Category Archives: relationships

Planning Your Outfit For A first Date

It’s perfectly natural when we try our very best to look good on our first date, appearing desperate is something we never want to experience. As hard as it may seem all you need to achieve is to look sexy, beautiful, pleasant, alluring, not only that, confidence is the chief factor of a successful first date. On the other hand, men simply want to look handsome, confident and just be the man that proves a point.

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I find it quite interesting when the guy calls the lady to set up the first date, she gets all excited to the extent that her line of reasoning starts getting awkward, not only that, the preparation stage turns cumbersome, in the sense that, it takes forever for a woman to decide what she wants to wear to impress the man. Women just crave attention that sometimes makes them end up looking overdressed, thereby turning into something I don’t even want to describe. I must say that I’ve found myself in that situation too.

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Men on the other hand usually take lesser time to dress and the outcome is usually impressive. When we are planning our outfit for the first date there are some certain facts to consider, Whatever we chose to wear on our first date must be something we feel comfortable in, should be clean, not too colorful, most importantly have to generate confidence, In addition to that, we don’t want our first date to be the last.

Good luck on your first date.

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The Undying Red Rose

The undying red rose

Written words of my love for you

In the manuscript of ancient love

Long undying love I have for you

Before I met you

 A letter to my lover

Kept in a sealed bottle to be washed away

Never to be seen or head of again

The undying red rose

Came ashore the edge of the sea

Brought back into my life

The red roses never died

Before I met you

My love for you never died

Could not be forgotten

True love never dies

Real love never give up

Love is patient

I waited…for you…now here…till death do us apart…

 

Dedicated to my Husband…

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Spice Up

Spice up your love life the way you would spice up your food.

In the morning with a sweet tender kiss on your spouse’s lips

Invite romance into your love life in the evening with zest

Adding the right amount with accurate measurements

Be prepared for the right moment to turn around your home

 

Spice up yourself, let the scent of your love fill up every room

The aroma lingers everywhere all day, no one else’s

The moment you realise your spice’s uniqueness

Then you know you’re unique and for your spouse only.

 

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Dating The Wrong Person

You saw her

Chased her

Dated her

Loved her

Married her

Then you should keep loving her…

Just don’t ever stop chasing her….

Are you in a relationship that brings tears, sorrow, doubts, low self esteem into your life?

You used to be a very happy person, fun to be with, ambitious but all of a sudden you don’t even know who you are anymore, you find yourself feeling agitated a lot, your smiles fading day by day.

Dating The Wrong Person

Then you are dating the wrong person….being single is also a virtue you know?

Better be single and be happy than date the wrong person that will suck you dry until you have no more to give.

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Would you wait to meet the the right person to date or stay in that ugly relationship and try to turn things around?

 

Would You Show Love Or Say It

It’s usually a confusing state of mind when women and men in relationships don’t know if to tell their partner they are in love with them or just simply keep showing it without having to say it out.

Some have had sad experiences where when they start saying “I love you” to their partner is actually the stage when the partner starts messing up or taking their feelings for granted because it now sounds like song to their ears.

Remember some of us get tired of even very interesting songs over time while others probably don’t, which is very rare.

Which would you rather do?

•Say it often to your partner ” I love you”?

•Just simply keep showing the love and affection without saying it?

•Do both but how often?