Category Archives: Lifestyle

Oceanlike Mind Of A Woman

Have you ever sat back and listened to a group of women talking? hmm. Be informed that the mind of a woman is as broad as an ocean- Whereas for some it’s more than that, so guess what women voice out.

Sex positions, foreplay techniques, past sexual experiences, YES, this discussion is not for men alone, you are probably thinking decent women shouldn’t talk about such but be rest assured that women love excitement and are human too. Now let’s move on–Celebrity gossip, clothes & fashion, latest make-up kit in town, men, relationships…..It keeps going on and on…“men don’t even try to get into the minds of women or you get drowned”.

Women sometimes discuss among themselves the concerns of other people, which could be about family issues, intellectual topics, culture, religious matters, food, child bearing…it’s endless!

They talk about anything and everything. While it’s a fact that women like to discuss the topics above, men shouldn’t believe that is all women talk about because this will tag them as being having a shallow view of women-for men like this, connecting to women would be a problem for them, so be open minded while around women.

The female colony like to chat away their excitement, sorrow, joy, new discoveries, one important thing men should know is that WOMEN talk about this things amongst WOMEN. Thread carefully while trying to find your way into thinking that a woman wants to freely discuss this topics with you. When a woman wants to talk to a man, without question and beyond doubts, she wants to discuss about other matters that belong to men’s ears.

Men, women-topics of discussions,regardless of age, height, color…we all love to discuss about things that we feel like talking about, no one should be judged on what they talk about in excitement or what’s on their mind, plus their is freedom of speech.

A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to, matrimony in a moment- Jane Austen.

 

 

 

 

A Calm Christmas Prayer

How many days is it until Christmas? 22-23-24…It’s 2 days and roughly some hours depending on your location in the wold. How time flies, I can vividly remember the last Christmas, it wasn’t so exciting, I spent Christmas day in the office, trying to make money into the organisation’s pocket…It won’t repeat it’s self this year… and for all those who will be working on that day, I wish you all the best  and a joyous season.

I have a few prayer request for this Christmas which goes thus:

  • I would like to request for peace and calm all over the world. I’m sincerely tired of the killings and bomb blast when it’s celebration period.
  • I pray for the homeless to be happy this season and not feel left out of the celebration.
  • I pray that those without fruit of the womb gets their prayers answered and enjoy the season without feeling downcast.
  • My heart goes out to those children feeling the wave of poverty in the under developed and war stricken countries…may the Christmas season fill your hearts with joy.
  • I request that those that need lifetime partners get their prayers answered this season.
  • Those with the intention to carry out evil deeds this season will fail…I really request that they fail..

I hope I get an Amen to these requests. They are the desires of my heart this season.

 

Why You Should Take Mondays Seriously

It’s amazing how Monday can make one’s heartbeat jack very fast like a volcano is on the verge of eruption. Have you ever noticed how the atmosphere feels like on the street on this day? You see people trying to get to their work places with this gloomy look of fear or stress on their faces, I really don’t know the name to give to the expression on some faces…lol…

A lot of people have tremendously failed to see what they can actually make out of Monday…to tell you the fact some have secretly turned it around to make it a day to pull the week off to a successful one for themselves…how? Good question

Majority don’t see the package being delivered to them; unfortunately it’s the beginning of the week, a beautiful day in disguise, one with lots of promises of fortunes to come in the week so that you can rejoice over it during the weekend.

This is what we should do: Relax! Set your self out of the crowd; let’s have a change of mind about Monday..henceforth it should be the best days of our lives not only the weekends which should be days to rest…set out goals on Mondays. What are the things you need to achieve during the week?…lay them down in a map manner; have a Monday Mantra; see the big Monday picture; look out for Monday wholeheartedly; love Mondays like chocolate; make it a tradition to make it your special day that will set out your weekly trend; don’t fail on Monday so that it won’t create a negativity for the days to follow but note if you fall, you will rise back again stronger than before…

I hated Mondays but as soon as I discovered the beauty in the shell, I began to see it in a different light and it has worked out perfectly for me…life comes with challenges but the way we handle them determines how they treat us…

Have a beautifully blessed week..😘😘😘

Moody Sunday Feeling Turn Exciting

I got out of bed this morning feeling so moody, cold, tired and exhausted and then I came across the prompt ‘moody‘. Just the perfect topic for me today.

I asked myself how do I jumpstart the day and turn it around, then it occurred to me that I’m probably not the only one feeling this way today….so I decided to put up a short funny movie to liven up the mood. Hope you guys enjoy it too😀😍

 

Worry Less-Achieve More

One way or the other we find ourselves worrying about the little details in life. Such as-“Will I be happily married in future? Will I get to live long,? Will I become famous like Micheal Jackson? Will I be wealthy like Bill Gates?  Will I end up getting married into a royal family or does my husband really love me?”

It’s quite endless what we worry about, and really it’s disturbing getting all worked up by these thoughts. Sometimes I worry about my finances, my health, my career….Then when I’m lucky enough to remember, I jerk myself out by asking, “what the hell is wrong with you girl?”

We have to stop looking under the bed and realize that the monsters are inside us, poisoning our thoughts, mind, body and soul….TAKE CHARGE OF YOURSELF. Strive to work at controlling your own mind or someone else– something else will help you control it.

Several weeks ago, I stood at the window of my living room lost in thought, thinking and looking worried about what to wear to church the following day; my very little nephew walked in and asked me, “auntie what are you doing?” I told him, “I’m thinking”, then he said, “oh,” he walked out… guess what?  Fifteen minutes later, I saw my little nephew lying down on the settee, face up, staring at the ceiling with his arms folded behind his head, and I asked him,” what are you doing?” he said “I’m thinking.”

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This is how contagious and negative worrying can be, I was disturbed about a very minor matter without even realising it. Pondering on the outcome of my Nephew’s act was still part of my worries. Sigh…humans!!

We need to stop worrying about the little details in life else we might end up hurting ourselves health-wise or psychologically. If you are pre-occupied with “what ifs” and worst case scenario, worry becomes a problem, unrelenting doubts and worry can sap your emotional energy and interfere with your daily life or family just like mine.

Looking for solutions when actually there was never a problem can be stressful. Sometimes we can’t help but get caught up wondering if things will be alright.

Worry Less-Achieve More

Now babes, stop worrying about your looks because you are beautiful in and out depends on the way you see yourself. Always tell yourself “I AM BEAUTIFUL”, this will automatically start to reflect in your face and and character.

People! What the hell? We think too  much about Money ! Money ! Money ! Like I hear; ‘money makes the world go round’ hmm; TAKE CAUTION. Think very well about that. Why don’t you rather spend time working hard than worrying over been financially drained or day dreaming.

Life is beautiful, full of ups and downs. Here this….you will never make it to the future unless you stop living in the past and move on to the present.

Thinking about marriage all the time-When will the right man come along? Instead of worrying why don’t you start  building yourself, enrich your life, get busy preparing yourself for -the one-

Worrying is helpful when it triggers, and sends message to your brain to take action in solving a difficult or long term problem. Learn to stay calm… look at life from a more positive perspective.