started in my life in 2016 which I wasn’t expecting at all but being hoping for at the back of my mind; now I  will finally attain them which is a done deal.

Would you have a renewal plan for 2017 or just hope for the best…For me it’s both..🎅🎅💞🎈 stepping into 2017 joyously 👣👣👣. Love you all…

Oceanlike Mind Of A Woman

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? hmm. Be informed that the mind of a woman is as broad as an ocean- Whereas for some it’s more than that, so guess what women voice out.

Sex positions, foreplay techniques, past sexual experiences, YES, this discussion is not for men alone, you are probably thinking decent women shouldn’t talk about such but be rest assured that women love excitement and are human too. Now let’s move on–Celebrity gossip, clothes & fashion, latest make-up kit in town, men, relationships…..It keeps going on and on…“men don’t even try to get into the minds of women or you get drowned”.

Women sometimes discuss among themselves the concerns of other people, which could be about family issues, intellectual topics, culture, religious matters, food, child bearing…it’s endless!

They talk about anything and everything. While it’s a fact that women like to discuss the topics above, men shouldn’t believe that is all women talk about because this will tag them as being having a shallow view of women-for men like this, connecting to women would be a problem for them, so be open minded while around women.

The female colony like to chat away their excitement, sorrow, joy, new discoveries, one important thing men should know is that WOMEN talk about this things amongst WOMEN. Thread carefully while trying to find your way into thinking that a woman wants to freely discuss this topics with you. When a woman wants to talk to a man, without question and beyond doubts, she wants to discuss about other matters that belong to men’s ears.

Men, women-topics of discussions,regardless of age, height, color…we all love to discuss about things that we feel like talking about, no one should be judged on what they talk about in excitement or what’s on their mind, plus their is freedom of speech.

A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to, matrimony in a moment- Jane Austen.

 

 

 

 

How The Choices We Make Today Shape Our Tomorrow

The environment we live in has left us with no choice than to make choices, it’s left for man to take a right stand and choose the path that he believes best suits him. The big question is “have you been able able to make the right choices”?

Right from conception we have been faced with different options whether to walk or crawl…Stand or sit…Talk or stay mute. As we mature in age, we continue everyday of our life making choices from what life has introduced to us. This keeps getting more challenging as we advance. Most of us don’t even realise that we need to make choices; a system of conscious belief where people accept what life directs at them as faith has been overemphasized.. Understand that we don’t have to accept everything life throws at us..Note that you always at every point of your life have the right to choose.

The decisions you make today will have a very strong impact on your life in the nearest future, this therefore is the reason why you and yourself have a major role to play in the strategic decision making.

Technology has shed light on hidden patterns of life. it’s pointless when people don’t understand their surroundings and situations now. It has successfully made it optional for people to make use of online dating applications to choose the best opposite sex that suits them as partners; it has helped people in online vocational training where you make choices with your skills ; man has used technology to discover weather predictions which helps you make choices of how to plan your day.

Whatever choices we make today, be it through act of technology, situational determinants, consequential faith, advice from people, heart, our head speaking to us…It will always have an influence on our future. Making negative choices today results to a complicated future while making positive Choices today results to a successful future.

Let’s make a good one today!!!

 

 

A Calm Christmas Prayer

How many days is it until Christmas? 22-23-24…It’s 2 days and roughly some hours depending on your location in the wold. How time flies, I can vividly remember the last Christmas, it wasn’t so exciting, I spent Christmas day in the office, trying to make money into the organisation’s pocket…It won’t repeat it’s self this year… and for all those who will be working on that day, I wish you all the best  and a joyous season.

I have a few prayer request for this Christmas which goes thus:

  • I would like to request for peace and calm all over the world. I’m sincerely tired of the killings and bomb blast when it’s celebration period.
  • I pray for the homeless to be happy this season and not feel left out of the celebration.
  • I pray that those without fruit of the womb gets their prayers answered and enjoy the season without feeling downcast.
  • My heart goes out to those children feeling the wave of poverty in the under developed and war stricken countries…may the Christmas season fill your hearts with joy.
  • I request that those that need lifetime partners get their prayers answered this season.
  • Those with the intention to carry out evil deeds this season will fail…I really request that they fail..

I hope I get an Amen to these requests. They are the desires of my heart this season.

 

The forever sort of love

This is the forever sort of love we deserve if only we learn to love for real and not for sex…

The Entertainment Patrol (and general musings)

I heard this beautiful and sad story today that I wanted to share with you all. Just so you know it’s 100% true. The story revolves around a devoted couple who could not bear to be parted during their 60-year relationship and who died peacefully in their sleep within four days of each other.


Ex-RAF serviceman Edward Davies (who was 84 years of age) had been with the love of his life Louie (82) for 64 years after they met at a dance in 1952.

On October 15, as she lay frail in her hospital bed, Edward held Louie’s hand and told her she was the only woman he had loved, seconds before she passed away.

Four days later, on October 19 – after planning his wife’s “perfect” funeral – Mr Davies also went peacefully to sleep on his stroke ward and never woke up. Their only daughter Anne commented…

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Making the FIRST MOVE on a Man

First you need to understand the term “first move”; It can be something as small as a woman simply making an eye contact with a man, giving him a smile, or a simple hello; Opening the doors of communication and signalling to him that she is open to be approached or have a descent conversation. Have you ladies ever contemplated making the first move on a man?

Don’t get me wrong, I still believe that tradition that men should make the first move, when it come s to the courtship process- there are times when a woman need to take the “bull by the horn,” give him a little push in order to set the cycle in motion.

making the first move on a man

Trust me it fascinates men when the other sex makes a little push. In modern day dating, it has become acceptable for a woman to make that move, so KICK IT ON GIRL. You never know the guy out there dying to meet you or just trying to say a simple hello to you but doesn’t know how to make the move. Open the door for him and allow him to walk through it.

Men sometimes have this flutter in their chest while trying to approach a woman, “Is she with a man?” “will she give me an attitude?” “will she give me a kick?” All this doubts crossing through a man’s mind doesn’t show that they have a low esteem of themselves, it could only be that they are just on the reserved side or they are the shy type, moreover some of them actually don’t like taking no for an answer, it cripples their ego. We all know how men feel about this EGO THING, so don’t even be bothered. That’s just men!!

making the first move on a man

Life is something that we need to take control of in order to create the situations and outcomes that we want. If you sit on the sidelines and wait for prince charming to come and ask you for a dance, you leave time frame in his hands, topping it all up, he might never make that move.

Everything you’ve always wanted is right outside of your comfort zone. All you need is to step outside of it and begin creating the life you want. It won’t be as bad as you think it would be, even if the guy isn’t attracted to you, chances are he will be respectful to you.

A woman who approaches a man stands out; one can determine a few things about her. Her boldness tells that she’s confident, spontaneous, brave, and thinks outside the box.

making the first move on a man

Challenge yourself today or tomorrow, that guy you are sure you really like and would love to spend some time with, why not just develop the confidence, give him a sweet smile,but don’t flirt with him just yet, remember men can be judgmental sometimes. Hmm!

A few hints on steps to take in making the FIRST MOVE:

  • Work on your confidence level. Don’t be too forward, don’t be intimate with him, that could be dangerous at the onset, keep your emotions intact and far away, most of all avoiding saying ” I love you.”
  • Get to know him very well, what his likes and dislikes are, be sure about him but remember don’t flirt with him just yet. If you have concluded that he’s worth your attention, then move on to the next level.
  • Which is to let him know you exist by giving him soft sweet smiles once in a while, once you discover that you are at a few distance apart from each other, and he looks at you once in a while, it signifies he probably likes you. Start conversations with him on topics you might have found out he loves to talk about.
  • If your conversations are going on smoothly then, let him invite you out, if he doesn’t-You make the move; invite him out!! This is where your confidence and patience level is measured. The least that can happen is for him to turn your offer down, which I doubt would happen.
  • Allow the friendship to develop, be natural, let him feel free around you. Avoid getting obsessed with him while waiting!
  • Be patient- wait for him to take the final step of asking you to have a relationship with him, while waiting, ensure it’s not for too long.

Whatever happens next, just believe in yourself….

 

 

Why You Should Take Mondays Seriously

It’s amazing how Monday can make one’s heartbeat jack very fast like a volcano is on the verge of eruption. Have you ever noticed how the atmosphere feels like on the street on this day? You see people trying to get to their work places with this gloomy look of fear or stress on their faces, I really don’t know the name to give to the expression on some faces…lol…

A lot of people have tremendously failed to see what they can actually make out of Monday…to tell you the fact some have secretly turned it around to make it a day to pull the week off to a successful one for themselves…how? Good question

Majority don’t see the package being delivered to them; unfortunately it’s the beginning of the week, a beautiful day in disguise, one with lots of promises of fortunes to come in the week so that you can rejoice over it during the weekend.

This is what we should do: Relax! Set your self out of the crowd; let’s have a change of mind about Monday..henceforth it should be the best days of our lives not only the weekends which should be days to rest…set out goals on Mondays. What are the things you need to achieve during the week?…lay them down in a map manner; have a Monday Mantra; see the big Monday picture; look out for Monday wholeheartedly; love Mondays like chocolate; make it a tradition to make it your special day that will set out your weekly trend; don’t fail on Monday so that it won’t create a negativity for the days to follow but note if you fall, you will rise back again stronger than before…

I hated Mondays but as soon as I discovered the beauty in the shell, I began to see it in a different light and it has worked out perfectly for me…life comes with challenges but the way we handle them determines how they treat us…

Have a beautifully blessed week..😘😘😘