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Fairy Tales Love Stories

Choosing your life partner can sometimes be so tough. When you love someone, you love the whole person, the family and everything that makes that person. When you decide to share your love with a crazy person, you must know that their will be moments that you have to be crazy too, being in love with a sweet person makes everything mouth watering, loving a temperamental person requires a lot of patience.

Regardless of whom you swipe right or left with in the journey of love, make sure you hold onto each other because when the storm comes, it’s either you survive it together or you get carried away by it-Choose your love, Love your Choice. Love is based on commitment, everything you do is to appease, satisfy, help and serve the one you love.

I have a few fairy tale love success stories that I would like to share with my friends out there:

Britney and Daniel

Britney met Daniel when she was in the university and he was a banker, he stayed on the same street where Britney’s parents lived, once in while Daniel would walk over to Britney’s mother’s groceries shop close to the house to buy some groceries and he would stay back to have a chat with her mum until one day Britney got back from school after 3 hours journey and was very tired. Daniel stared at her in disbelief at how beautiful she looked and that was how the journey started, Daniel increased the number of times he bought groceries from the store until he finally met Britney alone in the store. Although Daniel didn’t seem right for her at first and she tried to avoid him a couple of times, but he never gave up on her. He would look for ways to get her alone in the store or down the street to chat with her and make her smile.

One day luckily for him he got her number, called her up a couple of times and started to visit her in school. Daniel waited 5 years for Britney to graduate from University and he finally he proposed, they are together and happy now. It was indeed tough for Daniel during the five years of waiting, but he kept on hard believing in the love he hard for her, Tina loved him more than ever because of his compelling nature, words that came out of him set him aside which thrilled her.

Elvin and Landen

Landen is 69 years now while Elvin is 60 years. I was opportuned to get this story from Elvin who spoke to me excitedly about how she met her husband years back. Dating back to about 35 years, Elvin and Landen met at a a friends party where they got introduced to each other by the celebrant, one thing led to the other and they started to date but a few months after, Elvin realised that Landen was too head strong and temperamental which kind off pissed her off.

Landen had to travel out of the country for 2 years after they got separated. When Landen got back from his trip, he perceived that he couldn’t let Elvin go because he was much too in love with her already and felt her happiness was much more important for him, Elvin accepted him back into her life because she also discovered one thing– her life was too BORING without him, they both knew they had to keep their love for each other to be able to feel the sun from both sides. Even though they have passed through storms in their marriage now, they are still crazily in love with each other with 4 kids that have grown into adults and 5 grandchildren.

Natasha and Zuriel

They were actually working in the same company, Zuriel was an expatriate from United Kingdom and Natasha was working in a construction company in South Africa. Natasha was transferred from one of the company branches to the headquarters where Zuriel was working. She was the facilities manager of the staff quarters management apartments where Zuriel was staying.

I love this story most especially and you will see the reason why. Zuriel took notice of her one morning while she moved around doing her business-her job. She never knew that while he was off work or about to live for the office in the morning, he would move around the compound several times just to see her and admire her, she would just walk by him and say her greetings politely which was what was expected of her.

One day Zuriel was off duty and sat down close to the pool side where she was inspecting the facilities. She looked up and met his eyes on her, she looked away quickly and tried to avoid his gaze. She walked past him without greeting him this time. Second day Zuriel called in sick at work, sat at his usual spot at the lounge, a couple of times he would look at her and smile, she would smile back, this kept on for a while until he asked her out for dinner. Nathasha eventually got a job at another company and they started a proper relationship, their love for each other grew stronger.

Zuriel decided to stay back in South Africa where they got married and her happy together with 2 kids.

Love can CONQUER ALL.

“Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eyes”-H.Jackson Brown, Jr

 

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Harry-What My Sexy Female Director Did

Here is the other part of the story:

I did as I was told, I walked out of the office, Shut down my computer and drove home without opening the white envelope. I kept glancing at it almost every ten seconds wondering what was inside it. When I got to my Sex-0n-the-beach home. I took a few short breath and opened it….I saw nothing, it was just an envelope inside another envelope and inside another empty envelope.

I am the player, not the game to be played– I was tempted to call her but decided against it as she had instructed I call her the following day after cracking the nut; unfortunately I was still struggling with that shit.

I took a stroll down to the seaside, and allowed myself to be taken over by the cool breeze, with my hair tussled and a deep frown across my forehead, wondering what that was all about back there in the office, and with the damn empty envelope. I tried to recall the words she said to me in the office but it made no absolute sense to me, I have never been one to listen to women COO COO into my head, too bad for me, she’s my boss, my employer…. not just any woman.

She’s sexy! RIGHT.…She’s single and successful with lots of rich men flocking around her competing to bow at her feet, but a very tough one she is, whom I have heard several unsettling tales about–such as being a disciplinarian, career woman,intelligent, no-nonsense b..ch 

I got into the office the next day, I placed a call to her but she didn’t pick . About two hours later she called back and asked me to meet her at the head office. That was the first time it crossed my mind that it could be over for me, the mere thought of me loosing my ‘turn a nice dollar job’ made me have a feeling of sensation of coldness run down my spine….

I got to the head office and was allowed into her office amidst tight security armed men. I walked up to her, my heart about to seize. She looked straight into my eyes with a cold expressionless gaze, while she sat back in her sit and asked for the white envelope, I blinked a couple of times and told her that it was empty so I trashed it. She kept mute for a while… said to me, “that empty white envelope represents you Harry, given several chances to be productive in this organisation but still empty, you thrashing that envelope is you simply saying that you can’t work here anymore.” I almost passed out- I tried to apologise for trashing the envelope with the intention of pleading to be more productive at my job.

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She immediately hushed me by placing a finger on my lips that had totally gone dry, and removed it again. She opened her soft pinkish-red lips and said to me, “I offered you this job knowing fully well that intellectually you had nothing to offer this organisation, I AM THE ORGANISATION,  I nurtured you, made you who you are now”…She got out of her sit, walked around me, she bent again, this time around…She held my balls tightly with her long beautiful fingers, all of a sudden the office went dark and I completely forgot where I was or with whom, I heard the sound of blood rushing into my brain…She squeezed softly and said into my ears, “this is mine…it’s time for you to make your contributions to the organisation.”

What should Harry do in this situation? Kindly make a comment.

Harry-Oh My Sexy Female Director

Here is the first part of the story:

I’m Harry, tall, dark, handsome, and single. I’m every ladies dream, at the snap of my finger, ladies run all over themselves to me just to have that sweet savor taste of me. I have lived long enough to survive the claws of the ones that couldn’t have all of me.

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I work in a telecommunication company, with everything at my beck and call; My kind of job is every man’s dream, no stress- lots of pay. All I have to do is to ensure smooth running of the business and anything pertaining to I.T… SO SIMPLE!

Becky, my main sweet babe understands my kind of lifestyle, no complaints, no grumbling, all she needs do, is to maintain her sought after position in my life and play according to the rules of the game, “the strong one will survive.”

My luxurious apartment faces the beach side, ‘Sex-on-the-beach’.… I guess you know what that means. “I am the man,” always OR for the moment? That has never crossed my mind….What gets me going is fun….

I woke up on this faithful day, with the bright sunshine streaming into my room, I had my bath and left home to resume for duties at the office, it looked like it was going to be a promising day.

There, my sexy female director, the CEO, walked into my office, that was her second time of visiting my unit location in three years I have worked there. Suddenly she bent over me while I sat behind my desk, two of her blouse buttons were open at the top, the sight of the silky glowing skin underneath peeped out alluringly at me; she said softly into my ears:

Coo coo the crow cries

When the roof opens

Coo coo , we hear no more

She stepped back while I stared at her behind as she swayed sexily out of my office , my mouth gaped open…I was confused, I had gone numb with cold; witnessing that part of her was an act I had never experienced.

She headed straight to my supervisor’s office who had stepped out on an official mess while she summoned me into the office. She handed over a white envelope to me, and said “I want you to walk out of this office now, shut down your computer, go home and call me tomorrow once you have cracked the nut.”

 

Sensational Kissing Effects

Let’s  talk about KISSING. Face it… a great kiss makes the world dissolve, makes you feel dizzy and curl your toes. Isn’t it exciting?

Hey…. come on -We both know it that a serious TONGUE LASHING kiss triggers a whole spectrum of physiological processes that can boost your immunity and generally spruce up that body you work so hard to keep attractive.

Kissing is a beautiful way of expressing love, passion and romance, it’s one of the intimate unification that keeps people together. “some couples say they can tell if a relationship will be passionate from the onset of the first kiss,” TRUE OR FALSE?

A timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection where partners kiss while using their tongues, regardless of the culture OR status is priceless, you can have your head swirling alors qu’il est fait encore intact.

It’s loathsome when a guy with bad breath comes forward in attempt to kiss me, if that happens, then I would by all odds keep my mouth shut like it’s sealed.

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So guys-ladies before you kiss anyone, make sure it’s someone you know, feel comfortable with and totally trust with your tongue; One who brushes daily…..YES! “hygiene.” We all like to keep memorable moments, this is one of the best opportunities you’ve got.

Kissing Climax

Find the right moment, this can be auspicated with a smile and an initial eye contact or deep eye penetration that speaks volumes, don’t stare too hard, it can emerge as a turn off, make sure your lips are soft, don’t forget to have initially freshened your breath, please try, it’s worth it.

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Move a little bit closer, tilt your head to the side don’t forget that seditious smile, place your two hands on both sides of her head, for you it could be your partners shoulders, as long as you don’t cross the boundaries, dim your eyes like you are about to go into the dream world, Lightly brush your lips over the other persons.

MOVE IN- lock your lips around his, EXPLORE- take your time, GET DROWNED!

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Certain things you must know about kissing is that it makes you live longer, happy, keeps your marriage stronger, it boosts your morale too.

An uncle of mine once said to me that he made up his mind to marry his wife the first day he kissed her, I don’t know how effective that can really be, anyways, it worked for him. Ladies that means we need to gear up our kissing techniques.

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What do you feel about kissing, how do you feel when it happens, lets share opinions.

Kissing isn’t a punishment, it’s free!

The Things I Won’t Do For Love

Love breaks barriers

Love accepts my flaws

Love conquers all

Love is carefree

Amour regarde au-delà nuages de doute.

Everyone wants to know what love feels like, the power of that rocket feeling that burns in the heart and swirls your brain is so unpredictable when it gets deep- Deep as in what sense? Love makes us do things we ordinarily wouldn’t do. I believe you must have heard this saying many times,”Love is for fools.” No it isn’t, it only makes us act like fools.

I will do anything for love but I won’t do some certain things…like what? Find out things you shouldn’t do for love.

Never get a tattoo for love

Why would I draw a tattoo on my body just because I’m in love with my partner? What if, when I meet someone else I love as much too, I would put the permanent ink as well,? Until there’s no more blank space left on my skin, and then the whole world gets to know how many people I have dated and fallen in love with.

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Signing a deed of sex slave

I’m in love with my partner, he takes care of me, I take care of him, we enjoy each others company. That doesn’t have to result to pleasing him sexually all the time when I don’t want to, no partner should take up the act of ‘sex slaving’

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Transforming into a masquerade

Side effects of carefree love is that, it makes you want to over please your partner. Women try to look prettier, overdoing it will make us have too many colors on the face from the make up we use. Remember also ‘Love is patient,’ if your partner loves you for real, he would love your naturalism without you having to turn into a masquerade.

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Run out of Town

Love sometimes gets into the system to an extent that one decides to run away from family and friends, ‘love is patient and understanding,’ if you want to be alone with your partner, absconding with him or her won’t solve a thing. It will only complicate your chances of being together for real.

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Character assassination

Your partner loves to party, watch football games, blah.. blah.. blah.. Come on, you also want to do the same things, when all your life is about watching movies, reading books, going to the zoo… Compromise, let their be a blend, enjoy each other’s company.

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Go on a diet

Hell no, babes, guys. I’m fat for real, love me, lick me, until you want more. Don’t go on a diet for no one, unless you want to, but not because anyone insists that you do so or because you want to look better. Remember beauty is a thing of the mind.

 

 

 

 

Leslie-Why I have Sex with My Husband Everyday

It is absolutely normal for women to feel distant, depressed and agitated after giving birth.  Scientifically, the basic element in a marriage is SEX. If you want your husband to act like a man, you need to treat him like a man. Leslie says it all  as written down in this article to share with everyone.

I have sex with my husband everyday, not that I go around telling people but I would love to share my experience with others. My man is the “keep to myself type”, he loves to drink,  playful and once in a while doesn’t miss hanging out with friends.

I had my first child three years after we got married then became distant for a while, complications set in……boredom, depression, name it. The thing is my husband looks fragile but he’s a lion in bed; I discovered after 2 weeks of not touching each other that something was amiss.

I had just finished having my shower, my husband was in the room starring at his laptop as usual, I came out naked which I had not done in a while; I felt wilted, looked like an overripe pawpaw after my childbirth. I was feeling more confident now as I had lost a lot of the fat.

He looked up, gazed at me like a Tiger that wanted to feed on it’s prey, I got into bed with him, we were both silent for about ten minutes  I closed my eyes and started to wonder what was going on in his mind….I could here the clock ticking in my head….. before I could say Jack Robinson, I was in his arms and it was that way everyday like I would never allow a single strand of “hair on my head to be cut off”..

There is something restorative about kissing the boy you love. There are times in his arms when I remember who I am…… Yes, I am a fat mother, cleaner, housekeeper, whatever, but I am also something more, something delightful and completely apart from my roles. I am a woman! Oh sexy lady…..

SEX is so magical, it acts as a cure for so many illness, it helps fight off colds and the flu,  You’d be basically immortal is what I’m trying to say when you do it everyday my friends!

Men are who they are. They need to be stripped off hunger, they need to be acknowledged, and they need to go on that sweet journey everyday. Every night after the kids go to bed is a chance for you to be with that boy that used to make your knees buckle, feel shy….. that boy that you used to find it so hard to wait for his phone calls. Remember resisting his touch back then was like resisting the sweet savor taste of CHOCOLATE.

Theoretically, having sex every single day would make you feel younger, fertile, never get sick, relieves you of stress, basically sex makes you a superhero; make that man feel special, let him know he’s still the boy you have always loved and wanted to spend your life with.

 

 

No I’m Not Ready For Sex

There is this notion that when a woman says NO, she actually means YES. It is absolutely impractical when that assumption is believed  and being in existence for too long; When a woman says NO to sex, she sure means NO. Men need to stop this irrational thinking that a woman means yes when she says no. In the actual fact women are known to be the weaker gender, women don’t like being put under too much pressure by men, this makes them give in when a man makes a request.

It’s a connotation of what the man and situation of sphere at that moment that made her voice it out-Why men think women are confused?  NO WAY, you just need to give some space, let go…. allow women be who God has created them to be, then the universe will fall into place. You need to start accepting a woman’s no to whatever the case might be so that things won’t eventually get out of hand at the finish line.

Ask yourself what your objectives are, what are you willing to benefit, why do you want to go that far, what will it profit you, how far will it take you, how long is it going to last for, how does it make you feel, how does she feel about it. Does it determine who you are or stand for….THIS IS FOR THE MEN.

Women it’s time you stop getting scared of saying no and stand your ground. You have to learn to say no without feeling any remorse. Learn to be dignified, take responsibilities, don’t fear for your life, the future will take it’s course by the decisions you make today.

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Here is a scenario where a man tries to seduce woman, then she moves away carefully, he tells the woman ” I would really love to have sex with you.”

Woman tells man, ” No I’m sorry I can’t, I’m not ready.”

Man starts to put pressure on woman thinking her “no” actually means “yes.”

Man- ” You know I love you and want us to be closer.”

Woman- “Really I need some more time to get to know you better.”

Man- “That’s exactly what I’m trying to say, this is the best and quickest way of getting to no ourselves better.”

Woman starts to give in to the pressure. She smiles softly, feeling the IMAGINARY fear in her heart that she might loose him if she insists on saying NO.

Woman- “Alright just this once, I hope you won’t ever cheat on me.”

Man- ” We are both adults, lets have fun, moreover you are my babe and I can’t hurt you.”

Woman finally gives in. Man eventually continues going around feeling convinced women mean yes when they actually mean no.

Things eventually didn’t work out between them, the woman starts to hurt and blames the guy for using her and putting pressure on her. Things turn out bad. If only the man had respected her decision without coaxing her into giving in.

This is just one of the large number of occurrences between women and men that leads to unfortunate scenes, erupting from YES OR NO.

A gentle man will always respect a woman’s boundaries. Learn to say no and mean it without having to give explanations.

Saying yes just to please someone else is not a true yes, it’s not good for them, and it’s not good for you-Kate Northrup

 

 

 

 

 

Dealing with Heartbreak

My life is over,“I can’t move on without you”, desperate, confused; You ask yourself, “what have I done wrong?” These are the expression of pains you feel and questions asked when you are heartbroken.

You are not the only one in this TRAUMATIZING situation, it’s part of life experiences, it only strengthens us to face the bigger challenges coming our way, it is non negotiable.

“You can’t keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on.”
- Dan Castellaneta.

The good news is that there’s someone else out there perfectly made for you, to accept you….fat, short, poor, beautiful, attractive, slim-whichever one describes you.

Giving up doesn’t mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go, the right person might just be lurking around the corner, waiting for you- eddaz

If you know it makes you feel better to speak to everyone you know about it, then do it but don’t forget to let go of that feeling and move on…..you might fear that things will never be okay I promise you from the bottom of my heart that they will be okay again. Concentrate your attention on love within you and not on your break up. There is a better life out there with someone else or it might just be a test of faith.

“Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.” – Jean Giraudoux.

This goes out to my Facebook friend and other folks out there feeling sad and very empty right now, we have all been through one form of break up or the other and the good news is that it has brought out a better personality from the experience we had and some of us have been the initiator of the heartbreak which has definitely put the victim on the right path, it’s all part of life…

Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together-Unknown.

I really hope it makes you feel better, stay happy, you will be fine!!!

The Simple Truth about Love

That intense feeling that holds your heart hostage, makes you want to cry, laugh, jump, scream….not give a damn…You wake up with that feeling of being in the cloud, better-still sometimes it puts you in a situation of restlessness, like in a fairy tale but the truth is it’s real, it’s not a Cinderella story and you are in for it….Ready or Not?

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That tender lily shouldn’t fill either sex’s heart with pain….no, rather, it should make you want to drive long hours to see your heart-throb. When there is love, the absence of the one in your life will affect you and if it doesn’t….be true to yourself and acknowledge that your presence is not important.

Love knows your DEEPEST SECRETS, yet does not judge you…love is fierce enough to make you stand by someone even through the worst times of poverty, sickness, ugly situations, name it… but never waste your feelings on someone who doesn’t value them. They don’t even have to say “I love you”, you can always tell by the way they treat you.

Anyone can give you attention and compliments, but someone who loves you will give you that plus respect, honesty, trust, and loyalty Charles Orlando. 

If you don’t love yourself, you’ll always be chasing after people who don’t love you either Mandy Hale.

It’s weird but true to say that someone who really loves you knows the mess you are, how hard you are to handle, your high level of stupidity, your moody shit…but still wants you in their life forever.

Love is beautiful yet ugly, it is perceived and on the contrary rather than being implemented in our daily life, humans have given it a new meaning to favor their hearts desires. Show the true meaning of love!

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