My thoughts for today says
Good things must follow me
This coming new week
As I rest now to keep my faith high
Happy Sunday.
I am thankful to all those who said NO to me, Its because of them I did it myself – Albert Einstein.
They said no to me some months back but I got something much better than what I requested for -eddaz.com
Happy Sunday to you all.
My thoughts for you….Love Always.
Xoxoxo
Change is part of our daily lives that cannot be avoided, how we react to it is what matters. Accepting change in our lives gives room for the bigger picture. This picture is determined by you and only YOU.
Not accommodating change keeps you fixed in a position you don’t belong. The universe is in a constant change, not moving along with it can leave you behind. Imagine a ball rolling on the ground, moving constantly, your decision not to run along to grab the ball will make you loose it. A little change from that fixed position was all you needed to catch that ball for you to be a winner. Instead you stayed back and watched with fear of running along to catch it, you were scared of loosing or stumbling.
If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living- Gaily Sheely.
Resisting change is a reflection of who you are, accepting change makes you the highflyer-Eddaz.
Reasons why change should not be resisted:
Man resists change due to fear of the unknown. The greatest fear you should have is resisting change, so you are actually scared of what is right in front of you which is harmless, “stare into the eyes of what you fear most.” Stop having that fear of change, it might just be the solution to that knocking headache.
Morale is increased when change is accommodated, staying in the same position in an organisation makes you burn out; do something new that will lead to that change, motivate yourself if you aren’t motivated, “make the change, don’t wait for the change to come.” If you have to study further, then do that. If you have to search for a better job, then do just that.
Accepting to change your location might be what you need to meet -the-one, aha. Face that fear, travel to another state or country if the need arises or if work requires you to do so, it might just be a “blessing in disguise.”
Kindly share with others what change you have embraced in your life and how it felt.
You know what happens when you get sandwiched in between two beautiful sexy ladies who won’t take no for an answer from you?
Get on your knees and pray or go with the flow and get burnt.
That’s the first two options. Third option dive into the sea and get bitten by the sharks.
Never doubt the actions of these two women, don’t feel proud about it. Choose one, and be fulfilled or choose none and run far.
All creatures great and small
Created in the awesomeness of divine
Graceful in structure, given life to survive
Not within the power of humanity
With the hands, their sculpture can only be made
Not even in conformity to nature
Glory in naturality, magnificent
Effortless exquisite splendour
One to behold; proudly speaks
In animal magnetism, perfect showcase of soigné
I am elegant by Nature; wonderfully made.
The strength of courtship between a man and woman lies in the bond between them. What creates this bond is the relationship.
Facing reality, a relationship will do one or all this things to you; it will either kill you, modify, render you useless, make you float with joy, make you feel edgy constantly or decide on the one. The foundation must be built at the onset of the courtship.
I have a friend in dilemma #relationshipheadache. She saw it all but could’t let go, in spite of all the danger signs. It’s a real headache! Realistically if it was you, would you TAKE THE BOLD STEP AND RUN FOR COVER?
Yes you should run for your life! It’s sometimes tough to do but we just have to. Guys, when you dilly-dally in a relationship, you might end up in the ditch. What can be worse than getting involved with someone that is a complete ‘jughead’, you had actually presumed that this person could be the one, and unfortunately turned out to be ‘a devil in disguise’.
Fine, you’ve already gotten into the relationship thinking you have the right foundation but then you start to realise the mistake you made, It’s definitely not too late for you to take your exit.
There are instances where your partner could be forgiven but you must know when forgiveness should be applied and when you should no longer put up with the shit..
Signs you should run for cover:
Negativity
When your partner argues over everything and anything, sees all your flaws, nothing good about you, acts like a drama-queen, makes you feel bad….RUN.
Too Busy
Even President Obama isn’t too busy for his family. Once you start getting this vibes of ‘I’m very busy’ from him, it’s time to quite without giving notice, WHY? Simply because you aren’t important enough, once your partner can do without you..Think!
Can’t be seen in public together
What a shame! Your partner can’t introduce you to friends, so what the hell are you still waiting for..Knock, Knock. Come on wake up, your partner should be proud of you, whoever you are, however you look or whatever you are. It’s not too late to RUN….
Lying Freak
If he says it’s raining and you actually need to go out to affirm if it’s true-Hello? Babes, he’s just careless with your emotions….Your partner will probably tell you “I lied because I didn’t want to hurt you” OR “I lied because I respect you,” It’s a damn lie! If he didn’t want to hurt you or respect you, why did he mess up in the first place? There is no explainable reason for such..
This signs are apparent to a lot of us, but sadly we ignore them because we are so caught up in our feelings, emotions and probably business deal we entered into with our partners at the onset.
Remember define your relationship from the beginning, it’s not too late to do it now before you move too deep into it.
EDDAZ 