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Thoughts- I Think He’s A Married Man

When a man approaches a woman, her first thought is “what does he want?”

When the man opens his mouth to talk to the woman, his thoughts are “I hope she likes me, I don’t think she will turn me down.”

He speaks nicely to her and then she says to herself “I hope he’s single.”

The irony of life is dissapointment flies around unashamedly.

After so much time hanging out, the woman starts to suspect and says to herself “I think he’s married.”

So what do you do next?

It’s left for you to decide…I’ve always had one principle “never date a married man,” He’s not worth your time.

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Missing My Heart

Weaving golden baskets tirelessly

Life interlacing ribbons of crop

Body craving for release

My heart groaning to go back home

Pinnacles of thoughts tiptoeing

Searching for settlement

Love tickling in my heart.

I didn’t get much sleep last night, I was on the phone almost all night with my husband gossiping about everything and making plans for our forthcoming trips. I’m away from home at the moment on a working trip, nevertheless, I’m glad I have the opportunity of writing, although my posting time on WordPress blog has been a little bit disrupted due to work schedule.

My work trip is for about two months, which means I have three weeks left, I miss my husband deeply even though I get to go home some weekends and back to work. It hasn’t been easy working far away from home…..

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Yes Or No To A Second Date

Would you go out on a second date with a guy or lady that farted and belched blithely unconcerned on the first date, other than that he or she is very caring and good looking?

Second-date-or-not

My own opinion is that If I truly like the person, then I would go on a second date and see if the attitude will get better over time or I get used to the shit…

Would you go on a second date or not?

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We Only Need Men To Have Children

I absolutely don’t support this statement nor this action which is becoming rampant in today’s society. Some women have decided to demote themselves by saying all they need men for is to have children. This mind set leading to frivolous actions comes with lots of complications we never envisage. I felt very uncomfortable when a close friend said this to me and had to set her straight.

I’m a woman with needs which doesn’t include stooping low in search of men just to bring innocent children into the world and then zoom off like nothing happened, what would be my explanation to them when they are older.

We need men…point blank…just as men need us but for the right reasons procreation is one of them but not the major reason. Both sexes want to be loved, deserve respect for each other and need someone to lean on through communication.

If dating each other doesn’t work out or the marriage collapsed when least expected, if it’s unrepearable, then try searching for someone else. Despite all actions taken to win a man’s heart in a relationship or gain respect from one’s husband, peradventure it doesn’t work out or isn’t going as we hoped it would, we need to accept where life has taken us to, learn and modify our actions.

Don’t give up on your heart’s desire but do things the right way!!!

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Why We Are Dating Less In The Real World

Dating is becoming more stressful, tell me otherwise…Heartbreak here and there, disappointment, lies, lack of trust, catfishing…yeah right…catfishing but unfortunately people are dating less in the real world of meeting for the first time instead people are starting to meet online which has led to the risk of catfishing but what are we left with?

Knowing about a person online before showing interest seems emotionally comfortable for lots of people. Post your profile, pictures, hobbies, etcetera etcetera…if you don’t like your match move on quickly before developing unessecessary ties. If you are lucky to meet a good match, do a deep research before taking the next stage. It’s tough doing this in the real world cause emotional ties would have been developed already and gets sickening when you can’t break off without feeling weak.

-I personally tried online dating which was way safer for me, call it what you like but I was never catfished, maybe because I was smart about it or call it ‘lucky me.’

-It’s easier to dig around online before finally meeting the person and cutting off the friendship as soon as possible.

-We are dating less in the real world because from various researches, online dating has paid off for many, and me inclusive, although some have been unlucky; apparently is expected.

– its easier not to develop emotional ties which happens too often in the real world.

-From my own perspective dating less in the real world has more advantages than meeting people face to face. Although I might be wrong, I believe if you are smart about it, it would definitely be worth the effort.

Kindly contribute your opinion, it would be appreciated. Thanks.

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