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One Fact About Human

February 16, 2017 EDDaz 9 Comments

A conundrum of life I have learnt is that getting to know someone completely is very difficult, If not almost impossible. I actually compare it with a painter painting a picture on a frame…

When you see an artist begin his or her work of art imagining what the final work will be all about…yet you’re still wondering what the outcome will be as the artist continues brushing away…by the middle of the painters work you know you are getting a pretty good idea what the final work will look like, but yet you’re still not one hundred percent sure…and the painter is about to finish his or her work…now you almost know exactly how the concluding work will look like…but in reality you’re still not hundred percent sure until the artist strokes his or her final brush…

Hardly ever in life do we see that special someone’s final picture. That final stroke of a brush that would show us exactly what the person is really about….and so enjoy his or her work of art, but never completely picture it in your mind, and in your heart, until you see that final stroke of the brush…

This is one fact about human we are currently to contend with.

A post written by my friend Carlos Soler

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Criticize The Best Out Of Me

February 9, 2017 EDDaz 4 Comments

There are people out there to praise you just as their are those to criticize you. Our heart must always be open to accept praises just as it accepts criticism. What we ought to do is to hold it in our hands, access it because sometimes the criticism helps bring the best out of us.

Accepting praises all the time without also accessing it is dangerous as it can get into our heads especially when we have confused praises with flattery just for what can be obtained from us. We have to pay attention to be able to identify critics that are out there to make or bring us down.

What I say to critics is to ‘bring it on’, I’m fully open to critics just as am fully open to accessing them and criticizing them critics too😀😀

To be sincere with you there are times I pretend to ignore critics but sometimes deep down in my heart I know they are telling the truth…Though not all of them but I have been able to identify those that are saying the fact and I sit myself down to adjust things. It has paid off so much..

One thing deep critics, I mean those that have taken it as a profession don’t know is that when they take one step in criticizing someone, the person takes two steps forward in being a better person while they take three steps back in fooling themselves and remaining stagnant…

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Did I Marry The Wrong Person?

January 23, 2017 EDDaz 12 Comments

If you have recently found yourself asking the questions, bear in mind that you aren’t alone. Several couples do same. The question is why ask such at this stage of your marriage…

Did you get to know each other very well or was there an oversight? Were you guys true to yourself before eloping? Did the love fail in the middle of the journey? Did you guys loose focus somewhere? Sometimes we see the signs before taking the final decision and sometimes we don’t. Whatever happened; we are just humans.

What went wrong?… Remember when you took the vows, you did it because you were sure he or she was the right person for you until death do you apart…Always know that no one is perfect; don’t become too hard on yourself.

Once you find yourself in this dilemma what should be the next step to take? It’s a very confusing and depressing point in life when this questions start coming up, the feeling of being lost, nowhere to go, not sure who to talk to, not knowing what happened to the lover boy or sweet girl you married…It could be very sad.

One thing is certain…“All hope is not lost”… Everything that has happened in this world has happened before to other people and you won’t be the last it will happen to.

Take heart, pick up the bits and pieces where you left off…Think..It’s either you start afresh since you are already in it or you decide to take the easier step which might be the right or wrong one.

What I would do is to take a leap of faith if I still feel the love deep in my heart as long as it’s not an abusive marriage. To be honest with you if the man is violent with me, then I would definitely take a walk until or if ever he drops the violent nature. Meanwhile I would ensure I stay happy and focused.

It’s surely not an easy stage in life but try to stay strong, talk to trusted ones to free your mind, if you have kids, try to keep them happy and away from whatever drama might be occurring. Whatever you do, make sure you are truly happy doing it.

What would you do in this situation?