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Loving My Inner Spirit

We all have the inner spirit within us but lots of us have decided to neglect and do things on our own. Your inner spirit is love in itself that wants good things for you. The inner spirit is that very soft voice from the chore that speaks to you but we can’t hear it unless we do the following:

Be silent

I need to talk, listen to me, be quiet please…

Pay close attention

I’m here to guide you, not to confuse you…

Be good friends

I’m your friend, I love you, I care…

Communicate

Do what I say, I’m the good one, not the bad one…

Feel

Embrace me, lean, focus on the light…

Be cleansed

Clear your mind, be positive, be enlightened, be strong.

I’ve always had a strong spirit from childhood but ignored too frequently, growing up over the years I realised it had stayed with me waiting for me to open the doors of my heart which I have done but sometimes the harshness of life beating hard at me makes me loose touch but then I still go back to lean on it in my quiet time which is the best times I’ve had.

The inner spirit is one whom if we chose to develop close relationship with will lead us through our daily lives even when we are lost and can’t see our paths; the inner spirit is not our mind, we don’t tell it what to tell us.

 

When He Cares But Not Ready

I’ve sometimes wondered about this type of men that show women they care about them but say it out so blatantly that they aren’t ready for a commitment and then this type of man that wants to get a girl pregnant before he decides to marry her. Life is a wierd dude…. ain’t it? I was at the salon and heard a group of friends talk about this men in their life.

Guy A.

He’s a cool guy, doing fine in his career, responsible, funny, shows support to the girl he cares about, treats her with respect and not a player but not sure if he is ready to get committed by going into a relationship with her, doesn’t even care much about getting sex or not. Beeps her when she goes quiet.

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My opinion is that this guy has a phobia of some sort. But what can a girl do with this type of guy?

Guy B.

He’s got good career, hardworking bad ass guy, good looking, searching for a girl to get pregnant before he decides to get married to her considering the fact that he has tried lots of girls that haven’t been able to give him one. Lol…even though he already has a kid almost out of college.

He cares but not ready

My opinion is that I’m clueless to what this guy really wants. Or maybe he’s just damn old school.

What’s your opinion about this two guys?

Which Lady Would You Choose

First lady

She’s nice, very caring, sexy, pays attention to your feelings, always there to answer your calls, picks and returns your calls without hesitation, she’s a good girl and can’t hide her feelings towards you, you were off the phone for 1 week and you got enough messages and missed calls from her and she always says she cares about you.

Which ladyb

Second lady

Also nice, doesn’t really pay attention to your feelings, very attractive, sexy, loves to hang out more with her friends, independent, flirtatious lady, you were off the phone for 1 week and she never attempted calling but she always says she cares about you.

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Which lady would you choose to keep dating and consider spending your life with.

When Is The Right Time To Introduce My Boyfriend

It bugs me each time I meet a new guy in my life and then he says to me ‘I would like to know some of your friends or siblings’…Men are known for their hmmm😓 funny attitudes especially in the dating field.

It might also be the other way round…They want to meet him😓😓 and then he turns out to be a moron…

When do i introduce my boyfriend

What if I introduce him to my innermost world of friends or family today and he jilts me tomorrow😮 how would my loved ones feel? They are usually very sensitive about what goes on in our life. Is it timely?

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What do I say to them? And then the next guy comes along and then another and another..What the hell??

Kindly share your opinion on the right time to introduce my boyfriend…

 

Valentine’s Day Expectations

I always believe Valentine’s day shouldn’t be restricted to being celebrated in a day February 14th. It’s a day I presume should be celebrated everyday. It’s a day celebrated in love and could be with anyone not just your lover and must not be restricted to sex😓😓 just as some are anticipating.

Valentine's Day Expectations

To my own knowledge, today should be celebrated specially with the people we have been too busy to express our love to such as spending time with the poor and feeding them, donating to the orphans, friends we haven’t heard from in a while should be called and greeted, family members far away can be sent one or two surprise gifts or called on phone to show love. Show love to the elderly ones, send flowers to the sick ones.

Valentine's Day Expectations

My previous Valentine’s day was spent in the office all day..working..I barely remembered what day it was.When I was a lot younger, due to my naivety I used to think Valentine’s day was for adults and couples only, which made me eager to grow fast, little did I know back then…

Valentine's Day Expectations

As I grew older I began to understand better and placed less significance on that day because I realised I could celebrate it everyday but acknowledged that It needed more emphacies on February 14th and in a different way.

 

How has your previous Valentine’s day been and what are your expectations for today’s celebration?

Today is my nephew’s birthday so I sure will share the love with him..

Happy Valentines Day to everyone out there💝💝💝😘😘😘💕💕💕💞💞💞🎈🎈